Why do brothers and sisters turn against each other?

This is normal! Because parents are here, there is still a place to come in life, and when parents are gone, there is a way home in life. "For all people, as long as parents are still there, our hearts still have a direction and a place to belong. No matter what new identities and roles brother and sister have, they have their own circumstances and development.

But unity has an identity, and that is the children of parents. The love and bond between parents and children is long and profound, as long as there is no knot and hatred between children and parents. Then no matter what entanglements and grievances you have with other brothers and sisters, you can't let go of your kindness to your parents.

So, I will go to my parents' house on holidays, just to chat with my parents. Moreover, parents are the roots and spiritual pillars of children. As long as parents are still alive and brothers and sisters have a hope and motivation in their hearts, then on the day of reunion, on the important day of parents, even if their children settle in all corners of the country, they will go back to their hometown and parents regardless of all difficulties, and parents will be happy with the excitement of a large family.

However, parents are gone, the backbone of the whole extended family is gone, children lose hope in their hearts, and there is nothing worthy of attachment in their hometown and hometown. Children's life focuses on their own small families and their own life circles, and the contact between brothers and sisters is getting less and less. In addition, with the growth of age, the younger generation began to visit relatives, and the connection between brothers and sisters became weaker and weaker.

In most families with many children, because of parents' education and quirks, there are bad feelings between children and parents, and there is a gap between children and parents, but when parents are still there, parents will mediate and safeguard their children's feelings. Children don't care too much about their parents' faces. At the same time, in order not to let the other person look too ugly, they will tolerate the scene and make as much noise as possible. Everyone can still keep the surface calm.

But once the parents are gone, the speaker in the middle is gone. There is no bridge between brothers and sisters, and we don't need to compromise, let alone look at whose face. Many contradictions broke out directly. Once brothers and sisters start quarreling, the consequences are worse than strangers. This is the cruel reality.