What does the saying "Ignore people at home, but no one when out" mean?

In our country's proverb culture, there are many truths about human nature and sophistication, and there are many classic sayings. These common sayings and culture may be concise and concise, or may be crude and easy to understand... Most of these are some very incisive truths about human nature and worldliness. These are all examples worth learning from. For example, the editor is going to say something wrong with the saying "Ignore people at home". However, the next sentence of this proverb speaks about human nature and is a classic. How do you say this? Because what he said is more realistic and pokes at the weakness of modern parental education. As the saying goes, "If you don't educate, someone will educate you." This is what it means! What's the meaning behind it? The editor will tell you what the second half of the saying is going to be.

The common saying "ignoring others at home" refers to children who are rude at home and do not have the most basic respect for their parents. Such children can be said to be very unsuccessful. Most of these children have a tendency to be spoiled. Why there were so many prodigal children in ancient times was probably because of problems with their parents’ education. Such children are lawless and domineering at home. The deeper the parents love, the more rebellious the children will be and the deeper the hatred will be. Parents and children in this world are really enemies in previous lives. Such children, no matter how bad they are, are still treasures in the hands of their parents.

In fact, the problems mentioned above are only a small part. The ancients paid great attention to the education of children. People with a little financial resources attach great importance to their children's education. The editor will give you an example. Take Lu Xun. His family was in good condition. The first thing he thought about was the education of his children, and the second was survival. The editor will not go into details about the children of emperors, generals and prime ministers, but will talk about the children of ordinary people. It can be said that their children's education begins when they are sensible. This is the deep-seated reason why children in ancient times were able to take charge of their own business when they were married at the age of thirteen or four. Education came first.

However, the second half of this proverb speaks of human nature and can be called a classic. The first half of the sentence means "Ignore people at home", while the second half means "No one cares about me when I go out". Look, everyone, how realistic the second half of this proverb is. Our ancestors have been aware of the problem for thousands of years, but modern parents selectively ignore it. In the eyes of modern parents, the well-behaved baby is "ignored when they go out", which exposes many of the weaknesses of modern parental education. The editor will give you another example. Wei Yongkang, the all-powerful "genius prodigy" of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, is a very clear example. Wei Yongkang was taken care of by his parents all the time at home, so that when he was admitted to the Chinese Academy of Sciences at the age of 17, he could not even take care of himself, and eventually dropped out of school.

The tragedy of Wei Yongkang is a tragedy and an epitome of modern parental education. Most of the modern parenting education is very pampering of children. In any case, I am doting on my children for no reason. Therefore, most children are domineering and selfish at home, which looks very shameful. Can you expect others to like such a child in society? The editor can say with certainty that when such children enter the society, not to mention no one cares about them outside, even their survival is a problem. It can be said that such children have very serious problems with their independence in life and even their mental quality.

I have to say that as the saying goes, "Ignore people at home," the next sentence expresses human nature and is a classic. The editor has already told you the meaning behind this saying. I hope everyone can see that human nature is a very complex thing, with an indifferent side and a side that distinguishes right from wrong. Think about it, everyone, is this true? The weakness of modern parental education has also been exposed by the wise words of our ancestors. The issue of children's education is very critical and cannot be ignored. What do you think about children’s education? Welcome to leave your insights below the article for reference and exchange.