Daughter, shall we talk about "freedom"

Hello!

That night, you complained to me: "I'm so tired, I feel like a bird in a cage, and I'm not free at all …". The more you talk, the more excited and wronged you are, and your cheeks are covered with tears. Speaking of pain, you bury your head in the quilt and cry loudly. That scene is worse than Dou E's.

I'm exhausted after a busy day. I silently tidy up this messy clothes for you, but my brain is running at a rapid pace, thinking about how to comfort you full of sadness.

Your crying is like a rainstorm in summer. It comes and goes quickly. After a while, the crying stopped abruptly. You poked your head out of the bed, craned your neck to find me, and inexplicably said to me, "Mom, I'm sorry." I was shocked and Friar Zhang Er was confused. What happened to this little girl? She healed herself so quickly? Secretly secretly pleased in my heart, this story turned too fast!

I said calmly, "It's okay. The little girl must have too many grievances. Just say it as soon as possible. " Turning off the light, I pulled you to my side and said, "Come on, let's talk for a while and whisper." You are smart, lying side by side with me, and it's dark and quiet around.

I touched your fine hair and asked you softly, "What's the matter? Have you encountered anything unhappy during this time? " Tell mom. "You lower your voice and say simply," Yes, I feel that our children are not free. Why do we children go to school and do our homework every day? Why should we listen to your adult? "Why can't we live freely? ……"

In fact, I understand your so-called freedom, which is nothing more than going to school if you want, not going to school if you don't want, learning whatever you like, and learning nothing if you are unhappy. The freedom you strive for is to watch TV whenever you want, and you don't need to be urged by adults.

Daughter, I'm telling you, singing if you want is super girl, playing if you want, and painting if you don't want. This is called giving up halfway. That's not freedom, that's nonsense, and in the end it's nothing. Some things, said and thought, cried and made trouble. Just like tonight, your inexplicable emotional storm. But some things, really can't let the temper. For example, your unrealistic freedom, just stay in your dream and think about it. Clever as you are, those unreasonable demands are impossible to achieve, and I don't need to tell you that. Why else would you say "I'm sorry" to me after you lost your temper?

You are really an obedient and sensible child. You are very smart, and you echo me from afar. When it comes to funny things, you can't help laughing and pulling my arm. It's totally unreasonable. After a while, I heard your even breathing.

Looking at your sleeping face, listening to your sweet voice and recalling your words just now, I have mixed feelings, and my heart can't be calm for a long time.

A child under ten years old is defending and pursuing freedom, hehe, interesting. Ok, next, mom picks up a pen and talks to you about "freedom".

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Prince Charles of England once said, "There are many things you have to do in this world, and that is responsibility."

Girl, you see, just like Prince Charles, she is also helpless, bound by rules and regulations, and free to do whatever she wants.

Daughter, you know, mom must tell you first that there is no complete freedom in this world.

Your favorite monkey Sun has high martial arts and many skills. He used to be arrogant and arrogant, and he went all the way. Finally, it was crushed by the Tathagata at the foot of Wuxing Mountain for 500 years. He is so powerful, doesn't he have complete freedom?

Sun lost his freedom in 500 years of wind and rain. He tried to tell us that there is no so-called freedom beyond the rules in this world.

If you want to realize yourself to the greatest extent, you must first follow the mainstream rules.

If the Monkey King is allowed to do whatever he wants, how can there be a story of loyalty and protecting Tang Priest's scriptures? If there is no magic spell, when can the Monkey King learn from the Buddhist scriptures and become a Buddha in the Western Heaven? If there are no rules, he will probably become Po Hou, and he will get into trouble.

It can be seen that there is a limit to freedom, and there is freedom within the rules.

Just like you, you can go to school if you want, but you can't get up on the sofa if you are addicted to drama. In the end, you will accomplish nothing and become a loser. So can teachers do the same, give lectures when they are happy, and sit in the classroom and play with their mobile phones if they don't want to give lectures? Is the world still in chaos?

Daughter, you have to understand that there are freedom, responsibility and rules in this world.

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Do you remember the movie "Wrestle, Dad" that we watched together? Don't the two little girls there like freedom? Chopped, fasted, forced to practice wrestling. Do they like to get up before dawn and run, and be thrown around in the mud every day?

If dad lets his two daughters grow up freely, maybe their fate is the same as that of a bride of 14 years old: marry a complete stranger, marry pots and pans, and spend their whole lives. It's not that the two little girls never questioned or resisted. Fortunately, at a friend's wedding, the two sisters knew clearly whether to choose to get married early at the age of fourteen or to break out all the way to become world champions.

Only by losing a little freedom today can we gain great freedom another day. If we indulge that little freedom now, we will be restricted and lose more freedom and choices in the future.

Isn't it?

The so-called freedom is not arbitrary, but self-control.

You know, every kind of freedom actually comes at a price.

Daughter, I tell you, only truly independent people are qualified to talk about freedom. How can a person who can't take care of himself and depends on others for everything be free? Where is freedom for a person who can't get up and stand up? Only when you are strong enough can you have the confidence and ability to have the right to freedom and choice. For example, two Indian girls in the movie can live according to their own wishes instead of being forced to get married to make a living.

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Let's talk about your favorite Zhao again. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Zhao Liying, the cutest cute treasure in your heart, was born in the countryside and was not a professional. She worked as an actress 1 1 year and played a supporting role for 7 years. You only know that she became famous overnight because of China, and you don't know how many years she has endured for this day.

Because of my round face, I can't be the protagonist, so I can be choosy and passively play a series of maids, daughters, granddaughters and sisters. An actor's profession is "not free". In this seven-year walk-on career, Zhao chose to suffer silently. One filming after another, one role after another, and the acting skills are improved little by little. Speaking with works, speaking with achievements and speaking with roles constantly brought more surprises to the audience, and finally achieved the counterattack of the screen queen.

After being in China, Zhao let go of all restrictions, and good scripts and good roles followed. She has the freedom and capital to choose and choose, and has her own right to speak. She is free to choose her favorite role, try different themes and taste different lives.

You only know that Zhao is the "viewing queen", but do you know? Even today, 365 days a year, she still works more than 300 days, basically all year round, without interruption.

Daughter, you know, every freedom that makes people happy requires a lot of early efforts.

Sacrifice a part of freedom, invest a lot of time and energy, get a little room for improvement, thus have the opportunity to show and choose, protect freedom to a greater extent, and get close to the life you want as soon as possible in the rules.

Today, I am very happy that you, only ten years old, have known the value of freedom, realized that you lack freedom, and want to pursue freedom further to have freedom. As your mother, I am sincerely happy for your independent thinking and active struggle for rights!

As we all know, daughter, in this society, freedom is a luxury, which is more valuable than a LV bag. You know, a LV bag is only expensive, and freedom is precious. No matter how expensive the LV bag is, it is also valuable, but freedom is priceless.

I hope that through your own efforts, you will gradually accumulate the initiative in your hands and gradually have the ability to lead to freedom, girl, come on!

May you always choose freely.

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