How can someone politely refuse to give something?

There are often some friends or acquaintances who are not close enough to give some expensive gifts. At this time, refusal needs a high emotional intelligence answer to reflect.

First, the way to politely refuse other people's gifts:

1. If someone gives you a gift in public, don't refuse it in person, but take care of the other person's feelings.

The best way is to accept it in person, but return it to others immediately afterwards.

In doing so, you should pay attention to the time to return to others, preferably not more than 24 hours, and make sure that the gift is intact. Don't open it out of curiosity, it will not pay off.

When someone gives you a gift on a more formal occasion, it's best to politely refuse, but the position of refusal should be firm, and don't give others a gesture of refusing to welcome you back.

Say it in polite language when you refuse, which will not only ensure that the other party understands your thoughts, but also give the other party face.

When someone gives you an expensive gift in private, especially when the other party gives this gift for a certain purpose, you must refuse it in good faith and don't leave any room for the other party to avoid misunderstanding.

Second, politely refuse a boy's gift

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Here are some ways to refuse a boy's gift:

1. Avoid confrontation.

As the holiday approaches, boys who want to give you gifts will definitely find various excuses to ask you out to give you gifts, or pretend to meet you on the road to give you gifts. At this time, you'd better avoid him first.

2. Don't let yourself be idle

Although this period of time is a holiday or leisure time, you can refuse when he asks you out in order to avoid embarrassment for both sides, not to hurt both sides or destroy the current feelings, and to keep yourself busy.

3 determine the boyfriend

It is very likely that boys give gifts to girls because they have a good impression on girls, and they are most likely to have the urge to express their feelings on holidays, so they quickly determine their boyfriends and even introduce each other to eliminate their feelings.

4 make excuses

Find all kinds of excuses. The excuses should be true. For example, it can be said that the family tradition is to accept gifts from others on a certain day, or not to accept gifts from boys casually. This may be wrong, but when it comes to tradition, boys generally respect it.

5 give gifts first

This may be incredible, but it is actually a very unique trick. You should give him a gift first, but don't give him anything too ambiguous. When he comes up with a gift for you, he will feel very uncomfortable, so he may not give you any more gifts.

6 Direct refusal

Face to face, this move is too cruel. Don't use it unless you have to. After all, politeness will still hurt each other's self-esteem. But if he asks you to buy a gift, it is feasible to refuse it directly.

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Individuals give you two ways to refuse:

1. Tell him clearly and gently: Sorry, I can't accept your gift. I'm afraid my boyfriend who just got together is unhappy, but thank you for the gift. You should give it to the right person.

2. Don't refuse in the name of your boyfriend: Thank you for your kindness, but I actually hate this thing (the specific characteristics of the gift), because I was bullied like this when I was a child, so I don't like it very much, so I don't accept the gift, thank you.

Or: A few days ago, I had a very good brother who gave me the same gift. Because I have everything, there is no need to accept it. Thank you.

Third, politely refuse the boss's gift

I suggest a clear refusal, because a tactful refusal will only make your boss think that he still has a chance.

Male bosses generally don't give gifts to employees, so if you receive a gift from a male boss, consider whether to accept it or not. If a male boss tells you how much he loves you, if you really think it's impossible between you, then even if it means you have to lose your job, you have to refuse.

Don't lose yourself like some women when a handsome male boss suddenly appears in front of you. If you are really not interested in him, all you have to do is keep a low profile and be an ordinary person. Don't stand out from the crowd and attract his attention.

The male boss deliberately accosted you. You can't ignore that he has been having an affair with him. You should find an excuse to leave in time, and let him think that you are politely refusing him.

When you have to talk to your male boss about work, you should be on your guard no matter what. If the conversation has nothing to do with work, you can remind him immediately.

Don't go to the male boss's office when you have nothing to do, because he will think you are giving him a chance. If you have any questions at work, you can ask him in the workplace.

Don't be alone with your male boss outside of work hours. When you are alone with him, many things will happen. Even if you know that there is nothing between you, the saliva of other employees will drown you.

When the male boss offers to take you home, you must refuse him. Because many office romances begin with sending female employees home.

After refusing, you should also understand a truth: the boss is the boss, the subordinates are the subordinates, the roles should be clearly defined, and you can't make friends. We should also keep a proper distance, especially between female subordinates and male bosses.

Fourth, the online dating object sends you something euphemistically:

Try not to take things from online lovers. You can call her directly or leave a message saying that I don't need to thank you! Online dating is almost unreliable and may even be cheated by the internet. If your online dating partner gives you something, try not to accept it if you are not sure about its safety. You can reply to him directly and say I don't need to thank you!