Is it hard for a child to have no mother?

A child without a mother will be very bitter and bitter, and this kind of suffering may affect the child for a lifetime. Tell me a true experience of my classmate.

My classmate is a man. He has a sister. When he was young, his father would beat his mother every time he got drunk. When he was in the third grade of primary school, his mother killed herself by drinking pesticides after his father got drunk and beat her up. Since then, my classmate has become a child without a mother. He said that his pillow was wet every night after his mother died until the third grade of junior high school. In junior high school life, I often cover my head with a quilt at night and hide under the covers and secretly cry.

His father has given up drinking since his mother died. In junior high school, his father found a stepmother for them. The stepmother brought a child, also a boy. At first, his classmates and his sister rejected the boy. They didn't talk to him or play with him. After being lectured several times by their father, they slowly talked to the boy. The boy is older than him. He called him brother. Stepmothers in fairy tales are all bad. Unfortunately, the classmate's stepmother is not very kind to him and his sister.

Stepmother often buys clothes and shoes for her son, but never for her classmates and his sister. He didn't wear a new dress or a pair of new shoes in junior high school and senior high school. They were all worn by his uncle's brother, and they were given to him only when they were worn out or worn out. Sometimes the stepmother's own son will give him clothes he doesn't wear, but he takes them to school and throws them directly into the trash can.

In high school, there was a girl in his class who was very kind to him, knew his family situation, took care of him at ordinary times and often comforted him. Living in high school, the monthly living expenses are only 150 yuan, which is less than half of other students. He is not willing to eat or drink, and he is thin and small. Female students are day students and often bring him some food and fruit from home. He was very grateful to the female classmate, and slowly they fell in love.

He didn't do very well in the college entrance examination, but his female classmates did well. They chose the same city when they filled in their volunteers. At that time, that female classmate was his whole spiritual pillar and the best person for him except his mother and sister. He loves her very much and is willing to give everything for her. He vowed that after graduating from college, he would work hard to marry his female classmates and let them live a good life. But just after her sophomore year, her female classmate broke up with him. The lesbian said that she met a man she loved very much. This incident dealt a great blow to his classmates. He suddenly lost his direction in life, muddied away until he graduated from college, and finally couldn't even find a decent job. But he has to support himself. In the end, he had no choice but to send people soy milk, and he could barely make ends meet every month.

His own sister is married at this time, but she has been married for several years and has no children. Because she was infertile, her mother-in-law urged her husband to divorce her. But less than a month after her divorce, she found herself pregnant, and her husband still had feelings for her. When I heard that she was pregnant, I quickly remarried. However, not long after remarriage, my classmate's sister had a miscarriage and was diagnosed with a serious disease. Her husband subsequently divorced her. The classmate's stepmother and parents ignored his sister, and finally the classmate chose to go back to his hometown to take care of his sister personally.

His sister died in less than two years. When she died, her classmates cried bitterly, and the only one who loved him left him. That classmate knelt on the ground and cried. Many people can't pull him. His hair turned white overnight. In the past, many people who watched TV dramas were sad and white-haired overnight, but I still don't believe that although my classmates were not all white, they really lost a lot of white overnight.

After my classmate's sister died, my classmate opened a restaurant in an alley in the city with a loan. He likes cooking and watching others eat his cooking. The business of the restaurant is quite prosperous. An old man who often goes to his shop for dinner introduced him to a girl. Although her family is not very good, she is very capable and kind. At that time, they had no house and no bride price, but the girl was still willing to marry him. Together, they run the restaurant better and better. Soon after, the girl gave birth to a son for him. Their life is getting better and better, and they also plan to buy a house with a down payment in the city, but unfortunately they are coming again.

The classmate's dining room has two floors. The first floor is used for cooking and eating. They usually live on the second floor. Students get up at four or five every day to buy food. As usual, he got up at four o'clock that day and went to the wholesale market. It is still dark at four o'clock in the morning in winter. It was not six o'clock when he came back, and it was just lit up. Far away, he saw the restaurant brightly lit and smoky. It turned out that the restaurant caught fire somehow, and the fire was very big. It took the firemen a long time to put out the fire, and the classmate's wife and children were burned to death. It was quite a sensation on our side at that time. I never thought it would happen to someone I know.

Since then, students seldom talk. The last time I went to see him, he reopened a restaurant and worked hard on cooking. When we had dinner together, he just drank and didn't talk much. We are sad to see him like this, but we don't know what to say to comfort him. Finally, he himself said that it may be that he committed too many crimes in his last life and came to this world to be punished in this life.

My classmates are really nice and always kind, but I just don't understand why I have experienced so many misfortunes. Someone asked the classmate's father? My classmate's father has been living in his hometown with his classmate's stepmother. He has been indifferent to his classmates for so many years and has never given any financial help. His classmates have long been chilling by his father. He has a stepmother and a stepmother. It's true.

My classmates really live too hard. I hope his future life will be safe and smooth.

Yes, it's bitter, and it will change a person's fate.

Primary school deskmate, male. I remember it was a day in the third grade. Someone came to the classroom to find a deskmate and said that his mother had an accident. Naive, he didn't expect anything to happen, so he wrote a leave note to the teacher before he left. Later, our class teacher told us with red eyes that my deskmate's mother committed suicide by drinking pesticides. Later, I heard from villagers that it was because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Since then, my deskmate has become a child without a mother. His mother married far away, and his grandmother's family couldn't take care of him. After a long time, she lost contact. My deskmate's father keeps bees and has a good family. We always thought he was really kept in a honey pot because he often drinks all kinds of honey. But because of this business, my father is often away from home, so since my mother died, he and his younger brother have to live with their grandparents. He reluctantly moved out of his beautiful new house. Maybe he didn't expect it himself, and he could no longer live in it.

At that time, after all, his grandmother was young and took good care of his life, so he still dressed neatly every day, just learning to watch it slip, and the class teacher was anxious and distressed. All the ways to help him are unsatisfactory.

One day in the fifth grade, he asked several of our best friends to stay after school and said they had something to tell us. Until today, more than 20 years later, I still remember his lonely face, saying that his father would marry him a stepmother.

Stepmother hurried in, she was not alone. She has a son and a daughter. They live in his hometown, and the children brought by his stepmother live in his and his brother's room. Since then, there has been no room for two brothers in that family. As expected, the stepmother is not good to them. I don't know what her father thinks, so she left her two sons alone to raise other people's two children.

Maybe he didn't realize the seriousness of the problem until then and began to study hard. Fortunately, he was talented and admitted to our county key middle school in the second year, and the score was free of tuition. I don't know if he can go to school after paying the tuition. We were not in the same class in junior high school, and we didn't have much contact. All I know is that he didn't go to school three years later.

Later, I continued to go to high school, go to college, work, get married and have children. I haven't returned to my hometown many times, and I have heard from him intermittently. If there is a stepmother, there is a stepmother. His stepmother refused to let the two brothers into their former home, and sometimes even kicked them out. Grandparents at the same table talked to his stepmother when they were old, and her stepmother actually started work. The two brothers in adolescence were fed up and beat up their stepmother together. From then on, although the stepmother was shocked, her face was completely torn. My deskmate's father is often away from home, so the stepmother is naturally in charge of everything at home. After grandparents died one after another, the two brothers were left unattended.

Later, I heard that he became an older young man, had no formal job, and his family property was in the hands of his stepmother, so it was difficult to get married. I finally married a woman in the village, played outside enough, and found an honest man to marry. I can't have children. I'm divorced

I have only seen him once in the village for so many years, and the smile on my face can still remind people of that teenager. Unfortunately, there is loneliness in the smile. I remember at the beginning, he always had endless stories, comic books, magazines, and how many extracurricular books his mother bought for him made us envy. Presumably, his mother should also be an education-oriented person. If his mother were still here, his life would definitely not be like this. ......

I'm glad to answer your question. I grew up in a single-parent family. My home is in a big mountain village in Cenxi, Wuzhou, Guangxi. There are mountains in all directions. My home is only one in Fiona Fang, three kilometers away. My mother left me in a car accident when I was 5 years old. 1993. At that time, I didn't know how long my mother was going to leave. I wouldn't even cry or be sad. Since then, my life has changed. My grandparents are almost eighty years old. My sister goes to primary school, and I go with her, so I have company, because it takes an hour to walk from my home to school, and I have to get up at 5: 30 in the morning to cook porridge. Because I want my grandparents to sleep more, I will carry the cauldron with my sister and put water into the cauldron one by one, and I will think, how good it is to have a mother, so I don't have to work so hard and cry silently. Many times, I don't show sadness, but I am happy in front of others. I often hide under the covers and cry only at night. At that time, there was no subsidy for studying, and tuition fees were often paid after reading. I was bullied by my classmates from grade one to grade four. Fortunately, when my fifth-grade classmates grow up, I will refrain from knowing how to get along with my classmates so as not to be bullied by them. Shortly after graduating from primary school, studying is far away from me. My daily job is herding cattle, and my face and hands are cut by grass whether it rains or sunny. I once thought of cutting my wrist with grass, and I couldn't help crying when I thought that my grandparents were so old. I don't know how many times I cried since I was a child, and I don't know how many times I cried in my dreams. It's not easy to see others chatting with my mother. I can't describe the pain without my mother.

Therefore, if you have a friend with a mother, you should love your mother well. No matter what difficulties and problems a married friend encounters, he should stand in the child's position. A child without a mother is really like a grass.

I am a mother. When I gave birth to my second child, I put my daughter at her grandmother's house for a few days. 10 month, it suddenly turned cold. My classmate gave my daughter a sweater, but her grandmother wouldn't let me wear it. There was a light snow on the day of discharge. My daughter hugged me and said, mom, I'm cold. I feel sorry for myself. I secretly swear that as long as I live, I will not leave my children. Later, her father went to mistress behind my back and didn't go home. When I got divorced, many people advised me to give him my child. I said forget it. If I had a stepmother, I would have a stepfather. I can grieve myself, but I can't grieve my children any more. If the child leaves his mother, who will feel distressed?

A child without a mother is worse than Huang Lian.

My aunt went early, leaving a 4-year-old son and a 3-year-old daughter. A year later my uncle found another one.

I don't know how bitter it is I only know that my cousin is more sensible than other cousins since she was a child. When others are playing, only they will always help grandma do what she can. Her grandmother loves them dearly and will secretly put lard in their bowls.

Grandparents help laborers earn money to feed them and send them to school. Growing up, they never spent a dime on their father. Her father and brother used to work in Beijing, and my cousin and her cousin went to Beijing to find their father. After getting off the bus, her uncles hurried to pick up the children, leaving her alone. Later, every child had some money, and her father gave her 100 yuan. The next day, the stepmother took her to the supermarket to buy rice.

When you get married, your stepmother is not allowed to take out a dime. After giving birth, treat her. The stepmother received a gift of 1000 yuan, but she cried and took thousands back. My cousin graduated from a famous university and has a technical job. Now the annual income is about 400 thousand, but I have never been married. He is introverted and has no intention of finding a wife at all. He's scared.

From an early age, I knew to hide my edge and swallow my pride. Because I don't have the care and love of my parents, even onlookers find it difficult. You can imagine how bitter she is. I suggest that women should take care of themselves.

A child without a mother will be really bitter and pitiful!

When my brother's daughter and child were six months old, my brother's wife left on the pretext of poor family conditions. At that time, my brother was devastated, ignored the children and worked outside by himself.

The poor child is eating milk powder, and my mother bought it very cheaply. It's pitiful to see this child. My niece is only three months older than my son. I was also taking care of the children at that time. Without the help of my mother-in-law, I took my mother and my niece to my house to take care of each other. From then on, I was responsible for eating and drinking Lazar.

I treat my children equally. She always bullied my son until I was two years old. We are glad that she will not be as miserable as other children without mothers.

After two years old, it gradually changes. My son called him mom, and she followed suit. Then the two children will fight and cry with their thighs in their arms. Every time I cry, my mother cries, especially sad and pitiful. My mother told her to call her aunt, and she would cry even harder, so I had no choice but to call her.

After going to kindergarten, her father will pay the tuition, but he cares less, or he may know more when he is old. My mother also taught her to call her aunt, and her personality gradually changed, becoming particularly difficult to communicate, stingy and selfish. As long as she likes something, she must get it, or she will roll on the ground. Everyone thinks that she is not as pitiful as her mother and seldom hits her, but she has formed bad habits.

Every time I don't listen and say I want my mother, we lie to him that my mother is working outside to make money and will buy you new clothes for the New Year.

If you are older, you may really miss your mother and always ask us, "Where is your mother?"? Will you call her home? " My mother will cry whenever she tells me to, and it hurts to cry together, old and young.

I wonder how there can be such a cruel woman in this world. /kloc-children born in October said they could be abandoned. Seeing that lovely face, I really can't bear to hurt her. I always hope to have a happy childhood like my peers.

I went to primary school last year and I am much more sensible. My mother also told her that my mother would not come back. She no longer said that she wanted her mother to go home, and her brother came out of the shadow of that year. Every week, I send a video home to greet her. Every time I send a video, she will say to her father, "Dad, will you give me another mother?" We are all speechless.

In fact, my brother's family conditions are not too bad, but he lives in the mountains and it takes more than two hours by car from the city. The house is a two-story brick house. In recent years, my brother has become sensible and pragmatic. He built a house not far from me in the city. It's not that he hasn't looked. The point is that when people hear about children, they don't want to. The child's wish is simple: to have a mother, but it has never come true.

Maybe it's a habit of living with me for so many years. Although she no longer calls me mom, she likes to cling to me like my son. As long as she follows me everywhere at home, she doesn't even return to her when her father picks her up for the New Year. My mother and my brother have both gone home, and she is alone at my house for the New Year. She said that she likes living in my house and is very sensible in front of me. She may be afraid that I dislike her, sleeping, washing her face, brushing her teeth and washing her feet, except for her personality.

Sometimes I feel particularly sad when I see her trying to understand. Obviously, she can snuggle in her parents' arms like others, but she is trying to please others.

I grew up without love myself, and I can understand how pitiful children are without love. No matter how good others are to her, it can't replace maternal love! Children without mothers lack maternal love since childhood, but also face the indifference of others. How can they not suffer?

Fortunately, she has been living with me, including my husband, who is very kind to her. She has more love than others. I hope every child in the world has his own happiness and love!

Is it hard for a child to have no mother? Children without a mother are more miserable than Huang Lian 100%.

There is an old saying that a child with a mother is like a treasure, and a child without a mother is like grass. There is also a lyric, where to find happiness without mom's arms.

The mother takes care of the children's food and clothing, and the gentle words of the mother are the eternal spiritual pillar of the children.

Children who don't have a mother around them are generally difficult.

Friend a, his parents divorced when he was a child, grew up with his grandparents, and now he is unmarried and infertile. He thought that marriage had no benefits and could only give birth to an unfortunate child, but he refused. People in their thirties are alone.

Friend j, parents have been working outside, sometimes at grandma's house in childhood, sometimes at grandma's house. When she grows up and a man treats her better, she will marry at once. She said that her mother had never been so kind to her in her life ~ ~ After marriage, the man often abused her, laughing that she didn't have a home, and she didn't leave, saying that if she left her mother, she wouldn't want her, and she still had a home.

You see, a child without a mother lives so hard even when he grows up. It can be seen that the importance of mother is really irreplaceable.

A man with a little disability in his right foot was holding a 7.8-year-old girl at a rural market, with a pair of small and old penis mouths standing behind him. A woman in plain clothes looked at the large family and said, Niu Niu, you should listen to your parents and grandparents at home. Your mother left and came back for the New Year. Girl: Well, I see. Mom, remember to buy me a little piggy doll like Xiaohong next door when you come back!

She hasn't come back since her mother left. Every time Niu Niu asks her parents and grandparents, all she gets is that her mother is working outside. To save money, she didn't come back. She will come back next year, so year after year!

Until Niu Niu once played hide-and-seek with children in the same village, there was always a child who was discovered by Niu Niu first. The child lost his temper and cried, I won't play with you, you motherless wild child.

The little girl was accidentally hit on the nose by Niu Niu and had a lot of nosebleeds. The girl cried and went back to complain to her parents. In the evening, the girl who was beaten went to her house with her family in anger!

The parents who beat their children as soon as they entered the door smashed Niu Niu's bowl and wok in front of her father and grandparents and said, Tie Guai Li, what do you think of your wild child beating my girl? If a wife can't support her, she can't even manage her children, can she? Lose money, or it won't end.

Niu Niu's father and grandparents looked at the couple who smashed things for a long time before saying, what are you crazy about children fighting?

The parents of the child who was beaten stared at Niu Niu's father: Tie Guai Li will see. You deserve it, your wife doesn't want you, an uneducated family. Go and ask your daughter not to play with my children in the future.

Niu Niu walked over in tears and pulled her father's skirt: Dad, is mom really not coming back? Does she want Niu Niu?

Her father looked at her and nodded. Niu Niu smiled at her father and turned to clean up the broken porcelain bowl without asking a word. At that time, she was nine years old and in the third grade of primary school.

From then on, Niu Niu never laughed again. Every day, she is as smart as an adult. When she comes back, she helps to cook and wash vegetables. It hurts to be sensible. Especially in school, she was painted with a ballpoint pen by her deskmate. Niu Niu didn't cry or make trouble. After reporting to the teacher, she packed her schoolbag and went home alone after school. In winter, she went home to wash clothes in the yard with well water, and her hands were red with cold. Being short, she took a stool and hung it in the yard.

It's okay, dad. I was so careless. I worried you!

Soon my girl went to junior high school, and the school was half an hour away from home. One day Niu Niu hurried home and asked her father for ten yuan to buy something. Without saying anything, his father took out a hundred from his pocket and sent it to her: come to me if you don't have enough money. What do you need money for? I won't ask too much. You don't like talking to me much anyway, Niu Niu.

Sorry, Niuniu, it's dad's fault.

It's okay, dad. I'm going to school.

Children and fathers are still the same, not to mention!

Soon Niu Niu entered high school and was admitted to the city's key No.1 middle school. To tell the truth, her grades are never worrying. That day, her father drank too much, looked at Niu Niu and said, "Niu Niu, you have suffered for so many years, only because your father is incompetent!" "

Niu Niu started her high school life, accommodation and living expenses, and the overwhelmed man decided to go to town to accompany her and get living expenses. The two women who live together can also make some nutritious meals for the girl. He knows that her daughter will be very economical at school alone.

Besides, he can't earn much money in the countryside, and his feet are inconvenient. There is a way out in the city!

Not long after school started, her father rented a small room with one room, one living room, one kitchen and one bathroom in the village in the city next to No.1 Middle School. After 4 10 months, she also changed from boarding to day school. Although there is no smile on her face, she is actually very happy and can see her father every day.

Niu Niu's father first went to the vegetable wholesale market in the city to work as a porter, with a daily salary of 100 yuan. He moved from the afternoon to the evening 10. He cherishes this job and works hard to help others every day, but the boss still thinks he is too slow. After half a month, he changed.

That day, with a salary of 100 yuan, Niu Niu's father smiled and bowed to the boss and walked out of the market quickly. After leaving the market, he slowed down his walk and couldn't help crying. He has been looking forward to buying two new clothes for his children. Niu Niu is wearing the old clothes of relatives and children in the village.

So he went home, slept with Niu Niu after dinner, and sat at the door and smoked three packs of cigarettes. He thought about it all night. Combined with his actual situation, only running a motorcycle can not be rejected and earn the previous income. After all, children are growing up and need nutrition.

In this way, Niu Niu's father bought a second-hand motorcycle and became a motorcycle driver. He gets up early every day, at least 100 times a day. Every day at noon and lunch, he cooks for Niu Niu in different ways, waiting for her to go home, or picking her up at school!

In fact, Niu Niu knows what her father means, but she cares more about what his father did. She didn't refuse, but she accepted it gladly. This is his love!

High school entered the countdown, and Niu Niu's father changed from a motorcycle driver to a taxi driver driving an electric car, because the city banned motorcycles.

On the day of the college entrance examination, my father took Niu Niu to the examination room. When he entered the examination room, his father looked at her, raised his fist and whispered. Come on! Niuniu.

Father watched her walk into the examination room smartly, and tears could not help but flow down, this wretched baby. .....

These two days of college entrance examination are the first time that father and daughter talked with a smile after many years. Niu Niu is also successful, with more than 500 points. She was admitted to a key undergraduate university in this city. Her father asked her why. She smiled and said, Dad, when I grow up, you will be old. I want to study and work in this city again, and you won't be so hard when I graduate from college!

After four years of college, Niu Niu studied day after day and went home by car for an hour every day. The father smiled and said to his daughter, I am chatting every day, and I feel back in the past when my parents and grandparents were here!

In a blink of an eye, Niu Niu took part in the work. After passing the exam, she became a civil servant and worked in a judicial office. She also met her husband by accident.

At that time, on her way to work, she saw a little girl in a pajamas shop wearing slippers and holding a doll while walking and crying. She was about to go up and ask questions when he appeared in front of the child and gently asked him what was wrong. Why are you crying alone?

The child said that my mother promised to go out and come back for a while, and she didn't come back all afternoon. I went out to look for her, but I couldn't find my mother.

The man held the child in his arms and said, strange, uncle gave you candy and didn't cry. Do you remember mom's phone number? I'll call your mother. Then he took out a handful of white rabbit toffee from his pocket!

Niu Niu has been standing by. After the girl called, Niu Niu took the lead in calling the little girl's mother and told her that they were waiting for her at the entrance of Jiuzhitang drugstore!

During the time when the child's mother came, Niu Niu chatted with him, and the two chatted very speculatively. Later, when talking about work, the man said shyly that the courier didn't have any skills, but he tried his best to raise my mother, because my father left early and my mother raised me alone!

When the children's mothers came over, I kept thanking them. They smiled and left their respective communication methods!

Slowly, from chatting to occasionally watching a movie and having dinner together, the relationship between the two people has been well maintained to a state of more friends and fewer lovers.

One day, a man said that there were native chickens and wild turtles sent by relatives in the country at home, so he invited Tu to have dinner at home. She was so possessed that she agreed and went to the door to eat with a piece of milk and some fruit!

During the period, she saw that the man's mother was diligent and gentle, considerate and careful, and could not help but look at Niu Niu a few more times. Aunt looked at Niu Niu and said, daughter, I know our army doesn't deserve you, but he really likes you. If you have no feelings for him, just think of me as a godmother. I always wanted a daughter, but unfortunately the old man left at a young age. You are brother and sister, and I think you have a special eye!

After that meal, when the army sent Niu Niu away, Niu Niu asked: Do you like me?

I love it!

Will you marry me?

Yes!

Will you abandon me in the future?

Unless I die!

Come on, I'll wait for you to chase me. Goodbye!

In this way, Niu Niu fell in love with Jun and got married. She took her father to live in the courtyard of his mother and his urban-rural junction, and the family was happy!

Niu Niu gave birth to a man and a woman behind her, and the troops stopped running express delivery. She runs a rookie station at home. It is said that business is good. Niu Niu's father doesn't run motorcycles, but takes care of the children with the army's mother!

Dear, can you tell me why you suddenly let me pursue you? What do you like about me?

I like your mother! She let me know what maternal love is like. At that moment, I told myself that the children taught by such mothers could not be worse! I hope our children will grow up in a healthy family!

The sunset shone into the yard, and a small round table, Niu Niu and the army smiled at each other. Next to the baby chair, a pair of children are eating rice everywhere. A father looks at his daughter, a mother looks at his son, and a family is eating rice!

Tell me the story of my daughter. She is five years old this year.

When she was born, my wife was slightly depressed after delivery, so I basically took care of her for the next month, which means that the children didn't sleep in their mother's arms for the next month.

After the second month, I took my daughter to sleep until I was three years old.

I don't know if this is the reason. My daughter was timid since she was a child. She is afraid of hearing loud voices. She always wakes up when she sleeps at night, and then she cries. No matter how to coax her, it seems that she is insecure. Can you imagine a child who is almost three years old still crying at night?

When I was over one year old, I took her and my cousin's family to visit relatives in other places, but my wife didn't go with me because of work.

At first, my daughter and my cousin's daughter (who is one year older than my daughter) had a good time, but later my daughter felt something was wrong when she saw her cousin coquetry in her mother's arms.

But she couldn't say what was wrong, so she began to look around, but she couldn't find it and began to cry.

I picked her up and tried my best to coax her, but she still cried on my shoulder and the fur collar of my clothes was soaked with tears. In this way, I cried for more than an hour, tired and fell asleep. Can you imagine a little over one year old crying for more than an hour? That's really sad ...

When I got home, I told my wife about it, and she cried …

After the age of three, my wife began to take her to sleep. Strangely, since the child slept with his mother, she slept strangely quiet at night and gradually got rid of the habit of crying at night.

Do you think a child can live without a mother?

Very bitter, very bitter, very bitter, you simply can't understand the pain of a child.

My cousin divorced when the child was 3 years old. The child was left to my cousin, but in the end my uncle and aunt helped to raise it. My cousin is not a smug person. He stays at home, has no job, spends a lot of money, and finally finds a girlfriend who can dress up, but he is cheated into owing hundreds of thousands of debts and usually doesn't care much about his children.

So a child is equivalent to a child without a mother, a father, a father's love and a mother's love. When I got married a few years ago, my uncle and aunt came to my house with their children. Although he was raised tall and fat by his uncle and aunt for nothing, he looked extremely lacking in self-confidence and always huddled in the corner without talking. They don't blink when they see other people's parents playing with their children.

Seeing this, I couldn't help but go up and give him a hug, but he refused. My aunt and uncle said that children always ask them, "Why do other children stay with their parents, but I should stay with my grandparents?" . Well, in a word, it hurts to look at children. I can't imagine how much trauma my cousin's divorce has caused him.

In short, I hope my cousin can get rid of the dark clouds and see the sunshine one day, and I hope all children don't have to envy others for having parents.