At the beginning, my married mother-in-law owed 200 thousand foreign debt, and now she wants me to pay it back. Should I return it?

My husband and I are college classmates. We have been married for two years, and now we live with our mother-in-law. Husband is a single-parent family with a brother. My husband's brother got married and had children two years earlier. My husband has a good personality and has always been tolerant of me. I also took a fancy to his personality at the beginning, and now my personality is still very good after marriage. We have been married for two years, but neither of us wants to have children. We want to struggle for two years before we are young.

When we first got married, my mother-in-law only gave me 50 thousand bride price, saying that it was not easy to bring up two children by myself, and I didn't save any money. My parents think my mother-in-law is reasonable and understands her, so 50 thousand yuan is 50 thousand yuan, and there is no more to say. My parents gave me a lot of dowry when I got married, including a car, so my mother-in-law kept saying that 50 thousand was too much after I got married. After marriage, we lived with my mother-in-law. As for my husband's younger brother, he rented a house outside and refused to take care of her.

In fact, the mother-in-law's eccentricity is not obvious before marriage, but too obvious after marriage. For example, relatives send fresh fruits and vegetables from the countryside, and my mother-in-law will give them to my eldest brother and sister-in-law at the first time, and then pick out the bad ones and bring them to us to eat; Big brother loves gambling. Every time I lose money in gambling, my sister-in-law keeps the money from him, so he will ask her mother-in-law for it, and her mother-in-law will give him the living expenses given by her husband every time. Big brother doesn't need to give his mother-in-law living expenses or take care of her. He can also ask her for money to gamble at any time. It is really hard for me to understand why my mother-in-law is so eccentric when she is obviously her own flesh and blood. ......

Now my mother-in-law lives with us. My husband and I are going to work. My mother-in-law does nothing at home. She goes for a walk every day. She goes out to eat at noon. I have to buy food, cook and wash dishes after work. Occasionally, I heard from my neighbors that my mother-in-law had gone out for a walk to help clean my eldest brother's house. I couldn't understand it at that time. My husband and I raised my mother-in-law, and instead of helping us with housework, she went to help my eldest brother and sister-in-law with housework?

I saw my mother-in-law sitting in the hall after work the other day. When she came back, she seemed very anxious. Let me sit down and tell me something. "Mother-in-law, what's wrong?" "Do you have 200,000 yuan in your bank card?" I looked at my mother-in-law and wondered why she asked. "yes. Mother-in-law, why do you ask this? " My mother-in-law suddenly took my hand. "My mother-in-law owes 200,000 yuan outside, can you help me change it?" I was a little shocked to hear what she said, 200 thousand?

After my husband came back, I told him about it. My mother-in-law told her husband that this was what we owed before we got married. Because my eldest brother lost in gambling, she went outside to lend him 200 thousand, which has not been returned yet My mother-in-law wants me to help her pay it back, but why? I didn't spend the money and I don't owe it. Why should I return it? I made it very clear to my mother-in-law and husband that I can't afford to pay back the money. Why should I? Seeing me like this, my mother-in-law always said that she shouldn't have given me 50 thousand bride price at the beginning, saying that she lost money, and now I don't even help her pay back the money. I only left a sentence for my mother-in-law, "mother-in-law, if I borrowed the money, I will definitely pay it back;" But I didn't borrow money or spend it. If you want to find it, you have to find your big brother. Why should I return it? No way! "

Finally, my husband negotiated with my eldest brother and paid back half the money. At first, my eldest brother was very disdainful. My husband told him that if he didn't pay back now, he would have to pay back 200,000 yuan himself, and he wouldn't help him share it. My eldest brother agreed. After this incident, my mother-in-law still lives with us, but her attitude towards me is not very good. She still goes to my big brother's house to help every day, and I don't care. She can do whatever she wants.