People always have to grow up. How can I stand on my own feet when I grow up?

Young eagles always take off, they can't live under their mothers' wings forever, and their children are always far away from their parents. When a person goes to other places to work hard, he has a certain ideology when he grows up, and he slowly wants to be independent and become a self-reliant person. So today we are going to talk about how to become an independent person when we grow up. ? First, self-reliance. ? When we grow up, we gradually have our own ideology and views on things, instead of blindly listening to the opinions of our parents and friends. Therefore, for some small things in life, we should learn to make our own decisions. Parents can't always decide for us what we want to do and learn, so we must start from this aspect. ?

And learn to think independently. When parents discuss problems at home at ordinary times, we can express our opinions appropriately, participate in this decision, and consciously guide ourselves to be independent.

Second, economic independence. ? The development of online hot words has also brought many online words into our lives. Someone who needs it? What a fresh hot word this is. These three words mean that young people have the ability to earn money by themselves, but they also choose to take money from their parents, so they are called? Someone who needs it? .

When we grow up, our parents will be old, so their sources of income may be far less than ours. At this time, we should make ourselves financially independent and be able to support our parents.

Find a stable job you like, have your own source of income, and let yourself have a bank card, a small vault, etc. Never depend on your parents or spouse financially, be independent. ?

Third, the ability to do things? When we were young, we might yell that I don't want to play with you after we had a conflict with our friends, but we would make up again because of lollipops or other snacks. But the grown-up adult world can't be solved by such a lollipop.

We should have our own independent thinking and views on things, have the ability to face and solve problems independently, and not rely too much on family and friends.

Friends, sometimes they can do anything for you, but sometimes they will stab you in the back. Family members can't be with you forever, and they also have their own things to do, so in the end, they can only rely on themselves, and they must cultivate their ability to face problems independently in order to be more self-reliant. ?

Self-reliance is never just talk, you must pay with practical actions.