To what extent have you seen the best time between the opposite sex?

Seeing this question, I think what you should say is: "What degree of friendship can the opposite sex achieve without a love relationship?" I have a good say in this question, because I once had an unusual relationship with a heterosexual, and this relationship really didn't have any distractions. My relationship with her can be described as "confidante". How good is it? Let me explain our relationship with a few things.

1, lying in bed without sexual fantasies

I often call her brother, and she sometimes calls me best friend. It should be said that we talk about everything, interests, the past and even sex without taboo. Sometimes we talk late, and we will stay at each other's house. At that time, we all rented single rooms, and only one bed could be put down in the room. Therefore, we sometimes share the same bed, but strangely, we are all normal people, all have secular desires, but only have no sexual fantasies. We talked about this once, and she decided that my ex-girlfriend was her good friend, so if there was anything unclear between her and me, she would feel sorry for my ex-girlfriend. But I can't say why. Maybe I really regard her as my confidant.

A pack of instant noodles can be divided into two parts.

After graduating from college in 2002, I found a job with a monthly salary in 800 yuan. Living in a first-tier city, 800 yuan is really not enough. At that time, the rent in 400 yuan, telephone 100 yuan, transportation 100 yuan, and other expenses such as water, electricity, coal and internet cafes. The money for eating every month is sometimes less than 100 yuan. My confidante works at the front desk of the hotel, and her income is not high. By the end of the month, we were so poor that we could only eat instant noodles. Sometimes, if one of two people has no money to eat, he will go to another person for dinner. I remember once, when my family finished eating instant noodles, I was so hungry that I went to the other family to "pick up food", but she only had a bag of instant noodles. She saw that I wanted something from her, and without saying anything, she ate half. A friend in need is a true friend, and only lovers, relatives or acquaintances can appreciate it.

3. Comfort each other when you are depressed.

I remember that I was lovelorn for less than three months, and she also broke up with her boyfriend. At that time, I saw that she was depressed and wanted to spend time with her. I don't know, the moment I saw her, she plunged into my chest and cried. I didn't think much at this time. I held her until she cried. That day, I helped her buy food and drink with her, just like taking care of a lovelorn brother.

4. Don't be shy about buying a bra.

After all, she is a woman, and sometimes it is inconvenient for boys to be around. But one day she asked me to go shopping, and we went shopping like lovers. When she was in high spirits, she dragged me into a bra shop. I felt embarrassed at the time. After all, I just graduated from college and am still young, but she didn't shy away. Let me give her some advice. What advice can I give? Always standing around with a red face. She looked at my face and smiled. I only had the word "embarrassed" in my heart. I can still understand how I felt at that time.

Those "incredible things" will only be believed if they have experienced them. There are many stories between her and me, but it was really simple at that time, without any distractions. So I have always believed that there is a real friendship between men and women. After reading these stories, I wonder if you are satisfied with my answer?

He and she are college classmates.

When she was a freshman, she took part in the school singing competition, and he was attracted by her wonderful singing. Because it was her first time to play, the equipment was not debugged well at that time, which seriously affected her play. She was awarded the last place in the final grading. He was very angry with her and sent a message to comfort her afterwards. From then on, they became good friends.

University life is very leisurely. Besides studying, he likes to soak in the library and has always had a literary dream. She is very supportive of him and often comes out to comfort and encourage him when he is disheartened. After a long time, they become dependent and talk for a long time every night before falling asleep. But strangely, if they can't finish chatting on their mobile phones every day, they just smile at each other when they meet, as if there is nothing.

In his junior year, he heard that some boys were pursuing her. At this time, his family was experiencing changes, and he began to deliberately alienate her. Because he spent most of his energy on literature a few years ago, he barely passed the professional course, but psychologically he knew that he had actually learned nothing. Facing the coming internship and family pressure, he decided to give up literature and return to the right track.

They went to the same city for internship in their senior year. At first, because I had no income, I was embarrassed to tell my family that I was once in a situation where I had no money to eat. When she learned about him, she called him and told him that she could lend him some money. That Saturday, she worked overtime and he had a rest. She asked him to wait for her at the subway station. After 6 o'clock, it was already dark. She just came out of the subway station and wore the goose yellow down jacket that she often wore in college. He recognized her from a distance. As usual, they smiled at each other and exchanged pleasantries, then he took the money from her. When she was about to leave, she suddenly said to him, "I live not far from here. Please take me back." He sent her to the gate of the community, stopped and left.

When she was about to graduate, she told him that she was with the boy who had been pursuing her for a long time. He asked her when it happened, and she said, "I thought you knew." After graduation, they went to their respective cities and later had their own families, but they kept in touch and gave each other friendly wishes. Some members of the opposite sex may be destined to be friends for life.

Let me tell you what the best heterosexual relationship I have ever seen is! Actually, I haven't seen it, but I have a good friend of the opposite sex myself. To say how good we are, let me talk about it below, and everyone can judge!

I remember that was a few years ago. I prefer to travel, that is, pack my bags and leave. I didn't have much money before, and I basically traveled by green leather train, and no matter how far it was, it was a hard seat. I didn't feel very tired because I was young!

It takes more than 40 hours by train to get out of home and stroll to Hulunbeier grassland. Now think about how terrible it is. But I didn't feel anything at that time, and it was okay to sit and sleep. Maybe this is fate. A big boy opposite me went for a walk on the grassland by himself. We talked all the way. He is very talkative and knows the grassland like the back of his hand. I know nothing about it, but he seems to know everything. Naturally, he got off and took me there. Took me to many interesting places. It's really interesting.

Later, we became best friends, so we made an appointment to travel together. He preferred to go, and so did I. How good we are, we can eat and live together, because hotels in many scenic spots are more expensive. In order to save money, we opened a room, which is not what you think. We travel together, eat together and drink happily together. Seriously, it's good to have such good friends. Maybe you will meet many people in your life, but how many will stay in your heart?

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Sneaking around, shopping hand in hand, chatting until dawn, laughing and dancing while eating, in full view, like nobody's business, it is simply a world of two people.

Is it really as simple as blank paper between friends of the opposite sex? In the eyes of others, the behavior of these two people has obviously exceeded the relationship of ordinary friends. However, people just advertise that they are the closest ordinary friends. Can you believe it?

For example, a former male colleague, he is married and has children! The wife takes care of the children at home, and he works outside. A typical couple lives happily. But? My colleagues prefer to hook up with girls.

A beautiful girl came to our workshop that day. My colleague went directly to talk to others and asked for their contact information.

From then on, the two began to make friends with friends of the opposite sex. Their enthusiasm is completely beyond your imagination. Whether they go to the park together, push the road together, or eat and go shopping together, they never leave each other for a moment. But we asked him if he wanted a virgin girlfriend, and he said, you all think too much! We are just friends of the opposite sex. We chat and talk together when we are free. It is not what you think. Say it again! I have a family, how can I have other ideas?

Oh! Who did he say it to? Who would believe it?

Of course, this is only his personal opinion, but his affairs have not touched everyone's interests, so others don't care! At the same time, we are also wondering, is there really pure friendship in this world?

It was Sunday and everyone got up early to go shopping! But my colleague didn't come out of the room. Coincidentally, my colleague's brother-in-law came to see him on business that day, so? Come early! After all, everyone knows him, so he asked my brother-in-law if he would go out to play.

Another colleague of mine said that he hasn't gone out yet. It seems that he is still moving the bed in his room.

Then we knocked on the door of our colleague's room together. As soon as the door opened, we found that the girl in the workshop was still asleep. Haha! He woke up and said, who knocked at the door so early? I wonder if today is Sunday?

Ha! You say, what is this situation? You always claimed that they were ordinary friends of the opposite sex. Don't guess, but now, at this moment, I want to ask, who would believe that a man and a woman of an ordinary friend can live in the same room? Even a three-year-old baby won't believe it! What this ordinary friend did was so outrageous!

First, being an ordinary friend of the opposite sex is actually very simple. Sometimes, after all, everyone works together and there is not so much business to talk about. As long as both men and women keep a certain distance, there is no need to deliberately arrange to meet and chat with her. In this case, colleagues are even ordinary friends.

Second, simple heterosexual friends don't need to stick together, chat, fight, go shopping or anything, because if this goes on, ordinary friends will become real boyfriends and girlfriends!

Third, since we are ordinary friends, don't think of others everywhere. There is an old saying that everyone does it for himself? Besides, you're just friends. Why do you take each other's affairs so seriously? Will be misunderstood by others.

Fourth, do your own thing normally, give in in the conversation, don't overdo everything, and keep an appropriate distance. This is the standard for ordinary heterosexual friends.

To sum up the above points, my personal opinion is that

It is easy for women to misunderstand each other. There is a saying that those who approach ink are black and those who approach pigs are stupid. If you talk less with the opposite sex, there will be less gossip and fewer words like "love".

Friends need to move around, relationships need to communicate, but between the opposite sex, keeping distance is a simple standard.

1? We can share a bowl of noodles between two people.

I remember it was when I just graduated from college. I just got a job. Basically, I don't have much money every month except for room, telephone, water and electricity, transportation and other expenses, and my friends of the opposite sex are similar to me. Basically, by the end of the month, we all have no money. I remember once when we went out to eat, there was only one bowl of noodles in our pocket, and only one person ate half of it. This friend in need is just a friend in need.

2? When you are in a bad mood, someone can talk to.

I remember when I was just lovelorn, she even broke up with her boyfriend. I saw that she was depressed, so I went to her and wanted to spend some time with her. Unexpectedly, as soon as she saw me, she jumped into my arms and burst into tears. I didn't think much about it either. I have been holding her, as long as I take care of my brother, I will drink and chat with her.

3? There is nothing deviant about sleeping together.

We talk about everything together, including career, love, the future, hobbies and sex. Sometimes we live here until the discussion is very late, because the rented rooms are all single rooms, just one bed, and we sleep together. I don't know her, but I dare not turn it over anyway, because you know what. But I dare not have deviant behavior to her!

Only those who have experienced it will believe that we have many stories together. In fact, I also know that I can't do anything deviant. If so, we won't have pure friendship. We must figure out our relationship. Otherwise, we may not even be friends!

"There is no real friendship between men and women", which makes the repair of fate feel a little tangled. Why would I think that? I wrote my previous experience, so everyone should understand the meaning of entanglement!

"I was 18 years old that year, and I was engaged to the girl I liked because of my" good family and good speech ",hee hee!

/kloc-when I was 0/9 years old, our country called for large-scale employment in the south and signed up for the "Kunshan Electronics Factory in Jiangsu Province" to find my future.

What happened next made me believe that "predestination" was "love at first sight", and even more made me deny my love for my girlfriend at home!

Her name is Macey, and she is two years older than me. Speaking of her acquaintance with Macey, an interesting little thing happened!

"I was assigned to the factory circuit board maintenance department. This kind of work is boring. I hold the welding machine and keep my head down all day. Because of the importance of this kind of work, my attention should be very focused.

I haven't been in contact with work for a month. That day, I was absorbed in my work. Suddenly, a box of moderate size hit my head, which really made me realize what "shock" is.

Out of aggressive nature, I was just about to get angry when a gentle word came, "I'm sorry, I accidentally hurt you with too many boxes in my hand."

What a sweet voice!

I took my left hand off my cheek and looked back. Wow, this beauty is amazing:

"If the face is peach blossom, the figure is slim and tall, although wearing tooling still can't hide the elegant temperament ..."

Facing herself in a daze, the beauty smiled shyly and said, "Do you want to go to the infirmary?" ? I immediately awake incoherent said:

Of course I am willing to help you. Come and give me something. "Ha ha, you listen to wrong. I said to go to the infirmary to show you. "

I said awkwardly, "Nothing, by the way, which department are you from?" ? What's your name? How old is it?

Hearing this, she laughed even harder, revealing a cute little tiger tooth and saying:

"My name is Macey, from the operation department. As for age, it's a girl's secret. Get to work and we'll talk. Your transformation has come. " At that time, I didn't know where I came from, so I asked Macey for contact information.

The first weekend I met her, I couldn't resist the "adolescent impulse" and made an appointment with Macey. She also "arrived as scheduled." Through further understanding that "Macey was attracted by my handsomeness and humor when she first met me", she would like to make friends with me. Don't get me wrong, we are just good friends of the opposite sex.

In the following days, Xiu Yuan no longer felt empty because his girlfriend didn't come to Jiangsu with him, but lived a happier and more fulfilling life.

"Women may be more attracted to the opposite sex they like." Macey called me as soon as he got off work, and then they either walked and ate together, or drank drinks and talked about life together in the park.

Every time I get paid, Macey will give me a surprise! I myself objected to buying things for her, saying that I had just worked for a long time and I couldn't spend money indiscriminately. I am really a sensible girl.

Although our relationship is so close, in the first few months, we never "crossed the line" because Xiu Yuan knew there was a girlfriend at home.

One night after half a year, two people were walking and chatting in the park. Suddenly, Macey didn't leave, so she asked herself what happened. She didn't answer either. I preached again, "Little thing, did I say something wrong? Are you angry?"

"Women are really emotional animals," Macey sobbed. Out of the complex psychology of love and friendship, she came forward and wiped her tears. She suddenly hugged me and said to me:

"I really love you, don't you have feelings for me? I've been dating for more than half a year, and I don't even have a confession. Are you worried about your girlfriend at home? "

"In the face of this situation, I am both happy and annoyed. I'm glad that the beautiful woman fell in love with herself. What bothers me is having a girlfriend at home. If I really accept it, how should I face it? "

"You are better than her everywhere, but I have a hard conscience. Besides, why don't we be friends? It will be different after more than half a year. Have a good time? "

No, no, I really can't live without you. What do you want me to do when I leave you one day?

Hearing this, I was "speechless".

At this moment, an unexpected thing happened to me. Macey stood on tiptoe and kissed me, vaguely saying, "You are mine, and no one can take it away."

Xiu Yuan really loves her and cooperates. ...

However, in the end, "reason overcame impulse" and it did not develop further.

He said to Macey:

"You are the most beautiful scenery in my life, but people can't live without conscience. It's really beautiful to be a lover with you. What would my girlfriend think? In case of an accident, I will have a hard time in my life. "

She asked again, "Do we really have no chance? I'm willing to go home with you and explain to that girl, don't miss our fate, okay?

I thought about it and said to Macey, "This is really impossible. I wish you a better boyfriend. " .

Macey heard that, bring into tears loudly say:

"How did I treat you? You are so cruel, baiwenhang ",then turn around and leave.

This is the first time I have seen her angry, and it is also the first time I have seen Macey's tall and straight posture and listless walking posture. Out of concern, I followed her back to the dormitory before returning to my residence.

I thought that Macey would get over it in a few days, but from that day on, Macey stopped answering my phone, let alone playing with me. Even later, she couldn't help thinking about her, and Macey would say that she didn't know me!

A month later, when I went to see Macey again, her department manager told me that she had resigned.

"I suddenly feel that the sky is falling. Although I have been ignored, at least I can sneak a look when I miss her. Now ... but fortunately, I don't have that much trouble.

However, the thoughts in that heart have not decreased with the passage of time, but have become more serious. "

Two years later, I went to her hometown of Ningxia and learned that she married an Anhui person in a hurry last year. ...

"Maybe she really hates herself in her heart, otherwise how could she be in such a hurry about the' wedding event'?

How can there be pure friendship between men and women? If Macey and I didn't like each other, would it last so long?

After we are sure that we can't be together, why can't we be friends as before? The deeper you love, the deeper you hurt.

"I don't know, I just look at it according to my own ideas. Macey may really know the answer to this topic. "

I hope she is "happier than me"!

I met a girl at school, and because she didn't do it at that time, she was married by her buddy. It feels like a mental explosion!

I didn't know her when I first entered campus. Just because she had a lot of luggage, I took my schoolbag and moved his luggage to the dormitory with distress. I left a QQ before I left, which was very popular when we were young. (Now I am 25 years old, but when I grow up, I use WeChat more. ) We chatted on the first day, ... and then three years later, unconsciously, QQ had a logo, and we usually talked about everything. It's not surprising that we started talking shyly at first, and then started telling dirty jokes. We often go out to play. In the eyes of others, we are like a couple.

One year, we agreed to travel together and scrimp and save when we were at school. On weekends, we go out to do part-time jobs and put more money in a bank card. This card is hers. We saved more than 5,000 yuan a year to travel to Yunnan. In order to save money, we opened a room without any skin relatives. When she takes a shower, it's very open. In a room, we were naked and did nothing. We joked with each other and talked about each other's bodies for a week (I regret it now, I am still not a man).

After graduation, I went out to work, and we still worked in the same company (together). I also met a male colleague who is now a good friend. Yes, he married her.

During her pregnancy, her husband (my buddy) sometimes didn't have time to take care of her and called me to help her with the dishes. At the vegetable market, people thought we were husband and wife, and then we ate with her family (I don't have a girlfriend yet ...).

Eat together, go shopping together, go to work together, count? I am a big man, and friends of the opposite sex can be better than buddies. Do you believe me?

Share a three-bedroom, two-bedroom house with my buddy and husband. We don't work in the same company. My buddy and his wife have different working hours. My buddy goes to work at eight, and his wife and I go to work at nine. The four of us have a very good relationship. Strangely, my buddy's wife and I like shopping, my buddy likes to stay at home and play the glory of the king, and my wife likes playing cards. Everyone has different hobbies except the two of us.

Everyone knows everything and is at ease with each other. Every time we go shopping together, people think I'm her husband. Help her move things, eat together, sing and skate, almost like a couple. Our friendship is very simple, that is, our relationship is like brothers, and no one believes it.

It's really happy to have friends of the opposite sex. Do you? Don't get me wrong!

I think the best heterosexual relationship is "confidante" and "confidante", and it is the best time to keep such pure friendship.

I have a friend who has been friends with her for more than ten years. After work, as a translator, every time he returns to China, he will come to my city, cross the street together, sit in the restaurant and eat exquisite snacks and talk about the recent situation. He doesn't have to worry about calling himself fat and black. When he doesn't want to talk, he will feel particularly cordial when he is quiet. After marriage, every time he comes to our city, he will invite me and my husband to get together. This is his philosophy of doing things, just right.

We are deskmates in high school, in his words: you at the same table. At that time, he got good grades, was humorous and smart, played basketball super well and was handsome. Wherever you go, it is an obvious goal, which conforms to the aesthetic vision of most young girls. When most girls like him, I play tricks on him and hide his books. He must be looking for books everywhere in the first ten minutes of each class. Once I said that your book was left in the dormitory and didn't come back, and he really believed me. Or take up his class time to tell me math problems, although I don't understand at all ... When a girl chases him, he will ask me: What do you think? I will say: you are so black, so lazy, so stupid, it is good that someone likes you!

After the college entrance examination, we are much closer and have more contact with each other than last time. We are the kind of people who know each other very well, and our eyes can understand each other tacitly. By chance, he sent me a screenshot of our chat, and I saw that the background picture was me. At that moment, people who feel so careless also have a careful side.

Sometimes I feel ups and downs, and he will chat with me until late at night, having a good time every time. I helped him chase girls. When he was lovelorn, I spent some difficult times with him.

The last time he came to Shenyang was the day after he returned to China and the third year after my husband and I got married. After dinner, he handed me a big red envelope in the waiting area where he escaped from the secret room, which was heavy in his hand. He said: I can't attend your wedding when I get married. I can't be blessed anymore. I must give it to you myself.

Some people say that the so-called "confidante" and "confidante" means that a person plays the fool to the end and refuses to admit that he was killed.

I think there is pure friendship between the opposite sex. And beyond the distance of friendship and beyond the boundaries of friends is ambiguity, which will change the definition of "friend".

Do you believe that the best time for the opposite sex is like siblings and lovers? I have two with me. They are all my classmates. The best time is their first year out of school to work. They are all brothers and sisters.

I remember that the year when I graduated from school was the worst year of unemployment. They live in a big rental house with other villagers. When looking for a job, we all look for it together, talking and laughing. Sometimes when walking, the man suddenly breaks free, and the woman immediately runs, and the woman immediately rushes to jump, holding her head in her hands and laughing and continuing to walk. Sometimes when a woman walks, she suddenly jumps on a man's back, covering her ears and screaming, pretending to be riding a horse. Tired of walking, holding hands into the store to buy drinks is also regardless of you and me, you bite me, this scene is hard to see if it is not a couple. Once in the process of job hunting, a woman was hired by a foreign-funded factory as a warehouse manager, which was a good job at that time. Because the quota is limited, men can't get in, so women give up decisively. You know, at that time, no matter which factory posted a recruitment card, there were people looking for jobs everywhere, and it was very difficult to find a job.

Money is not everything, but you can't do anything without money. Everyone knows the scene of just leaving school, let alone having fun. It is good to keep three meals. It's even clearer if you are from the rural areas after 70 s and 80 s. At that time, both of them ate two yuan for fast food and one yuan for breakfast. When paying, either a man or a woman never cares. Once I heard from a man that I didn't know that a woman had no money. When they paid for the meal, they pointed at each other and smiled knowingly. Needless to say, they know there is no money. So the man felt in his pocket, and there were only two yuan left, so he had to return one, and they had a meal together. After eating and walking out of the restaurant, both of them ran away with a smile.

In those days, they all told me one after another, admitting that they really have a tacit understanding, are full and happy. Better than brothers and sisters, but not as solemn as brothers and sisters Better than a lover, but without the love of a lover. In fact, they really haven't been in love together.