Why is there a "sky-high bride price"?

Today, after living together for a year, the man has to pay a bride price of 888,000 yuan and rush to the hot search! It's embarrassing to see the comments!

1, the two only belong to the state of cohabitation and engagement before marriage. What's wrong with the man only asking for the return of the bride price after breaking up because of his personality disagreement?

Let's talk about it first In the play "bosom friend", when Gu proposed to Yu, he failed to get married because of trouble in my concubine's room, and Yu's family returned all the dowry! It can be seen that even if the man doesn't have to speak, the woman should take the initiative to return the dowry. On the one hand, it should be, otherwise the court can't decide to ask the woman to return 800 thousand. On the other hand, may I ask the woman, do you earn money by your daughter? If today's 888,000 men don't pursue and ask for a refund, can you find the next one to continue to cheat the bride price in the same way, ask for the bride price after one year of love, cohabitation and engagement, and then earn 800,000 yuan on the excuse that it is inappropriate and does not return the bride price? Two years, 800 thousand, doing nothing, including food and shelter, 800 thousand labor costs? Wishful thinking is a must!

2. When they got engaged, the engagement party cost 6.5438+0.8 million yuan, the cigarette candy cost 40,000 yuan, and the gift money cost 6.5438+0.2 million yuan, but the bride price cost 888,000 yuan instead of 88,800 yuan!

When they got engaged, all the expenses were borne by the man. The man didn't say anything, but his parents gave him a bride price of 1.2 million, which showed that his parents were reasonable and valued the woman, and they were still rich. As long as the children are satisfied, it doesn't matter if they are rich, but no matter how rich they are, they don't want to be suckers. I only saw that the man gave her a present. When did you see that woman come back? If the woman's family is poor and can't afford the corresponding gift, how dare you be so gaudy? Inkin marriage makes sense, doesn't it? Shouldn't the bride price and dowry be similar, so that the husband's family won't look down on them? Too many bride price and dowry that don't match the grade appear at the same time, shouldn't the woman's psychology be more stressful? Of course, if the woman has thought about it, she will not return the bride price of 888,000, which shows that the woman is not worth it.

3. Does the bride price given at the time of engagement belong to the joint property of husband and wife?

Of course not! What is husband and wife? According to the provisions of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, a man and a woman are husband and wife after they are legally registered for marriage! They only handle formal engagement ceremonies! Focus! Engagement ceremony! There is no wedding ceremony, how dare you say that husband and wife share property? Besides, his bride price is * * * and property. What about your dowry? According to you, all the houses, cars and tickets in his name should be divided in half? what do you think? Are you awake? This is! But if you give two peanuts, you won't walk into the court to say goodbye!

4. What is the social atmosphere behind the sky-high bride price?

We have been advocating the concept of women's rights and equality between men and women, but these two terms seem to have become a sword for girls to hurt others at some time. When the situation is unfavorable to us, we say that we want equality between men and women, so as to seek sympathy and organize camps. When the situation is favorable to us, we also say that girls are delicate and should be more concerned. I am also a girl and a rational girl. I think others respect you because of your strength, not because of your gender.

Is the sky-high bride price really appropriate? As long as you have money, you are free! How much is the sky-high price? 888,000 yuan is sky-high in our eyes, but it is just the price of a car in the eyes of others, which is not worth mentioning at all, so there is no question of suitability. As long as you like, 8 million is fine. The question is whether this is behind the face or because lining is to make a living. We have to be clear!

Finally, I want to say that girls should not lower themselves because of money, you know, you are worth more than 800 thousand! Try to manage yourself well, don't think that taking shortcuts is the best shortcut, only in this way will the life you want come one after another!