What is the meaning of marriage?

It is to have a person who can snuggle up to each other in the long river of plain years, and it is also for the harmony of spirit and soul.

Marriage, of course, is not only to reproduce, but more importantly, to find someone who knows what he is thinking. It's very satisfying to have company in daily life, even if it's just a chat. No matter how bad you are, he will accept everything.

Actually, I didn't intend to marry my husband so soon at first. At that time, I was in love with him for less than a year. He is six years older than me. So from my own point of view, I'm in no hurry. I have been thinking about getting married for two years, but his family has been urging him to get married quickly, causing him to whisper in my ear every day. Finally, I couldn't stand him for a few months and went home to get the certificate at the end of the year.

At that time, it was no big deal to think about getting married. The days are still two people, but it's completely different from when I fell in love after I really got married. I have to learn to integrate into a strange family, shoulder the responsibility of being a daughter-in-law and share the responsibility of taking care of the elderly. To tell the truth, I really regretted getting married in the first few months.

However, with the passage of time, many things have happened to make me understand what the meaning of marriage is. When I was sick, he was the first person who was most nervous about me. He couldn't sleep well all night to take care of me. When I am sad, he will give me a hug and tell me that with him, I don't need to think about anything, and he will bear everything for me; Knowing what I think and what I want to pursue will also cheer me up, encourage me and trust me.

Of course, I also fully support his work, help him take care of his family and adjust his relationship with his family. As the days go by, we have more patience to tolerate and understand each other, so now many times we can know each other's thoughts and integrate psychologically. Sometimes two people giggle when they look at each other without saying a word, because they have already guessed what to say.

There is no doubt that a person is lonely, but it is different to have the other person with him after marriage. Eating together, chasing drama together, you can tell each other everything in your heart, watch the prosperity of the four seasons together, watch the flowers bloom and fall together, and witness the dribs and drabs of life together, which is plain and true.

Everyone has different views and feelings about marriage, as long as you feel happy. Life is self-aware, so you don't have to envy others. Try to get along and feel the beauty that marriage brings you.