Have you learned how to get along with your mother?

1, my daughter is also the apple of my parents' eye, and my parents' heart is in my heart. Any mother wants her daughter to marry her husband's family and live a happy life. If the mother-in-law can treat her daughter-in-law like her own daughter, her mother will feel comforted and happy, and her attitude towards her mother-in-law will naturally be "smile".

2. If you feel that your mother's behavior is unreasonable, you can talk to your mother directly or your daughter-in-law. Don't talk to outsiders. Even if your mother does something wrong, your mother-in-law can't make irresponsible remarks. Even if you are right, your daughter-in-law will lose face. If it is not done well, it will cause contradictions between the two families.

My mother-in-law is here. As a mother-in-law, we must be hospitable and not neglect. If your mother is here, if you are unhappy, you must be full of energy and receive her warmly. Otherwise your mother will associate you with your attitude towards her daughter. I can't help thinking that you must be bad to her daughter. She will resent her mother-in-law, which will definitely affect the feelings of the young couple and the family.

Perhaps the status and influence of the two families are very different. When the mother-in-law is at a disadvantage, don't please and curry favor with her mother-in-law, and don't "envy and hate".