What is true non-marriage?

I feel that pain is greater than happiness in this life, so I want to live according to my own will as much as possible. I also don’t want to be responsible for another life or family, and I don’t want to bear too many things that I shouldn’t have to bear. I really don’t want to integrate into another strange family, I don’t want to be born, I don’t want to deal with complicated interpersonal relationships, and I don’t want to turn my small family into everyone.

Once both parties begin to enter each other's families, there will be a weighing of interests. Buying a car, buying a house, making a deposit, and the responsibilities and obligations of both parties are actually a game between two families. Marriage is a "necessity" for most people. They believe that life is incomplete without marriage. But not everyone thinks so. Some people don't think marriage is a "necessity", so there is a group called "non-marriageists".

The so-called "non-marriageists" literally mean "people who do not get married", but this is only the simplest meaning.

Non-marriageists can be subdivided into three types:

The real "non-marriageists" are those who willingly choose "not to get married". Their status is the same as strict Like "vegetarians", there is no such thing as marriage.

Apart from the real "non-marriage advocates", there are two types: one is those who are forced to choose "not to get married" for some reason, and the other is the verbal "non-marriage advocates" ", just talking casually.

Of these three types of "non-marriageists", it is impossible to identify who is the real non-marriageist at first, but time will tell everything. Below, let’s take a look at the subsequent lives of five former “non-marriageists”, and you will know what a true “non-marriageist” is:

Atu: Because it is difficult to get married. Choosing "not to get married"

The reason why Atu had the idea of ??"not getting married" was not a choice he made willingly, but because he was forced to do so.

Before he had any experience with marriage, he took it for granted that men would naturally get married when they reached a certain age. However, after he took the road of blind date, faced marriage, and realized that marriage requires a lot of money, he deeply realized what it meant to be "powerless."

Wanting to get married but having no money to do so was a great pressure for him. He had thought about working hard first and then getting married when he was rich. However, after two years of hard work, I still had no money to get married. Between him and his parents, there was nothing to do except worry.

In this state, he thought to himself, "Forget it, maybe I will never have a chance to get married in this life. In that case, why should I insist on getting married? Even if I work hard to get married, just It will be worse, so why bother?”