Action description about being late for school

The day before my son MengMeng entered the park at the age of 3, I bought him a shoulder bag and put things like toothbrushes and towels in it. The little guy jumped up and down excitedly, as if to travel around the world.

I crouched down, looked into his eyes, and solemnly agreed with him: "Don't be late anyway."

This may be the first non-negotiable rule in his life. My serious expression made him a little scared and nodded doubtfully.

From small class to large class, he has never been late once in three years, so he is deeply loved by teachers.

When sharing parenting experience at the parent-teacher conference, some parents thought my requirements were very harsh: "Oh, it's normal for children to be late in the morning because they are so young!" " "Kindergartens generally jump in the morning and do morning exercises. It is enough for children to eat in kindergarten. What does it matter if they jump or not? "

I beg to differ. Being late for school seems trivial, but the negative impact on children should not be underestimated.

First of all, it is not conducive to the cultivation of children's concept of time.

Entering the park is the beginning of children's collective life, but it is the best time to cultivate the concept of time. If children don't form the good habit of punctuality in kindergarten, how can they adapt after school?

Secondly, it affects children's physical development.

Children are late to enter the park, miss morning exercises and breakfast time, neither exercise nor eat breakfast on time. Faced with this situation, some parents will buy steamed buns or other snacks for their children, but because it is too late and close to kindergarten lunch time, it will affect their appetite. After a long time, it will not only affect children's digestion, but also cause endocrine disorders.

Third, it is not conducive to children to develop a strong character.

Children refuse to get up in the morning, parents can't be soft-hearted, and they can't condone their children being late, because children's perseverance needs to be cultivated from an early age. Don't let children feel that they can give up or escape anything if they have difficulties.

Finally, destroy the teaching order in kindergartens.

Children who are late will disrupt the pace and arrangement of teaching, and the attention of teachers and children will be affected, undermining the continuity of teaching activities. At the same time, children who are late will be rejected by children.

Ms. Jing, the director of the kindergarten, agreed with my strict requirements: "In early education developed countries such as Britain, France and the United States, kindergartens have zero tolerance for being late. If the child is late, parents will be asked to take the child home that day. "

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It's not late to enter the classroom 10 minutes in advance.

The day before MengMeng went to primary school, I asked him to enter the classroom 10 minutes earlier every day.

"Why?" Meng Meng's eyes widened. "The teacher only asks to get to school on time. It's not too late to step on the bell and enter the classroom! "

I asked him, "If you step on the bell and enter the classroom, when can you start reading early?" Do you want to put away your schoolbag first, and then take out your textbook to read the text? When is the homework due for each subject? When does the class representative collect, sort out and count the homework handed in that day? Do the students on duty need cleaning? If dictation is needed in the morning reading class, should children review and prepare in advance ... "

Meng Meng was tongue-tied.

In fact, the harm of being late for school goes far beyond what I described.

For example, being late for school is equivalent to "standing up" the whole class and teachers. It is impolite and can be forgiven once or twice occasionally, but the habit of being late will definitely be looked down upon. Will the students invite him to play ball and go for an outing? Does the teacher dare to appoint him to do things? Will anyone vote for him in the class cadre election? Over time, children will break away from the group.

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The important advantage of not being late for school.

Children are not late for school, of course, not just parents' requirements for their children. Parents must take concrete measures to help their children form the good habit of not being late. Usually, I do this:

1. Stay up late is not allowed.

After Meng Meng went to middle school, I asked him to finish his homework before 9: 30 pm. 10 After washing, he went to bed. This requirement forced Meng Meng to form a good habit of doing homework as a test paper, and his study efficiency was high, and his test scores were always among the best.

2. Science wakes up, assisted by music.

Before going to kindergarten, Meng Meng was a "difficult-to-get-up" family, especially in winter, when she crawled out of the hot bed, she always cried. My way is to wake him up half an hour in advance so that he can have a buffer process. At the same time, I will play light-paced music, with the volume increasing from small to large, urging Meng Meng to get up quickly. As for music, of course, it is the music in Meng Meng's favorite comics.