Destined to come thousands of miles to meet each other, go round and round, it will always be you in my life

I have always fantasized countless times about whether my husband would drive the colorful auspicious clouds through thousands of mountains and rivers and find me inconspicuously in the vast sea of ??people.

Our story begins when I went to college in the year of the Beijing Olympics.

My family is from a rural area, and I went to a local university. I had never left our small county before going to university. I have always been a good girl in the eyes of my parents and teachers.

His family is from the village next to mine. He is the child of another family in their village. At school, I respect my teachers, care about my classmates, and most importantly, have excellent academic performance. In addition, what outsiders talk about is that he is particularly filial and always helps his family with farm work when he returns home. This was in an era when naughty boys were chased, shouted, and beaten all over the streets. This seems so valuable.

He went to college in the city next to me, and we didn’t know it at that time. There is another us in the world.

He is brilliant in his field, while I am unknown in my little world.

When I was in college, I quickly integrated into the colorful campus life. Classes are held every day. Participate in various club activities. Occasionally, groups of people would watch boys playing basketball on the basketball court. They will also start making noises. In fact, at that time, I didn’t really like basketball. It's just an almost simple following.

On the university campus, he volunteered to become the monitor. Serve the classmates conscientiously every day.

At this time, we seem to be two parallel lines that cannot intersect at all.

However, fate sometimes has its own arrangements.

By chance, I met a senior student. After talking happily, we realized that we were from the same place. How warm it is to meet an old friend in a foreign country. Soon, we became good friends and talked about everything.

This enthusiastic senior sister saw that I was alone every day, so she wanted to introduce me to a partner. Graduation was approaching at that time, and most of the sisters in the dormitory were busy looking for jobs. Most of them have their favorite friends of the opposite sex in high school, and when they come to college, the relationship develops into a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. I am the youngest in our dormitory and the last to find a partner. They always tease me: saying that I am uncivilized and too simple-minded.

Seeing that someone was worrying about me, I happily agreed.

This friend was introduced to me by my senior sister. It's her hair. According to her description: she looks upright, extremely motivated, and very filial. I was moved as soon as I heard it. Finally, the senior sister said: Oh, this friend is now admitted as a special post teacher. He is a primary school teacher in a very remote village in a certain county.

It was a small county that I had never heard of or set foot in. In my mind, this place is far away from my hometown.

At that time, I was very proud. Dreaming of going to a big city to develop. I was completely unable to submit myself to accept a male teacher from a remote mountain village. I always feel that they are too bookish and cannot support the family. Of course, my thoughts at the time were more or less extreme and immature.

So, I directly rejected my senior’s kindness.

This is the first time I have heard of this person.

In a blink of an eye, I graduated. And the senior sister is preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination re-examination. When I encountered many difficulties in finding a job, I also thought of taking the postgraduate entrance examination. This is how to escape the pressure of the employment army. I contacted my senior sister.

After we talked about matters related to the postgraduate entrance examination. Chatted for a while. At this time, the senior sister has a good harvest in academics and love. My boyfriend is their fellow graduate student who took the postgraduate entrance examination together. I'm so envious. I was told that I haven’t found anyone yet. The senior sister said, I want to think about whether there are any single boys around me, and I will introduce one to you.

The senior sister thought about it for a long time, and all the boys she saw around her were flying together. Suddenly, the senior sister had an idea and said, let's see if I have a partner since I was young. I was extremely reluctant. The senior sister said that she has been transferred to the county seat and she is very good. She can evaluate the excellent students every year. Excellent people are always remembered by many people.

Sure enough, after the senior classmate made the call, she regretfully said to me: I now have a girlfriend and she is ready to get married.

This is the second time I have heard about him.

I jumped into the wave of job hunting again. While looking for a job, I was preparing for my postgraduate entrance examination.

Soon, the annual recruitment for special positions began. Special posts are special posts provided by the state for education in poor areas. Encourage young people to go to villages to support rural education.

With the attitude of giving it a try, I also signed up for the recruitment work that year. Maybe it was because I laid the foundation during the postgraduate entrance examination that I won the first prize in one fell swoop and was admitted as a special teacher. People are always curious about things they are unfamiliar with. Including getting admitted to this job in other places.

That’s how I went to work.

The place where young people gather is always full of laughter and laughter. The same knowledge and the same experience make us always cherish each other. There were two people from other provinces who went with us. They say it is also a life experience. Why don't I think so? Just like that, I stayed. This year, I am 25 years old.

Once a girl from a small place reaches the age of 25, she will become the target of marriage urging by her family.

In my second year of working, my mother started making arrangements to introduce me to people. As long as it's from our side, we can meet anyone with suitable conditions. I started running on the road to blind dates.

When I first started dating, I was really rushing to find a marriage partner. Slowly, this boring way made me feel disgusted. I began to dislike this kind of awkward chat between two strangers who had nothing to say to each other. I started making excuses to turn down these blind dates. But this does not stop families from organizing blind dates. Every holiday, I am always either on a blind date or on the way to a blind date.

I was not born before you were born, but I was already old when you were born.

You hate that I was born late, and I hate that you were born early.

When I was running around on the blind date, he didn’t stop much. Because he is getting married.

We are always walking on the road in a hurry and have no time to savor the beauty around us.

This is what I am. I can only enrich my life and numb my mind through hard work. I always feel that I am still young and have only worked for two years. But in the eyes of people around me, I am already an old girl who is about to enter the ranks of 27. No matter how hard you work and how good you are, if you don't get married at your age, you will always seem a little out of place.

Maybe it’s because I don’t have the fate, so I can only comfort myself silently.

In a blink of an eye, New Year’s Day is here. I chose not to go home.

My colleague is a local and goes shopping with me. When we were still unfinished, she received a call from a friend. Ask us where we are and come and join us. This is a boy, a local from our field.

We were very simple at that time. Regardless of whether we were men or women, if we had similar personalities, we could hang out together, go shopping together, and sing together. Let’s talk about dreams and life. I can just talk about it, that's all.

After a colleague’s friend came over. I was so happy. This was a friend I met on the day I reported.

Small places have this advantage. You can always make some connections through twists and turns. We chatted together. When it comes to my hometown. He smiled in surprise.

Ask the reason. It turned out that there was a boy in his school who went to the same place as me.

I am so happy to get to know you. He regretfully said that this boy had gone home and seemed to be getting married.

I said a little disappointedly. I have no chance. Because I want to find someone from our side to get married. There happened to be such a person, but he was planning to get married.

I didn’t expect that this person turned out to be the boy my senior introduced me to.

Of course, I didn’t know this until later.

This is the third time I have heard about him.

It’s strange, I’m always the passive person.

After this incident, we had no contact with our colleagues and friends for a long time.

I have gradually forgotten about this matter.

After the weekend of Children’s Day, I only had one day off and I didn’t go home. A colleague’s friend asked us to hang out together.

The next morning, my colleagues and I set off early from school. Let's go to the place we agreed on.

I saw her friend standing there waiting for us from a distance, and vaguely saw another person standing next to him. We didn’t think much, we walked over and said hello to our colleague’s friend.

After that, the friend turned around and introduced the stranger to us. He turned to me and said: "This is the fellow countryman I told you about."

I didn't expect that the person I had always heard about suddenly stood in front of me. I was a little surprised. I think my colleagues and friends are really enthusiastic.

This is our first meeting.

I remember the day we first met. The first sentence is: You are here too.

After we met. When we had dinner together, I was surprised to find that he was the brother of my junior high school classmate.

We went to the same junior high school. Meet the same teacher we have. Still graduated from the same high school. But at that time, he was one level higher than me. We are not in a school building.

There are many of his junior high school classmates in our village, and there are many of my classmates in their village.

We walked through the same street and dined in the same restaurant.

The more we chat, the more we talk about the same topic. We couldn't help but add each other's WeChat accounts and leave each other's phone numbers. It's just that I never contacted him proactively.

That night, my WeChat message rang.

Because our hometown’s public institution was recruiting, he asked me if I wanted to take the exam together. I quickly replied: OK.

Immediately afterwards, he sent me a lot of preparation materials.

I vaguely guessed that he might have a crush on me. It may also be simply out of helping fellow villagers. I didn't dwell on it.

See them again. It's a week later.

A friend of my colleague quietly told me: Your fellow countryman is not married. When he was about to get married, he had a conflict with his girlfriend and broke off the engagement. He didn't say why. In short, the marriage couldn't happen.

When I heard this, I couldn’t explain how I felt. I actually felt faintly heartbroken for him.

After eating together. Together they took us back to the unit.

After that, we were always together as a group. became a fixed group. Meet once a week.

Slowly. We are becoming more and more familiar. The contacts gradually increased. Because of the same background and the same field of work. We always have endless topics to talk about. The seeds of love are gradually planted deep in our hearts.

We have similar personalities. We can obviously feel that the other party cares about us, but neither of us has broken through the window paper, but we can still feel the love from the other party.

I remember that he would specially buy my favorite snacks and deliver them to my work. He will also suddenly appear in front of me on Valentine's Day and give me a bouquet of roses. I still remember that he bought a bouquet of flowers and stood at the exit waiting for me to come out. People around him looked sideways, but he remained unmoved.

We will drive together to the surrounding villages on weekends to experience the local customs and customs up close. We will also drive back to our hometown together. He would bring me here again when school started.

After we get together. One time I asked him: Why did you break off the engagement? He smiled but said nothing.

I always tease him on purpose: Do you know that I didn’t have a partner at that time, so I broke off the engagement on purpose and waited for me?

Now, we are married.

Speaking of our union, every time I think about it, I always feel that it was the pull of fate.

I unexpectedly heard from the same person three times. Finally we actually met.

My rejection of blind dates is also implicit, and his breaking off the engagement paved the way for our union.

Destined to come thousands of miles to meet each other, go round and round, you will always be in my life