I don't want to stay in Xiamen. Tell me.

Hey, how are you doing in a foreign land?

Are you homesick? Did you suddenly think of that ta in your heart when you were shopping alone?

Last night, a reader left me a message:

There are too many things at this moment. I want to leave Beijing, but I really have no way or ability to leave. I don't know what I'm insisting on, and I don't know what I'm worrying about. That's enough. I'm a little desperate for this city.

To be honest, I don't know how to answer her.

Advise her not to leave Beijing, because there are too many memories in this city that hurt people.

Advise her to leave. She is still so young. It is a pity to leave in such a hurry, because she has experienced a lot of wind and rain in a strange city.

So, the decision is up to her.

She is also from Hubei. When she left me a message, I said I'll tell you. I sent her my own WeChat, and then she added mine.

At first, she was a little stiff. She simply told me that she was depressed these days after breaking up with her boyfriend.

I said: if you break up because of a little thing, you should think twice before you get back together. After all, running a relationship is really not easy. If it's because of a big event, be decisive, and don't blame yourself or even feel sad for anything. People should learn to grow up slowly and stumble in their feelings in order to meet more perfect love on another road.

Seeing that I spoke so attentively, she gradually spoke and made a few smiling expressions.

She said: I met him on 20 14. We were in the same company at that time. I worked as a receptionist. He worked in the technical department of the company for three years, but he never told me to marry me. I am 25 years old. I can't wait any longer If I wait any longer, I will be old.

I asked: Why didn't he mention marrying you?

She said: I can't guess him. He always said he would get married when he had enough money. I said it was always possible to take me to see your parents. He also said no, he said the time was not ripe.

After a while, she didn't speak. I thought she was offline.

At 2 o'clock in the morning, she suddenly sent a bunch of messages.

She said: I'm sorry, the company was in an emergency just now. The boss temporarily asked us to go back to the company for a meeting. I didn't get home until after one o'clock in the morning ... Then I told him that neither could you. Do you love me or not? Then he yelled at me, then we quarreled, and the next day he sent me a message saying that he was going to break up. And then ..... nothing.

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Happiness, joy or sadness are your own business, which has nothing to do with any city, so your mood depends on your heart.

No matter how red the lights are in the city, if you are unhappy, it is also dark; If the city is windy and rainy again, you will be glad that it is clear in Wan Li.

Buddy Chen Yuhao is a positive example.

After graduation, I thought he would stay and work in Wuhan honestly. As a result, he said he would go to Xiamen.

I thought he couldn't forget his ex-girlfriend and wanted to go to Xiamen to find memories.

Then, he immediately dismissed my idea.

He said: I went to work seriously, saying that I completely forgot is false. After all, we have too many memories in Xiamen, but the more I do, the more I will bravely cross over. You can't fall in one place and never pass through here again. Those who dare to face dripping blood are real men!

This guy is so funny that he almost makes me laugh.

Interesting words, but convincing reasons.

When we are sad, when we see birds singing, we want to throw stones at them.

When I am sad, I want to tear it apart when I see the warmth of the flowers.

When we break up, we can't help blaming our sadness on a city, a house, a street, a coffee shop, a cinema and even everything around us.

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Chen Yuhao is doing well in Xiamen now. I heard that he also runs a photography company.

I've always wanted to go to Xiamen, but I haven't found a chance. To put it bluntly, I am not strong enough, strong enough to have enough money to spend with peace of mind.

Chen Yuhao, however, was born strong and bravely walked out of lovelorn, facing the "reality" with too many cruel memories-Xiamen. He still remembers that he took her to Gulangyu Island six times, Xiamen University three times, Sunlight Rock four times, Zeng Cuo An Village Village twice, Nanputuo Temple 1 time, and other scenic spots more or less once.

He said that he remembered it so clearly because he wanted to remind himself all the time: at that time, he had nothing and was mediocre. When love finally came to an end, he was not good enough.

Now, Chen Yuhao is in love again. On National Day, he said he would take her to see her parents. If all goes well, he said they are going to get married in the new year.

Chen Yuhao did it!

No matter how painful the memory is, what if the city is too cold and sharp? After all, we have to wade across the river and touch the stones.

We can't be bitten by a snake for ten years, nor can we fall down on the same road.

Fall, you quickly stand up, wipe your tears, rally, stand on the top of the city, look up at the stars, and shout loudly:

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