Tell me about the ending of stay-at-home mom.

After the online celebrity Xiao Qiang's father's divorce was hotly searched, many media focused on the issue of "taking care of children".

Maybe some friends don't understand who Xiao Qiang's father is. Let me give you a brief introduction.

Dad Xiao Qiang is a blogger of a short video platform, who specializes in shooting and recording himself and his baby's Vlog and sharing it with netizens.

Dad Xiao Qiang used to be an office worker, but because his wife complained that the children were not easy to take care of, he exchanged identities with his wife and asked her to go out to work and take care of the children at home. This area has been around for over a year.

Over the past year or so, netizens have witnessed that Xiao Qiang, a smart and agile working person at the beginning, has become a full-time dad with a unshaven beard who only runs around the children and is exhausted every day.

Dad Xiao Qiang bluntly said in the video that he had never felt the hardship and tiredness of a stay-at-home mom before he became a stay-at-home dad.

He feels that there are only children in his world, and he has lost contact with society. In addition, sometimes when he gets along with his family, his wife's incomprehension makes him unacceptable.

Therefore, after taking care of the children in Xiao Qiang for one year, the marriage of the young couple came to an end. This ending is really embarrassing.

In short, the news of Xiao Qiang's divorce made many people turn their attention to their families and saw the hardships and helplessness of stay-at-home fathers and stay-at-home mothers.

Yue Nan, the host of a program in Hubei, commented on Xiao Qiang's divorce: "Xiao Qiang's divorce certificate has made many people feel deeply, and it is really' who takes care of the baby, who is weak'. A big man is completely humiliated by this trivial hard work, let alone a woman? "

The host's point of view is very pertinent and has won the support of many netizens.

Families need husband and wife to run together, and only by supporting each other can they go further, otherwise it will only bring endless pain and suffering to families and children.

How many stay-at-home mothers didn't come all the way from teenage girls? They also want to be young and beautiful and have their own time and life.

But for the sake of children, they hold up half the sky with their thin shoulders, and naturally they need to be respected and recognized by their partners.

Perhaps another bar spirit jumped out and said, how tired can a woman be with her children at home? Every day is melodramatic!

The pain and shame of childbirth have been bothering me.

Since my mother got pregnant, half her foot has been in the jaws of death. After pregnancy, Ma Baohui suffered for ten months because of her out of shape, loss of appetite and pregnancy reaction.

During pregnancy, there are various taboos that can't be touched, otherwise it will have a serious impact on the fetus.

On the day of delivery, the parturient should not only endure the unbearable pain of ordinary people, but also be at the mercy of the doctor in the delivery room without dignity.

Some people may say, put up with it for the children. However, even if these emotions are pressed to the bottom of my heart, they will still haunt me in the dead of night.

Can't a mother shed tears for her suffering?

(2) Tired of running around with the baby for 24 hours.

After the baby is born, mothers face another challenge.

Newborn children need their mothers most, not only to feed their children, but also to change diapers, make milk powder, take a bath and so on.

In addition, the child can't talk, and can only cry to express his discomfort. As a novice mother, in the face of all this, it is inevitable that she will be in a hurry and turn around her children 24 hours a day.

Sometimes, I can't even sleep well at night. As soon as the child cries, he will get up at night to feed the baby.

Even the machine needs to be charged. And stay-at-home mothers rely entirely on love to generate electricity.

3 disrespect and incomprehension between husband and in-laws.

Some mothers sometimes make mistakes when taking care of their children, which leads to danger or accidents. At this time, her husband and in-laws who don't usually take part in child-rearing jumped out and accused Ma Bao that she couldn't even take care of a child.

At this time, mother's helplessness and pain, who can see it? Isn't that enough to bore Ma Bao?

(4) The collapse of children's "calling their mothers constantly"

Presumably, every mother once had the fear of being dominated by her children's constant call for her mother.

The mother became a full-time nanny for her children for 24 hours. As soon as the child calls her mother, the mother will be ready to see what the child has done.

If this is not tiring, then I propose a toast to you!

Therefore, taking care of children is a very tiring thing for mothers. Without the help of family, it is a very painful thing for Ma Bao.

(1) offered to help Ma Bao share the childcare task.

As family members, what should we do to help stay-at-home mothers? First of all, we should take the initiative to help Ma Bao share the childcare task.

Remember these two key words: "initiative".

Family members should not wait for their mother's help, but should take the initiative to ask Ma Bao to share the childcare task.

At the same time, as the father of the child, the wife's husband also has the same childcare responsibility. Therefore, it is even more important to take the initiative to help his wife complete the child-rearing task.

(2) give Ma Bao love and care.

Family love and care is one of Ma Bao's advantages in caring for children.

If the family can respect Ma Bao's efforts and see Ma Bao's fatigue, give Ma Bao their own care and help Ma Bao to raise their children together.

I believe everyone can see my mother's pain and fatigue. If you have a mother around you, please give them the greatest kindness, because they are really not easy.

Daily question: Are you a stay-at-home mom? Have you ever broken up with your baby?

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