There is no topic in chatting with others, which is embarrassing. What should I do?

First of all, I don't think it's necessary to chat with others, because everyone has something to do and others don't necessarily like to chat. Forcing posting will lower your image in the eyes of others.

Then if there is no topic in the chat, it proves that you and ta don't have much overlap, otherwise there must be many topics to talk about. Now let's talk about the common topics in the chat.

First of all, for different groups of people, as a fresh graduate, I usually talk about memories with my classmates, house prices with my colleagues, gossip with my sister (pay attention to discretion), football and basketball with men, and revolution with the elderly. Chatting with middle-aged people and bragging. Talk to children about learning methods.

Then according to different occasions, such as when colleagues get married, there should be some cheerful and auspicious chats, and it is best to bring some dirty jokes. This can make everyone happy, and it is also in line with the special scene of marriage. For example, it is impolite to chat in a meeting or on some important occasions. We can exchange views on the topic of this meeting at an appropriate time.

There is also the need to pay attention to identity, and it is enough to joke with the leader. Don't take the initiative to joke with subordinates, talk to the leader about the experience of work and the harvest of drinking, and appropriately put in a complaint, not too heavy. Talk to subordinates about the difficulties encountered in their work and occasionally praise them as encouragement.

Then pay more attention to everyone's health when chatting with your family, be caring and attentive, and then sigh a word or two appropriately, so that your family can feel their position in your heart. Anyway, there must be a lot of topics or words to say with family.

It is especially important to talk to teachers and classmates when you go back to your alma mater. Let alone the college entrance examination. After all, even if it is your happy event, many students will be unhappy. Although you can't blame others, there is no need to expose your scars. Instead, you can praise how responsible the teacher is. XXX used to have a good relationship with me, and XXX studied hard. Chatting follows a principle, I would rather talk less than offend people. Praise a person should also grasp the scale, don't flatter, otherwise the loss will outweigh the gain.

In fact, communicating with people still needs you to accumulate some experience slowly, which may also be a lesson. But whether it is experience or lessons, it is a kind of exercise and improvement for our social ability. Now this society is a socialized society. The first skill to survive in this society is to deal with interpersonal relationships.

I hope everyone can be sincere when communicating with others, not too realistic and mean. After all, everyone likes a harmonious and beautiful life. No one can really live happily in an environment of material interests. So I think we must have a correct attitude when socializing.

I hope this passage will help you to some extent. Come on!