The right way to start a conversation with your elders

Chatting is an art and a knowledge. Especially for young people, chatting is a process of communication and a process of showing one's own style and charm. But many people often make a mistake when talking to their elders, that is, they don't know what to say. Now let’s talk about it. I see many friends being confused by their opening remarks when chatting with their elders, so they are also very helpless. First of all, I want to tell you that you need to communicate politely. There are many ways to chat, and each chat method has its own unique advantages and disadvantages. Everyone should choose the best way to chat based on their own personality characteristics and the age characteristics of the other party. A communication style that suits them. There are many details that need to be paid attention to when chatting. Many times we are secretly having fun while others are talking, but by the time we finish talking, the other person may have started laughing. Therefore, when chatting with elder friends, you must learn to take the initiative to start the conversation. Instead of "I also want to look humorous and interesting like you" like many friends say, you must use this method to arouse the other person's interest in you. interested and further exchanges.

1. Self-introduction

Actually, I think it’s very simple. As long as you find the right topic and give the other person a simple self-introduction when you are talking, the other person may not necessarily dislike you. It doesn’t necessarily mean that I don’t want to talk to you or even chat with you. You just need to remember one sentence: The main purpose of my self-introduction today is that I hope that through such a simple and self-introduction, the other party can have a better understanding of you. For those who don’t know themselves very well, such a simple and self-introduction can indeed shorten the distance between each other. This can also be regarded as a simple and generous way to start by "saying that others like me and I like you". However, before introducing yourself, you still need to determine whether there is a very good interactive relationship between yourself and the other party, and then conduct a brief overview of yourself. Although sometimes some people are not confident in themselves and their surroundings and always complain that some of the people around them are worse than themselves, it cannot be denied that such a simple self-introduction is still very helpful to yourself, so that the other person can also be helpful to you. There will be a certain amount of interest and expectation. And if we don’t consider that this sentence will make the other party feel uncomfortable or even suspect that I have done something shameful, so we need to make appropriate adjustments after the communication before continuing to the next sentence: Then I think everyone must Have you all encountered similar problems? Therefore, when we understand that the other person is a very energetic, cheerful and generous person who is curious about new things, it is best to find some positive energy or even inspirational stories to introduce ourselves to deepen the other person's understanding of him. Not only will this make the other person feel more cordial and friendly, but you will also gain a lot of points through such an introduction.

2. Introduce a few friends

In our daily lives, we often encounter situations where we introduce friends to our homes. In this case, it is best to talk about yourself. Compare your family situation with that of your friends and see how their families take care of their children. Because these are relatively private or private matters. So don’t use this method to tease your friends when introducing them as family members. Because at this time they may think that you are very talkative and that you are a very sensible person. And if you are talking about work or business, they may be more familiar with you, because they generally pay more attention to the issue of privacy, so if you directly introduce that there is nothing in someone else's home, it may make the other person feel disgusted.

3. Summary

Many times, communication between the elderly and young people is very important. If you cannot master the communication methods and chat skills, it is very likely that both parties will suffer. Cause unnecessary trouble. So after thinking about this clearly, we should learn how to chat with them, only then can we chat with them better, and make them feel happy and willing to communicate with us.

So I suggest that as young people, when you want to express your emotions or express your hobbies for other things, you should take the initiative to understand the food tastes that some elders like to eat and how much they usually like these things, instead of Just stay on the surface to understand what the elders have thought about a certain thing over the years. When you are chatting with the elders, you must learn to use the most concise, clear and practical way to leave a good image to the other party, and do not always use that ambiguous way to fool the elderly. When you want to tell your parents what is happening around you, you should avoid discussing specific matters with them directly without any sense of value or extension of the topic. Finally, I wish you all to be happier and happier with your parents! I hope today’s talk about mastering communication skills during chatting can give us young people some help!