What should we do with people with ulterior motives?

In life and in the workplace, we often meet sinister people. We call these people villains. These people will do anything for their own interests. In order to gain the trust of leaders, serial tricks such as eating, drinking, whoring and gambling are all their means, and even use honey traps. What's more, they will command other colleagues under the banner of leadership.

1 debate-first of all, we should be able to distinguish these people. These people have three typical characteristics. Cheating, pulling and cheating are their specialty, and cheating leaders and everyone's trust is their ultimate goal. So on the surface, these people are very pretentious, eloquent and talkative. However, when it comes to their interests, their cunning faces are exposed. In order to be used by him, and finally it was black, they met people mercilessly and ruthlessly. So this kind of person is relatively easy to identify as long as he keeps an eye on it.

2 prevention-this kind of person is good at playing tricks behind his back and is usually very smart. Therefore, in our consciousness, we should take precautions, don't be confused by their sweet words, and don't be absorbed by their small favors. We can't afford to be provoked, we can afford to hide, and we have no interest in them. Awareness of prevention is the first principle of our self-protection. Don't listen, don't believe, don't offend and don't try to deal with such people. As for the deeper relationship, let's wait and see. In case we become tools used by others, we will still be in the dark. As long as we have this awareness, such people are still relatively easy to prevent.

3 release-when the villain succeeds, there is generally a problem, that is, he loves to show off his prestige, and the villain fails. This is not our decision. If someone really succeeds, we shouldn't worry. We should get along with him with a long-term mentality. We pretend we don't know his bad things or his filth. We just watch him perform. When his old story is exposed, we will expose him skillfully.

Pretend-if you are really fed up with these little people and intend to punish them, you might as well bring an extra actor, because what these people like to do most is to see an individual punished by them. What about you? Pretend to have a good relationship with them, and even send some information to prove that you have entered his circle. To show "loyalty", you can also speak ill of others.

Reward-that is, deal with a man as he deals with you. The villain is called a villain because his heart is not right, so his behavior also reflects his mind everywhere. You shouldn't be angry when you are most embarrassed or ashamed. You can also expose his old roots and expose his ugly behavior at an appropriate time. In fact, what they are most afraid of is exposing things.