Tell me about the strongest helper you have ever seen?

In recent years, the word "helping demon brother" has appeared frequently on the internet and in society. Helping a younger brother means neglecting the situation of other family members because of excessive care for his younger brother, which sometimes leads to family conflicts. Today, I want to share my own story about how the strongest "brothers and helpers" broke the game.

My brother and I are two children in a family. There is a big age gap between me and him, and my relationship with my parents has never been very good. So in my relationship with my brother, I tend to care too much about my brother.

It happened shortly after I got married. I was already a white-collar worker with a stable income, while my brother was still in college. My parents couldn't afford him to go to college, so I began to bear his tuition and living expenses.

However, my career didn't stop there. When I got married, I also took out 500 thousand to buy a house for my brother. I bought this with my own savings and loans. I want my brother to have a stable residence.

However, my excessive concern aroused the resentment of my family. My husband and mother-in-law began to complain that I paid too much attention to my brother and ignored their feelings and needs. When my mother-in-law was ill in hospital, I found that Carrie had only 100 yuan left, which could not pay her medical expenses at all.

At this time, I began to reflect on my behavior. I realized that my excessive concern did not solve my family problems, but caused contradictions and pains. I began to think about how to balance the relationship between myself and my family so that everyone can get the attention and support they deserve.

Finally, I decided to start communicating with my family. I told them that I did pay too much attention to my brother, but I also realized the problems caused by this behavior. I apologized to them and made clear my position and bottom line.

My husband and I discussed raising medical expenses for my mother-in-law. My brother and I gradually established a healthy and balanced relationship, and he began to bear his own living expenses independently.

Finally, our family re-established the relationship of trust and communication. My younger brother also realized his responsibilities and obligations and began to live and work independently, making his own contribution to the family.

Helping younger brother is an act of paying too much attention to younger brother, which often leads to family conflicts and disharmony. We should know how to balance the relationship between ourselves and our families so that everyone can get the attention and support they deserve.

We need to look at our actions and emotions with a rational eye, don't hurt others easily, and don't let ourselves become a burden to others. We should know how to express our position and bottom line, at the same time, we should respect the feelings and needs of others and establish a relationship of trust and communication.

In the end, we need to learn to let go of the past, return to reality and face our life well. We should know how to balance the relationship between ourselves and our families and move towards real happiness and a better life. Only in this way can we have real happiness and a beautiful life.