Talking about mood in divorce judgment (when the woman has the idea of divorce)

All parting is premeditated for a long time, and the strangeness between two people begins with the distance between hearts.

In the process of "premeditated", there are bound to be concrete signs, and the attitude is obvious. You are impatient and picky. In fact, you should be very clear. After all, you've seen what ta looks like when she wants to go with you.

What do you fear most in marriage? It is not poverty, nor quarrel, but the idea of giving up.

Once you have the idea of giving up, you will slowly take a natural attitude towards your feelings, unwilling to work hard and pay again, and even begin to pave the way for yourself. There is no longer the obsession and belief of joining hands. Any little thing or disappointment in the middle can easily destroy marriage and strengthen the idea of divorce.

Therefore, persistence and faith are more important than anything else in marriage.

Do you know what happens when a woman wants a divorce? What you should do is not necessarily seen with your eyes, but often hidden in what you say.

In marriage, when a woman has the idea of divorce, she often says seven sentences!

You are in charge of my affairs. In fact, it is very clear that I want to draw a line with you. You are you, I am me, the two have nothing to do.

Husband and wife have the same interests, and only by putting family interests first can we manage a good marriage. On the other hand, people who want to run a good marriage will unconsciously put family interests first.

Once the interests of husband and wife are separated, they will only consider themselves.

The significance of husband and wife lies in helping each other in the same boat and supporting each other. Two people should depend on each other, this dependence comes from physiological instinct, and the disappearance of this dependence is the distance between the hearts.

or vice versa, Dallas to the auditorium I don't have to worry about me, and I don't want to worry about you.

How could I like you in the first place? When a woman has the idea of divorce, she may speak more directly and harshly, with abuse and degradation.

What I want to express is that I regret it. Regret comes from dissatisfaction with immediate life, including dissatisfaction and dislike for you. Maybe you didn't meet her expectations, or maybe she met someone better than you. It's not that you are not good enough, but that she doesn't want to appreciate your goodness any more.

So I'm always cocky at home, and I feel more and more that you don't deserve her.

No matter how hard you try, you still can't meet her standards, and easily deny your change and inhuman indifference. So naturally, she will feel that she can meet better people without you, or there are better people waiting for her in front, and it is you who has delayed her happiness.

I have nothing to say to you. Without communication between husband and wife, marriage has long existed in name only, just maintaining an empty shell.

To tell the truth, husband and wife are intimate, which is often cultivated through communication and shared on the basis of trust. I can't help but want to share my new experience, my happiness and my sadness with each other.

So there's nothing to say, there's a spiritual distance behind it.

If you encounter problems in marriage and still don't want to communicate, it shows that your attitude towards marriage is very casual and you don't want to solve the problems. Most people's psychology, just let it be, no matter what happens in the end, divorce is a big deal.

This negative attitude will make marriage more unstable.

Are you bored? I saw a video earlier and thought it was true.

The husband gets up early to cook, and then wakes up his wife. From the time she got up to going out to work, he always cared about her ass:

"You eat more!"

"Time is running out. I will help you pack up what you need. "

"It may rain today. I'll get you an umbrella and put it in the back of the car! "

But his wife was unmoved and yelled at him before going out: "Are you bored?" Can you leave me alone for a while? "Yes, I turned a blind eye to my husband's concern, and I still think he is very annoying. He has always been cold. If a person is ready to leave, it is wrong for you to breathe the same air as her.

Think what you want. Probably the kind of person who doesn't want to tell you the truth at ordinary times, and then doesn't bother to explain to you any misunderstanding to prove his innocence.

Obviously, I just don't care about this relationship and how you feel.

Of course, unless the man is unreasonable, if the man is unreasonable, this is her contempt. Whether it's a relationship or a marriage, the best proof of giving up your career and keeping it going is that you can end it no matter what the outcome is, or you have made some plans.

I will often use cold violence to make myself comfortable and relaxed, and I will put on another face when I see you. It may also be to make you sad on purpose. When you are cold, she can be free.

Look at others and look at you. Objectively speaking, comparison is the most unfair, because behind comparison, the advantages of outsiders are often compared with the shortcomings of lovers.

Besides, there is no comparability between people, because everyone has different advantages and disadvantages, different advantages and disadvantages. Maybe he has the ability in this matter, and that matter happens to be what you care about.

Anyway, if a woman often belittles you for no reason, she is disgusted.

Long-term harmonious relationship between husband and wife depends on women's admiration and admiration for men. When she no longer admires her husband, her marriage will break up sooner or later.

Most women's divorce ideas begin with never liking men.

Pass if you can, forget if you can't. Freud's psychological theory: there is no such thing as a joke, and there is sincerity in every joke.

Therefore, even if she said it in the form of a joke, she would pass if she could, and she would not do it subconsciously if she could not. Talking about it often shows that she has this idea more or less.

In fact, if I didn't have this idea in my heart, I couldn't say such a thing.

Especially a woman, who often talks about the word divorce, is more or less ready for a real divorce. As can be seen from her usual attitude, she will not take the initiative again, leaving the relationship between two people to a man.

I enjoy myself completely passively, and I don't allow my life to be a little unsatisfactory.

The above is a summary of seven sentences, which women with divorce ideas will often say.

Although there is no regretless marriage in this world, even loving couples will have the impulse to divorce, but after the impulse, they still want to stick to it.

But what is the idea of divorce? It is a seed buried in the bottom of my heart.

As time goes on, this seed will take root and sprout. I'm sure I have a negative attitude and don't want to stick to it anymore. I'm just waiting for an opportunity, the right opportunity, and then let go completely.

If it is possible to recover, look for the root of the problem. Most women have left, but they have accumulated too much disappointment. I'm afraid it's a change of heart, and the possibility of recovery is basically very small.

I don't want a divorce. Couples should also pay attention to their attitude and tone when talking together. As the saying goes, a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts in June. Normally, we can't talk about the word divorce. If we talk too much about divorce, we will gradually presuppose the possibility of real divorce.

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