When you are lonely, you will remember.

? People will meet 8,263,563 people in this life, among which 39,778 will say hello, 3,619 will become familiar and only 275 will be close to each other.

We are busy interacting, communicating, asking for help, caring and venting with people on the Internet, but slowly watching those 275 people leave, and finally savoring the sentence: Who will you think of when you are lonely?

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Many people will miss the past and wait for a leisure time to sit by the window and watch the flowers bloom and fall. Pave a piece of stationery, then start writing, carefully ponder every word in the pen, always feel that several pieces of stationery contain dissatisfaction with the feelings of missing distant friends, for fear that time and distance will kill each other's friendship Whenever I receive a letter from a distant friend, I read every word for fear of missing a bit.

Because at that time, life was simple and communication was inconvenient, every friendship was especially cherished and looked very cherished. Now, in the era of information fast food, it is more convenient to contact clearly, and most people feel lonely. Open the chat box of WeChat and QQ, not system messages but various group messages. You don't want to take the initiative to send a message, and neither does she. Then, under such passivity, people are drifting away from each other, so how can they not be lonely?

I am a person who is afraid of loneliness but used to it. My childhood wish was to grow up quickly. That way, you can leave your parents, be left alone, and live freely. Now, when I finally grow up, I leave my parents and study in a different place, and finally understand that growing up is accompanied by loneliness, and the process of growing up is to learn to face loneliness. Small groups in primary schools can't remember for a long time, friends in junior high schools don't have much contact, and close friends in senior high schools are almost gone. It is said that there is no audio contact, but in fact it is all false. Wechat and QQ are kept, and their recent living conditions can still be seen in the circle of friends and space, but each other's circles have no each other.

one or two little guesses

? When I go home during the Spring Festival, it is rare to get together with my parents. We four girls, one is one year younger than the other. There was no guessing. When we came home from school and finished our homework, we ran from one end of the field to the other with pigtails on our heads, playing hide-and-seek in the rape field and catching fish in the river with our trouser legs. The fields were full of laughter and laughter. It seems that these things are a long time ago. Jiao Jiao went to school after graduating from high school, and now she has found a job in the city. Her boyfriend sent her back to college, Xiaoying and Xiaoyi were in Wuhan, and I was in Xinjiang. During the summer vacation, everyone was busy and didn't have a chance to meet each other. Speaking of several families facing each other, they can only get together once a year.

I can't help feeling that time is rushing. Jiao Jiao, who is only one year older than me, is engaged and about to get married. Xiaoying and xiaoyi have a circle. But for us, the friendship of the past twenty years is self-evident. I want to come to the most beautiful time, but whoever cooks delicious food will call several other people together, sit around, eat, drink tea and chat. Even though we don't usually send each other much information, we all know in our hearts that she will be there as long as you find her.

? You don't need too many friends, it's true to treat each other sincerely.

It's really a coincidence that I met the big bottle. Years ago, everyone in the street was going to the market. Brother Zhao, a family friend, opened a small supermarket and was too busy to help me sell fruit. On the afternoon of the 18th day of the twelfth lunar month, I was standing on the street introducing the price of fruit, when I suddenly heard someone calling me. I turned my head and saw the big bottle holding her lovely little Yue Yue just getting off the bus. It turned out that she was going back to her mother's house, and her old friend was very happy after years of absence.

I remember going home last summer vacation, and we made several appointments to get together, but every time she had something temporary or I had something, we haven't seen each other for two years. I took her to my house and brought her the special products brought back from Xinjiang. She wanted to drag me to her house, but every household was busy years ago, so I declined and made another appointment.

? On the second day of the first month, I still went to the big bottle's house. I want to come to her house since junior high school. In the evening, my aunt cooked a table of delicious food, and her husband went to bed with his uncle with good wine, and talked about the wine and talked about it. Years of friendship, whenever I have difficulties, the big bottle always helps me. On my way home last summer vacation, I didn't have enough money. As soon as I spoke, she gave me money. Therefore, friends don't need too much, and it is true to treat each other sincerely. And I think the only regret is that I couldn't attend her wedding. My only hope is that she can be happy.

you don't need me, and I don't need you. I just thank you for coming that way. I walked many times in junior high school. At that time, I was very rebellious. As soon as I got home from the weekend holiday, I liked to quarrel with my mother. When Fangfang knew about it, she invited me to her house for the weekend. My aunt and uncle were hospitable. Later, people often said that I was the "daughter" of their family. At school, the two of us are inseparable "conjoined twins", eating together, going to the toilet together, skipping classes together, and going crazy together. Even pocket money is used together. I used to be an introvert, but when I was with Fangfang, I was infected by her and became a crazy girl who could also laugh and fight.

? In the three years of junior high school, we didn't quarrel once, and the good ones were closer than our own sisters. On the night when the breeze blows, we sit side by side on the steps of the dormitory building, looking at the stars in the sky, wondering if we can still study in one place after graduating from junior high school. Even if we are separated, we must tell each other if we find someone we like, and then whoever marries first will lend it to another as a maid of honor. Our friendship will last until our hair is gray and we laugh at each other's toothless mouths.

? But later, she didn't even take the senior high school entrance examination, so she had to go to a vocational high school. Then we really didn't talk about everything as before, and each had its own circle. The only contact was WeChat and QQ, which were not deleted from each other. Only after half a year and ten months would we occasionally think of each other, contact and ask if it was okay in the near future, and then talk about the recent situation and our lives.

The last time we met was in the summer vacation of 218. I was in town on business. I remembered that Fangfang said she was there not long ago, so I contacted her and met her at KTV. Pushing open the door of the box, I don't know any of her friends, so I can only sit in the corner and play with my mobile phone. She pulls over a handsome boy and introduces him to me as her boyfriend, who has already met her parents. I smiled and took the beer she handed me, drank it all at once, and then made her happy.

She remembered that I had told her that I was with Yagyu and didn't know that we had separated long ago. Asked me what we were like. I said we had been apart for a year, and then she paused and said with a wry smile, "No wonder. You just don't know that his father passed away and his mother was seriously ill. "

I laughed it off. What flashed in front of me was the enthusiasm and joy of my uncle and aunt when I went to his house. However, his world and I have long since ceased to intersect. After the break, we made an appointment to get together again. In fact, we both know very well that the so-called opportunity is an unknown deadline.

? I went to the big bottle house during the Spring Festival and passed the intersection to Fangfang's house, but I didn't have time to stay. Let's leave those beautiful friendships in time and remember them slowly.

? Ling and I seem to have never seen each other since graduation. The friendship between two people began with the same hobbies, ancient customs, river maps and novels. In the three years of high school, even if I chose science later, she chose liberal arts and divided classes, and we were still inseparable. After graduation, I chat occasionally, but I still miss the good old days, just because I went to school separately and didn't have a chance to meet each other. Just occasionally disturb each other and pay attention. Have that friendship in my heart.

? I am very grateful to meet and know them in my life. When I am lonely, I recall the beauty they gave me and then taste it slowly.

? If every word I have written, every photo I have taken, and every move I have made have made ripples in your heart, it at least shows that in the past years, we have experienced the same feelings at a certain moment.

sometimes, though we have never met.

but I have known each other for a long time, which is subtle and satisfying.