Be your own strong backing.

A young man's character is like an unruly wild horse. They despise the past, are supercilious and go to extremes. Dare to innovate without estimating the actual conditions and possibilities, and as a result, reforms often fail because of impetuousness, which leads to greater disasters. Older people are just the opposite. They are often satisfied with what they have done, thinking more than action, and speaking more than decisiveness. In order not to regret afterwards, I would rather not take risks beforehand. -Francis Bacon, English Renaissance writer and philosopher.

Before everything is completely successful, you must hold your horses and stick to it until the last moment. Be sure to believe in your own strength, don't be shaken by other people's rumors, start to doubt yourself, and set obstacles for your own success. Always believe in yourself, support yourself, encourage yourself, be your strong backing, and don't regret even if you fail, because you have tried! -Formerly known as Shi Hengxia, Sister Furong, Internet sensation.

Regret proposing marriage, just like you are Scottish fast dance, slow dance and five-step dance: when you start proposing marriage, you are as enthusiastic, fast and full of fantasy as Scottish fast dance; When it comes to getting married, you should follow the rules, just like slow dancing, sticking to rituals and empty words; Then I regretted it, dragged my tired feet and began to jump five steps, jumping faster and faster until I was exhausted and fell in the grave. -Shakespeare, English Renaissance playwright and poet

I lost my virginity, my first love, my Jiangdong in this chase. But fortunately, I didn't ask anyone for help, coquetry or compromise because of what I lost. I put up with the price I should bear. Including the love that I once thought was dirty, including the sacrifice and dedication that I thought the great flag was meaningless. I can't judge whether it is worth it now, but I don't regret it. -Formerly known as Li Dian, Dean, a female writer of China youth literature, Farewell to Heaven.

She is at the age of making a decision. At this age, a woman begins to regret being loyal to a husband she never loved. Her beauty seems to provide her with an opportunity to make a final and urgent choice between being a mother and being a woman. Life that seems to have an answer has become a problem at this moment, and the magnetic needle of the will trembles for the last time between hoping to experience * loving life and finally succumbing to fate. Then, the woman made a dangerous decision, either to live for her own destiny and be a woman, or to devote herself to the fate of her children and be a mother. -Austrian writer Zweig

Deliberately let them suffer from time to time, but be careful, this should be when the child is happy and knows that the person who hurts him is good to them. At the time of implementation, on the one hand, there should be no traces of anger or unhappiness, on the other hand, there should be no sympathy or regret; In addition, the pain caused should be borne by children, not resentment or misunderstanding. Always take care of your child, love him, let him know that you love him purely, and then he can gradually get used to putting up with your extremely painful things and rude treatment, without flinching or complaining. The softer the child is, the more opportunities he has for this kind of exercise. -British philosopher John Locke

When the family was poor, there were four people sitting in the room, only a bag of semi-instant noodles. I haven't eaten. Here comes another man. The four of us regret it-why don't we eat early? The man said happily, today is Thanksgiving! Damn, there's nothing to eat. How do you feel? He said, let's go to church! We are not religious. What church are we going to? He said, alas, there is food in the church on Thanksgiving Day. We're going crazy. So five people rode three bicycles straight to the church. When we get there, there are really sweets and biscuits. Just go in. Let's go up and have a crazy meal. Nobody cares. So I left a good memory. The following Thanksgiving, we went to a buffet again! ! ! I had a nervous breakdown. Eat like a mad dog. -Luo Yonghao, founder of Niubo.com.

One day at a time. Eat more if you have food today. If you have something to drink today, drink more. As for "tomorrow", it's tomorrow. Eat, drink and be merry in a luxury restaurant today, and you may die in the sewer tomorrow; Today is the lover in the powder pile, and tomorrow may be the drunk who was kicked out; Today I am a spendthrift, and tomorrow I may be a poor boy tired of lying in the corner. Things change, who knows what his "tomorrow" will be like? Therefore, being a man should cherish and grasp the present, and only the present is the most real. Don't wait until you lose it to regret why you didn't cherish that "past" -martial arts novelist Gu Long's "The Sound of Knives in Border Town"

First, I'm not a celibate. I don't want to make banners. Maybe earlier, for example, when I was in my late teens and twenties, if I had entered family life earlier, I might not be who I am today. Of course, history cannot be assumed. I have also had personal emotional experiences, and I don't regret or dislike them, because all the experiences are memorable. These emotional experiences have enriched my life and brought me more kindness than hatred. As for marriage, at this age, I think, firstly, I am an independent person with an independent income and a career that can be settled down. Of course, I also have good expectations for marriage. I want to say that I still have hope, but I want to tell you another thing. I have always been prepared for disappointment, because I think there is hope only if I am prepared for disappointment. But maybe I'm not particularly prepared. -contemporary female writer Tie Ning