My girlfriend is in love with another man. Help me, help my girlfriend. Guess what that man is thinking?

The key to this problem lies in your girlfriend. Because she can't get over it. Maybe the man just couldn't bear to hurt her, so he didn't refuse her. Say something absolute, and your girlfriend may really die. Women are so emotional! Just judging from this man's style, he is not such an emotional person, but a perverted+emotional liar. And your girlfriend just thinks she still has a glimmer of hope. Because this man didn't refuse him personally, she chose to deceive herself and continue to love this man. Perhaps the love now is not pure love, but also mixed with some disappointment!

As you, I think you should give your girlfriend time to see if her feelings are misplaced. And I don't think you should take your girlfriend to see this man again. I think time can dilute everything. I just broke up with my boyfriend of five years six months ago. He fell in love with another woman, but didn't want to break up with me. He just wants to drag two women like this. Isn't this a bit like your girlfriend's experience? The despair at that time made me go to the gate of hell several times, and even wanted everyone to die together. Now, I feel really stupid for surviving. Life is precious. We shouldn't waste precious life on people who are not worth it. Advise your girlfriend to spend all her energy on cherishing the immediate happiness!

Time can really dilute everything. I didn't believe it before, but now I believe it. Although that feeling is still in my heart, it is only a part of my memory. I have never regretted it, and I even appreciate the maturity brought by this parting!

If your girlfriend is still obsessed with that man, I advise you to quit. After all, the real victim here is you! Maybe it's better for you to be friends. Maybe one day she will change her mind. This world doesn't mean that we can't live without anyone. Be brave and live for yourself! Leave these troubles to them to solve! Out of sight is clean!

Finally, I wish you an early stay away from confusion!