Love your world, pay equal attention to body and mind.

Love your world, pay equal attention to body and mind.

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In fact, the life of young people is still very tired. Fast-paced, stressful, time-tight, and heavy tasks, you have to trot in the office. Many cases in their hands are repeatedly checked and tracked, and plans, reports, summaries and progress reports come one after another, which makes people suffocate.

Come early in the morning and go back late at night. Time is either on the subway or evaporated on the road. Even lunch is too slow.

Busy every day, too busy to chat with friends, too busy to catch up, too busy to fall in love.

Originally a noble single family, single dog became a dwarf.

The family is also anxious, so they arrange blind dates.

Blind date, I thought it was just a kind of fast food consumption, which forced two unsuitable people together and said how unfortunate they were.

In the past, in order to avoid blind date and not go home after work, I would go to the bar downstairs and order a glass of wine. There are all kinds of people gathered here, including white-collar executives, boss partners and petty bourgeoisie. The lively scene is addictive.

Those plump, active, confident, cunning and ambitious women are full of energy in front of men, and so are those men. They all care about women's figure, not connotation, and they are all attentive and flattering.

It was disgusting to cuddle and cuddle in that kind of transaction-filled occasion, and then I simply stopped setting foot.

The fall of man is not an instant, but a heart disease that accumulates over time. Fallen people are not worthy of love. They just need to vent their bodies. As for who it is, it can look good.

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Remember, my love in my school days is not delicious at all.

Everyone's understanding of love is just like finding a job requires work experience. Find someone, practice ventriloquism, explore men's and women's bodies, explore piston movement, and fight a tough battle of hormone eruption. Afterwards, everyone will brag about their love experience.

Wen's story has been reluctant to mention.

She was my classmate in college. She looks good, has a good figure and dresses in fashion, which shows that single parents lack fatherly love. When I first entered the university, I was stared at by a male student who was a junior in Chinese. I insisted on a letter every day, a bunch of roses every day, and a box of customized pizza every day.

A few days later, Wen's iceberg was melted by the other side's slow fire. In fact, male students with Chinese language background are very romantic, supported by the works of Xu Zhimo, Zhang Ailing, Zhu Shenghao and Liang Sicheng, but Wen can't stand the sweet talk and falls into tenderness.

Wen Xi gave himself everything he could, including his young body.

The generous pocket money given by the family is supplemented by room opening fee, meal fee and entertainment fee.

When the economy is seriously overspent, even for one person, lower one's taste, use the worst cosmetics and wear cheap clothes. Wen is getting more and more rustic, his face is getting more and more yellow, and he likes that male classmate more and more. Sometimes Acacia can draw his sketch quietly in the textbook.

However, after graduating from senior year, male students entrusted others to give Wen a letter, and without a formal explanation for breaking up, people disappeared without a trace.

Content of the letter: I just like your body, and I love you very much when I am in bed. I am very happy when I am apart.

For Wen, what she wants is eternal life, while for male students, all he wants is comfort.

One is because of sweet words like the wrong person, and the other is because of loneliness and emptiness.

Maybe love is like this. If the so-called love is young and beautiful, it will continue or be forced to cancel the contract sooner or later.

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It is often said that office romance is unreliable. I think it's just alarmism in film and television works and novels, which magnifies and exaggerates the material desires and passions of this society.

There are a pair of good men and women in the company, who are both my colleagues and my good friends. Their love life is as poetic as chopping wood, carrying water, washing rice and cooking.

We never gave up our love for each other and talked together for more than three years.

Some people say that after a long time, they are either in a hurry to get married or planning to break up.

But these two people are really special.

When two people are together, they are more eager for knowledge than creatures themselves. They study literature together, from You Jie grocery stores, lonely novelists, thugs and little princes to springs and stars in the world as will and representation. Together, I experienced loneliness and vulgarity. I can distinguish elegance, understand the desolate world and understand warm feelings.

They also have different hobbies, such as painting, calligraphy, photography, mountain climbing, bungee jumping and cycling. Both of them cultivate their sentiments in their favorite hobbies, improve their temperament and tolerance, have their own opinions, talk to each other, rely on each other, and take their time.

The wedding vows of two people are also very romantic: to accompany you for a lifetime is also a lifetime. Your world is my world. Loving your unique soul is as important as your fresh and exciting body.

The so-called meeting may not only mean meeting someone who seems satisfied, but also expecting to meet a brain hole with both wisdom and connotation. You are so interesting, chatting can accompany you until dawn, which is far greater than the catnap that just wants to sleep with you and rest early.

What kind of person you are, you can meet what kind of person.

The most beautiful appearance of love is the fit of the soul. The height, thinness, beauty and ugliness of the body are by no means death in a strict sense, and we can't rely solely on biological instinct to refuse and reject it.

Shallow people are not qualified for love, and they don't realize that kind of unexpected meeting.

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Today, I understand "to the oak tree": love-not only your majestic body, but also your position and the land under your feet.

I love you, not only your body, but also your thoughts and positions, and your living environment.

Therefore, I avoid blind date, not because I feel nervous, stage fright and trembling at the sight of the opposite sex, but because I think it is a waste of time. Spend more time on hobbies, even if you think for a while alone, it's a hundred times better than talking about boring and monotonous people's livelihood topics at a blind date table.

I also want to rent a girlfriend to go home because I am in a hurry, avoiding the first grade and surviving the fifteenth. It doesn't make much sense to think about it later.

First, deceptive transactions are similar to those mentioned at the beginning, and they also look down on themselves.

The second is relief. My soul mate has to go through the test of big waves and sands, which makes me lucky and makes me lose my life.

Third, instead of tossing in the air, it is better to spend time forging your own soul. I will trade my partner's life for a gold-plated real body.

People should have the creed of love. I give myself a love creed: I would rather be lonely and single all my life than live forever.

Because love itself is full of ritual sense, or love itself has ritual sense, and ritual sense promises a contract to the people and things we love, and this contract itself should be respected and respected.

Frankly speaking, love, love is a sense of security, which needs to be guarded and practiced by the soul. This is the collision and blending of two values of two worlds in one world.

All my life, when I meet you, I will give up myself for protection.

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Text | Lei Lei

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