My wife won't let me in. Tell me about it.

First of all, I understand your confusion and pain now. Marriage is a very common emotional problem, which needs us to face and solve seriously.

Before solving this problem, I want to remind you of a few things. First of all, don't give up marriage easily, because it requires the joint efforts and management of two people. Secondly, don't easily put the blame on your wife, because marriage problems need to be solved by both parties. Finally, don't use hatred and violence to solve the problem, which will only make it worse.

Here are some suggestions that may be useful:

1. Talk frankly with your wife. Try to communicate your feelings and confusion frankly with your wife in a quiet and comfortable environment. Listen to her thoughts and feelings, and try to understand her position and viewpoint. If you can't communicate with her directly, you can try to express your thoughts by writing a letter or sending an email.

2. Seek the help of a marriage counselor. A marriage counselor is a professional psychological counselor who can help you and your wife solve their marriage problems and provide some practical suggestions and skills. This can help you and your wife rebuild communication and trust.

3. Try to improve yourself. This does not mean that you should change your nature, but that you can try to improve your appearance, mood, hobbies and other aspects to make yourself more attractive. This may help you regain your wife's attention and interest.

4. Stay calm and rational. Even if you feel very angry and disappointed, try to remain calm and rational. Don't make any impulsive decisions, such as violence or running away from home. Try to think calmly and seek a better solution.

Finally, I hope you can understand that marriage is a relationship that needs the efforts of both parties. If you and your wife can talk frankly and try to solve the problem, your relationship may get back on track.