Will the old man feel scared when he dies?

When my mother died, she was not afraid. She didn't eat or drink half a month in advance, and said that she would go clean for 15 days. When she left, she was very peaceful. She asked her if she was sick, but told me not to touch her. She said that when I touched her, she couldn't walk steadily, and her thoughts were clear and she was not confused at all. It was a wonderful life. My mother has been helping others all her life.

My husband's aunt, who left the day before yesterday, got cancer and spread. She is only in her fifties. She loves beauty very much and is very nice. It was about four years from her discovery to her death. She always held her breath half a month ago. When she arrived at the hospital, she said that her lungs were inflamed. I think she has metastasized to her lungs. She received infusion for about ten days. Later, she couldn't discharge any liquid, and her hands and feet were swollen like steamed bread. Someone went to the hospital to see her in the morning. If you talk to a child, the patient must understand. When the doctor comes, he will hold the doctor's hand tightly and keep muttering, the doctor will save me, the doctor will save me, and she will not let go of her hand. She is eager to live. Maybe normal people can't feel her fear, her powerless struggle and her inner fear. The doctor will save her, give her an injection, give her an injection, give her an injection. Later, relatives said, don't let her. When she breathed her last breath, someone covered her face with a piece of paper, and she knew she was scratching with her hands. Later, she felt cruel and waited until she died. The clothes she is wearing are from her hometown, and she is only in her fifties. Life is like this. Take care of your health, don't indulge, don't sell regret medicine.

Will be afraid and don't want to leave. I saw it with my own eyes when my mother-in-law was dying. The day before her death, the quilt was lifted one by one. You build fast, she lifts fast; I stayed up all night. When nursing in the morning, she said she didn't want to eat; It was almost eleven o'clock at noon when my mother-in-law shouted, "I'm not leaving!" " ... I'm not leaving! "Legs are kicking, hands are playing in front. It seems to be fighting against black and white impermanence. After a while, stop shouting! Stop fighting! ..... Mother-in-law is gone! She went to heaven without pain or trouble.

Should be afraid

My father left suddenly, and it was only seven hours from the hospital to his death.

My father had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage. He arrived at the hospital at 9: 30 in the evening, got an injection and woke up half an hour later. He wants to go home by himself, but he is definitely not in the hospital, saying that there are still many things at home. At that time, the doctor advised him to go home, and that would have to wait until the bottle of medicine was finished. My father agreed. Just after 12 in the morning, everyone else was confused. The doctor said that people might not be able to do it. The area of cerebral hemorrhage is too large, and the best candidate for surgery is a vegetative person. We all panicked. At that time, my father looked at everyone with his eyes half open. At that time, my two uncles, my sister and I, tried to open their eyes and talk, but couldn't say a word. It's been nearly three hours, and my dad has been acting like that, but he still can't say a word. At four o'clock in the morning, he seemed to have exhausted all his strength, raised a hand and made a second gesture. His hands dropped slowly and his eyes remained motionless. The doctor said that the man had left. My sister and I stayed. I know my father's last gesture. He didn't trust me because I wasn't married at that time, but he couldn't say it …

Parents are always worried about their children, what's more, they haven't got married yet, and there is nothing heavier in their hearts than children. My dad probably knows he's leaving, so he wants to go home. He should have a lot to say and explain in his heart. He was afraid that he would just leave, so he was in the hospital and could never go back, but he died without leaving a word.

Later, some people said that my father had a good life. He died without any guilt, but he left so suddenly that his family couldn't bear it. If he is alone, he will be gone the next day, and his family can't bear the heartache …

It's been 20 years, and I wish my father all the best in the spirit of heaven …

Some people are not afraid when they are dying. Their own brothers may know that they are leaving in the morning and say goodbye to their families one by one. He repeatedly told his eldest nephew to take care of his younger brothers and sisters. When he left in the afternoon, he folded his hands and kept chanting Amitabha, saying that an old monk came and took him away, and then quietly left. It's been three years this year, and there are still three years before Memorial Day. This is the coolest person I have ever met.

I've been strong all my life and died of hunger strike. She's not afraid.

Big milk has been dead for more than 20 years, born before the Revolution of 1911. /kloc-in the 0 th and 9 th centuries, she was widowed for decades. She has a pair of small and successful feet, with a bun on the back of her head and a jade ring.

What I remember best is that when she was a child, she would set up a tea stall, sell a big bowl of tea, and some would add some sugar. When primary school is over, she will let me have a bowl behind the big milk stand, which is from My Sweetie.

But then my son married his daughter-in-law and married a bad woman, which was particularly fierce. After quarreling at both ends for three days, he finally separated, and Dai Nai lived alone in two thatched cottages and a small yard. Earn your own money and spend it yourself. Occasionally, my grandson and daughter will visit her.

In a blink of an eye, Dai Nai is over 80 years old and getting older. Once she was ill and couldn't get up to cook, so she asked her son to send a message.

Who would have thought that the daughter-in-law would come to deliver the meal? She was extremely sarcastic, saying that you are old and expect me to feed you, and then throw the meal in front of the big milk. You can eat it if you like, and the big milk can't swallow this tone.

No matter who tries to persuade her, she won't take a bite. She said that if I don't bite your family from now on, my son will be raised for nothing. Neighbors also advised their daughter-in-law, who said it was none of my business not to eat vegetables.

Big breasts are like this. No matter who goes to see her and how to persuade her, I won't take a bite. I will starve to death!

In this way, stubborn big breasts died of hunger strike a week later, skinny. I don't know how my son felt when he came to the funeral. Didn't his mother feel guilty when she died of hunger strike?

Later, her son died of cancer before he was 60. Daughter-in-law also began to be widowed. She is still a very powerful person. Her neighbors are not harmonious and her son and daughter-in-law are separated. Now she is alone. I wonder if she will be afraid when she dies.

My father died at 89. When he was over 80 years old, I don't know where he saw and heard it. Anyway, he always told me that the old man would feel that he had fallen into a bottomless pit at the last minute. He said it was terrible! Whenever he talks about this, he will say to me: If I have that day in the future, just hold my hand and I won't be so afraid! I told him not to worry! Sure! During this period, his blood pressure suddenly rose to more than 200, and his heart beat very fast. I immediately sent him to the hospital. When he arrived at the hospital, the doctor sent him to the intensive care unit to start first aid. At that time, dad was also very nervous and scared, and the doctor couldn't let him relax. Later, I told the doctor: You let me in and hold his hand, and he relaxed. After the doctor agreed, I went in to hold his hand and told him not to be nervous. It is now. In this way, I kept holding his hand in both hands to comfort him. After a while, he became less nervous and afraid. By the time he died at the age of 89, it was also the terminal stage of lung cancer. He will be away for a few days, and I will stay with him day and night. As long as he opens his eyes, he will surely see me. It seems that I can reassure him and ease his fears. At his last moment, I could feel that he seemed to understand. I still squatted in front of him, holding his hand with both hands. I told him: Dad, don't be afraid! When I am here, I will always hold your hand! So I held his hand tightly and kept repeating this sentence until he swallowed his last breath!

It varies from person to person! People in life have different attitudes and values towards things! People who have a positive attitude towards things may not be afraid when they leave this world, while people who have an opposite attitude towards things may be afraid that their lives will end when they leave this world again!

I dare not say that all people will be afraid when they die, but quite a few people are particularly afraid of death. Death represents the end of life. From now on, everything in the world has nothing to do with you, and you can no longer perceive the world. No more joys and sorrows, no more relatives.

You must end all the dust. From now on, there will be no more you in the world. After 50 years, you basically disappeared. No one will mention you again. Everything seems to be back to the starting point. Life is like a dream. It seems that you have never been to this world. As time goes by, you can't find any clues. At most, there is a grave.

So many people are particularly afraid of death. After all, there is only one life, and it is impossible to do it again. So some old people will feel extremely scared and helpless when they know their fate, because all this needs him to bear alone.

Cousin tells uncle's story.

My cousin told such a case the other day. Once my uncle (my father's uncle) was seriously ill and rested at home. He went to visit, and then my uncle took his hand and said, "I can't live this time." I can feel the days are numbered, but I don't want to die! I still want to live, but my body won't allow it. This time, I really can't carry it. I know. "

My uncle told my cousin all this in a weak voice, which made him very sad. Although many years have passed, it is still very uncomfortable to look back now. Aren't we all like this? One day I will leave this world.

I can see that they don't want to die, and they are still attached to the world. Another time, an aunt told me about her father.

Her old father is seriously ill, and the hospital can't cure him. Let him go home and enjoy his old age! But the old man may be able to predict his own time, so he told his daughter that he wanted to eat rice noodles on the street for the last time and go shopping for the last time, otherwise there would be no chance. One day, she took her old father to the next village to take a bus. I saw that he could still walk, but he died not long after he came back.

Hearing this makes people lost in thought again. Life is only a few decades. Many people have great nostalgia for this world, but they have to leave. So before they die, they can only want to realize their wishes quickly. These wishes, even if they seem trivial at ordinary times, are the last time for them.

Some people are very open-minded, have long since put aside the secular, so they are not too afraid of death. However, this is only a minority, and most people are still afraid of death. Some cancer patients are unwilling to go to sleep even if they have no strength, because they feel that if they sleep, they will never wake up and see their relatives again, which makes them very nostalgic for the world.

So they will endure the pain and struggle until they can't return to heaven before swallowing their last breath.

A few hours before he died, the old man knew that he was going to die soon, so he would use his last strength to explain the aftermath. For example, when I was a child, my grandfather was lying in bed dying. I saw my aunt folding paper, and we were very sad. I felt that grandpa was dying, so I squatted at his window and called him. He told us it was getting late, so hurry home! I can hear his voice very weakly.

Later, we went home, but mom and dad stayed with him until late at night. When I came back, I asked my mother how grandpa was. She said she had passed away, but I didn't expect her beloved grandfather to leave like this, and I was particularly sad.

In the last days, the old man's physical function has reached the limit, and he is particularly uncomfortable, so he will struggle in bed and his breathing will not be smooth. If he is ill, he will be particularly miserable, even if he dies of natural causes, he will feel miserable, especially those who are terminally ill, and he will struggle many times before he dies.

For some old people who died of natural causes, they will feel breathless in the last days, like being pressed by a big stone on their chest, and they will even have auditory hallucinations and even say that they have seen their dead relatives. At this time, they already know that they are going to die soon, and they are highly nervous, very painful and nervous inside, but they are so helpless, because everyone wants to live, but unfortunately people can't live forever.

When they are about to die, they are not only afraid to the extreme, but also extremely uncomfortable, so they will groan in pain.

Summary: Some people are particularly afraid before they die, because they will see something that others can't. This is because their physical functions have reached the limit, and their organs are constantly failing, resulting in the phenomenon of vague consciousness. If they are still awake, they will be more afraid, because they have a lot of worries and don't want to watch themselves die. Even young people are afraid of dying one day, let alone old people, who will soon face this reality.

You'll be scared.

My father-in-law was just 60 when he died that year. He is a respected old man. Because I'm younger. He felt too disappointed, and he also had a fear of death. On the day he died, I deeply felt this. His breathing was already very weak, but he still tried to open his eyes and look at everyone's face around him. Now he asked for help, but at that moment, each of us felt particularly helpless.

Although it has been 20 years, I will never forget that day, and I am sad from the heart. [tears]