On enlightenment

The reason why we want to talk about enlightenment is because we want to sort out the experience and feelings of the past year. Last year's experience was also related to enlightenment.

I looked up the relevant entries on Baidu Encyclopedia and found them very vague. Then I found a video to discuss enlightenment and found that it was a class seller. But I think his summary is very reasonable, so let's share it with him.

First, the concept of enlightenment

The so-called enlightenment refers to the growth of life and makes the whole mind clear.

This is his definition and understanding. My understanding of enlightenment refers to the process of a person's personal spiritual growth from paying attention to the outside world, to paying attention to the individual, and finally to himself.

Our energy is a limited resource. And we choose where to spend it, which is a subject that we must think about all our lives.

There are many topics in our life, and these topics can only be completed by ourselves. Others can only give a little irrelevant advice on these topics at most. Whether these suggestions are effective for you personally is another difficult problem. So, how do we know whether these suggestions are useful to us?

This requires us to look like the best group of wise men and philosophers and learn their way of thinking.

You know, they have encountered these life topics, and they also have the characteristics that most of us don't have-that is, abstracting these life topics and sorting out a series of life philosophies.

It doesn't matter that we don't understand these philosophical terms ourselves. But we must ask ourselves again and again whether we have tried our best and whether we have tried our best. This is very important, and it is also related to the effect of our philosophy study.

When we gradually learn this way of thinking and question the world repeatedly, these topics will gradually internalize into our own answers.

Until our hearts are strong enough to be convinced and affirmed, this process is also called reshaping the three views, or enlightenment.

Second, what did you drive?

Our life self-growth can be divided into three stages:

0 1. Break the egoism;

02. Realize that many things can't be done;

03. Do your best when you find difficulties.

In the past year, especially in the second half of the year, I have been studying non-conceived writing, literary theory, aesthetic principles, western literary theory, ancient literary theory, audio-visual language and screenwriter. There are nearly 80 classic films, including some Oscar-winning series, Hitchcock suspense series and western film series. Some courses and movies will be arranged into notes or film reviews, while others will be shelved for personal time and energy reasons. After arranging these studies, there is no time and energy. Let's do something else.

My college experience is quite special. Others graduated normally in four years, but I studied for six years because I delayed my graduation for two years.

Delaying graduation for two years has both advantages and disadvantages. On the bright side, I realize that there will be a big gap between myself and my peers, and I have a strong sense of crisis, urgency and anxiety inside. Then I began to change myself and try something I had never done before. Then I went to the library to read books every day, and even got an honorary certificate of "Reader's Star" issued by a library. The prize is a small intelligent sound, which has been used ever since. Personally, I think this award is still very good. According to the feedback, the sound quality of this stereo is very good. Sometimes I open it when I'm fine or in a good mood.

No matter what kind of book, turn it over and touch it. Even if I haven't finished reading it, I will borrow it, look through the catalogue and remember the title. At least know that you need this knowledge in the future and you will think of the existence of this book.

Many books are not that we don't want to read, but that we don't know their existence at all. At that time, literature books were the most read, followed by social humanities and philosophy. I remember that Lu Yao's Ordinary World and Keigo Higashino's reasoning series were both completed in this period. I still remember that I made an achievement after reading 100, and then I deliberately slowed down my reading speed and paid more attention to quality.

The downside is that during the interview, the interviewer will ask the reason for studying for two more years. I need to find various ways to get around it, which is particularly tiring. Then I tried to take the postgraduate entrance examination and failed twice. My major in postgraduate entrance examination is law, and I have studied five courses: criminal law, civil law, jurisprudence, constitutional law and legal history. Learning these or learning philosophy is only about philosophy of law.

I wonder if it's useful to learn these things. Anyway, I still can't understand the contract or anything. From the perspective of law, I learned abstract concepts such as national will and ideology, and in the course of literary theory, I also learned these abstract concepts.

Take a postgraduate political course, or study philosophy and political concepts.

Anyway, after graduation, I have been wandering in job hunting and postgraduate entrance examination, all of which ended in failure. The failure of these things also made me realize my shortcomings and limitations, as well as the difficulties.

In the second half of this year, I have been asking myself repeatedly, what do I want? what can I do? How far can I go?

I once naively thought that I was the protagonist of the novel, born with a halo and blessed by God. After repeated blows and failures, I found that I have always been a supporting role or a walk-on in the novel.

I am most afraid of being asked about my plans and intentions, and the results after trying. Because I really don't know, I'm just a novice in many things. I don't have in-depth understanding and investigation, and I don't have enough information to judge and draw conclusions.

It is said that only you know yourself best, but sometimes you don't even know what you want.

Now I understand that it is good to keep some plans and dreams in your mind. It is enough for you to know and understand the value of these things. Then set a time limit and gradually implement your plan until a general framework is established.

Some things, as long as they are done seriously, will not be too bad. I don't think I took them seriously, didn't push myself into a corner, and tried my best. Just like the protagonist in the novel, unless you corner him, you will never know his true self or true character. I don't care if the protagonist is dead or alive. What I care about is how the protagonist solves these contradictions and difficulties, what impact it has on me personally, and what reference it has. That is, the way and thinking of the author to deal with problems and contradictions.

Third, before we begin to understand.

The author divides the period before the Enlightenment into 10 stages:

0 1. Self-righteous, the whole world doesn't understand you;

02. Cynicism with insufficient desire;

03. Inferiority and cowardice after discovering the real world;

04. I don't know what to do;

05. Escape and timidity when encountering setbacks;

06. Unrealized panic and self-abandonment;

07. Realize your lack of self and start to change;

08. Go forward after finding the target;

09. Self-satisfaction after knowing the law;

10. the strategy of gradually achieving the goal.

I have experienced all the above stages, whether consciously or unconsciously. Especially in the last two stages, I understand the operating rules and principles of some things, and some are being explored; I am gradually achieving my goal. Only recently did I clearly know what I want to do, my hobbies, why I live, my strengths and weaknesses, areas that need improvement, its value, the degree of room for growth and so on.

I clearly know that I am imperfect and have fatal defects and deficiencies, so I will not ask others to be perfect. Get along with people and try to find out her advantages and what I admire. If I can't stand it, I can't stand it, I will leave.

Learn to control your temper, talk less and do more practical things. To understand the human relations and worldly wisdom in the secular world, to observe the state and reasons of their existence, and to think about their yin and yang sides. Try to be warm and polite to people. If you can't get into communication, observe and listen to their way of thinking and talking.

Although it will be very tired, it is also very rewarding. Understanding the development law and cause and effect of things and thinking about the details that you have neglected are all materials for writing novels.

Fourth, how to make yourself enlightened?

0 1. Establish a complete three-view system;

02. Establish an EQ system to understand the world;

03. Actively participate in things and understand things;

04. Do a good job in self-emotional control management;

05. Establish a life plan and let yourself grow;

06. Improve the ability to break through difficulties;

07. Improve thinking and build a framework;

I have done or am doing all the above. I clearly know that I am not the best, nor the worst, but a very small member of all sentient beings, ordinary and ordinary, without extraordinary family background, gorgeous academic qualifications, handsome appearance and great opportunities of the times; I also clearly know that I have a relatively healthy body, a normal and regular work and rest, and I am at my best age around 28, which not only fades my youth just out of school, but also has more changes and opportunities than people over 35; Gradually mature, understand their responsibilities and obligations, understand what they want, what they don't want, and how to achieve and get it; Also a little more patience than before, know how to cultivate; When you are tired, you will occasionally indulge your emotions and desires, and deeply understand the truth that it is too late; I am also willing to understand the development stage of things and sum up my own experience and gains.

I also learned to restrain myself and make myself look unpretentious; Knowing the power of time and the limitation of personal energy, you will prioritize things, prioritize things, choose what you want to do most in advance, and arrange time to finish it bit by bit. It doesn't matter if it wasn't finished then, so start doing it now. Doing is better than doing nothing. Do more when you are in high mood, and let yourself go when you are in low mood. Experience the beauty of music, enjoy the glow of the sunset, and have a love affair (toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot toot.

Don't force yourself, don't suppress yourself too much, don't indulge yourself too much, observe your desires, listen to your inner voice, restrain your desires and release them. When all is silent, I know that I am a warm person who can cry and laugh. Secular desire, a mortal, also pursues the knowledge and wisdom of philosophers. This is the way of distortion and contradiction, and contradiction is unified.

Suddenly I found that I had written so many words, and my heart suddenly felt a lot better. Although the task of the novel outline arranged tonight has not been completely completed, it is good that part of it has been completed, and it will always be completed by writing and modifying it bit by bit. These days, I'm busy with human relations and drinking everywhere. Although I have been drinking coke, I drank a bottle of hard liquor on New Year's Eve and learned the taste of hard liquor.

Life is like this. If you ask people what it smells like, they can't tell. Taste it yourself and you'll know what it tastes like. Others' sweetness may be their own bitterness.

That's all, that's all I've learned!