My husband asked my parents to buy a large house as a dowry so that my mother-in-law can live here in the future. What should I do?

If you refuse, you cannot agree. Why do you want your parents to pay for a house as a dowry? He wants his mother-in-law to live in it with him, so why not pay for it? Why, you are willing to live there, but not willing to pay for it. What do you want, a man like that? Is it really necessary? 01. Things begin.

First of all, Xiao Fei (pseudonym) has a boyfriend Xiao Li (pseudonym) who has been in love for many years. The relationship between the two is stable. However, Xiao Li’s family conditions are average and he cannot afford to buy a house. Xiao Fei’s parents Not wanting her daughter to be wronged in the future, she wanted to buy an 80-square-meter house as a dowry house. However, Xiao Li was very unhappy when she heard about it and asked Xiao Fei to talk to her mother-in-law-to-be if she could buy a 120-square-meter house so that she could live comfortably.

Besides, Xiaofei was stunned when he heard this and didn’t know how to tell Xiaoli. Instead, Xiaoli was unhappy, saying that Xiaofei didn’t treat him as a family member and didn’t consider the elderly and so on. Xiao Fei was very upset. Finally, Xiao Fei said she would not live with the old man, so Xiao Li threatened Xiao Fei with breaking up. 02. The house is given to you by your parents, and you don’t need his consent to buy it as big or small as you want.

I don’t know where Xiao Li borrowed the courage to speak like this, or do you think that others have to do it with you? Still can’t get married? Why not go to heaven? The mother-in-law-to-be can buy it as big or as small as they want. This is their love for their daughter and has nothing to do with you. People are willing to give you a house as a gift, but they don't let you buy a house. They all laugh, and they dare to ask for so much. I'm really speechless.

Furthermore, I think Xiaofei should make a decision early. People can use breakup as a threat now. Once you compromise, what should you do in the future? What if he wants to add his name to the property deed? Do you agree? There are so many men in the world, why would you want to be with someone who plots against you when no one wants you? 03. Emotions are managed by both parties, rather than paid by one party.

I really don’t want to say that Xiao Li is not good, but what he did is obviously wrong. What qualifications do you have to say this or that about his parents’ dowry? If you have the ability to buy a house and provide for it, if you don't have the ability, don't be blind. It's disgusting. After all, relationships are never the work of one party, but the joint efforts of both parties.