On speech injury

Over the years, time has been lost. In retrospect, I did a lot of stupid things. Among all these stupid things, the most stupid thing is that because of their incompetence and desire, they have produced a lot of hostility and hurt the closest people around them.

Talking about hurting the people closest to you

First, people always speculate with the greatest malice and do not hesitate to hurt the closest people in the most malicious way.

Second, how to say it.

? I just think: no matter what, don't lose your temper with the people closest to you. ? You are in a bad mood and need a place to vent, but what did they do wrong to bear your bad temper? Hurting the people closest to us is because our ability is limited to hurting the people around us. Is this the reason for careful taste? Is it selfish to lose your temper casually?

Third, the people who should be closest to each other hurt each other the most.

I think that's what I've been thinking. I'm just saying it now. It seems that I should be sad, but I am so stubborn that I can't even cry. Well, I may be really miserable.

Fourth, I met a corn seller on my way home. It was 10.6 yuan. I said I would buy three, and the corn seller told you four.

You see, kindness is given by strangers, and harm is given by the closest people.

I still choose to die alone, at least I am happy.

Can you understand the pain? The most painful injury comes not from the enemy, but from the people closest to you.

6. I am always worried about my choice. I hope I will think twice before I do anything, so as not to hurt the people closest to me.

Seven, people who often hurt you. Is the closest person.

Eight, sometimes the closest people really hurt themselves the most.

Nine, some pressures always have to be carried by themselves, and when they are said, they become complaints full of negative energy. It does not help to seek comfort, but also increases the troubles of others. Don't vent your emotions when you are pessimistic. For you, it is venting, and for the listener, it may be a kind of harm. People who see this side are often the closest people.

Ten,? Your excessive malicious words will only lead to a decisive departure and hurt those closest to you?

It's a pity that I just understand this now.

Otherwise, I will change and you won't leave.

1 1. Many times, I really don't like myself and always use the strongest language to hurt the closest people. But every regret is repetition.

Since my parents quarreled when I was a child, I have been very afraid of being nervous and helpless.

Obviously, the closest people can really be full of violent words, hysterical and even fighting.

That is more helpless and sad than being hurt.

Every time I shrink aside, I dare not make any noise. I will cry and hurt myself.

A child with a complete family may not be complete.

Children from single-parent families are not necessarily really unlucky.

Thirteen, respect is not only for friends, the closest people, the favorite people need! ! From your perspective, please don't take it for granted! In fact, it is not good to be too considerate, because it is too easy to hurt yourself! Only * * * encourage! Good girls, good night!

I am very unhappy at the thought of going to work again tomorrow. Recently, I have become more and more grumpy and angry. Sometimes it's easy to hurt the people closest to you. Alas, sometimes I know everything in my heart, but I can't convince myself to accept it, to face the reality frankly, and my mentality determines everything. I hope I can go happily every day ~

15. Does it really make you feel good to hurt the closest person with the most vicious language?

Sixteen, I can't control my emotions every time.

Just talking nonsense and hurting the people closest to you.

Can this question be changed in my life?

Seventeen,

Eighteen,

I had a fight with the old man because of Peggy's tattoo sticker.

I always hurt those closest to me.

? We don't have a home yet. Half the people are still wandering outside. ?

? Mom always has all kinds of pains. ?

? Dad is old and it's hard to find a job. ?

Today, the old man said that everyone else was admitted. I said that because her teacher was not SF, she cried. My father said distressfully that she sent you to UCA. Hey. My parents have been trying to make up for me, although it's not their fault. Am I? The cynicism of relatives. We all carry too much. I am their best hope.

? Eyes are getting clearer because of repeated tears, and hearts are getting warmer and warmer because of suffering?

Nineteen, even if people are so tacit, they will hurt the closest people because of a small matter. Maybe being rich and powerful is life. I want to work hard.

Twenty, nothing can't be solved overnight.

If so, then sleep more!

Those who are afraid to hear

Things I don't want to face

It will all pass.

No matter how strong you are.

Have some grievances

It will really make tears burst.

Despite many difficulties

Also continue to refuel.

one day

You will meet that different self.

The closest person

Injury is also the most deadly.

No one can understand the helplessness.

Would you please do it every time? Really small? afterwards

Return to yourself full of positive energy as soon as possible.

I am stubborn and have a bad temper.

Obviously, I don't think so in my heart.

You're telling another story.

I always hurt the people closest to me

The more worried I am, the less I care.

More stubborn, more worried, even annoying.

Actually, I just don't want anyone to worry about me, and I don't want them to care about me all the time.

I like being alone, and I don't like anyone seeing me.

I want to hide where no one is, and do what I want to do, what I really want to do.

I want to shut myself in a world without people.

Twenty-two, starting today, be a person who treats friends like parents and relatives, instead of leaving your bad temper and bad state to the closest people. Be more patient and love your parents and relatives. I have nothing to hide, I have no temper, and I have been hurt by the love of my parents and relatives again and again. I see, I know my mistake, and I repent.

Twenty-three, it's okay ~ those excessive words didn't come out. I really didn't know you were so busy recently, and then you met a series of sad things. Let me think about it quietly.

But I really don't know how to improve my mentality.

You can't hurt the people closest to you when you are sad.

24. Today is too much for my mother, and I have too many ideas. I shouldn't hurt the people closest to me.

Twenty-five, we always treat our closest people with our worst side; It's not that we do this on purpose, but because we know each other too well, and the cost of hurting a person is very low. After the face is ferocious, even if the torn wound heals, there are still scars. When we wait to face the afterglow of the west, it is not so dazzling. And very gentle.

Twenty-six, people will always use the worst words to hurt the closest people, probably because of the security of knowing that you will not leave.

27. Will Cancer be less sensitive, less intuitive and less likely to see through other people's lies? Cancer really hates it when the closest person lies to TA. This kind of injury will last for a long time and it is hard to forget. Don't lie to Cancer, it will only make you cover it up with explanations like a clown. Cancer who loves you can only stand by and watch you direct and act? Fairy tales? .

28. I really want to apologize. It's my bad attitude, which is different from my previous attitude. Let you down. I'm sorry, maybe it's been a long time, and we often hurt the people closest to us. I don't care about people around me.

Twenty-nine, people are selfish and want to get benefits from others, but they don't care. After using it, they feel worthless, but this bad habit will hurt the people closest to them.

Thirty, my mother said that my sister mentioned it several times this semester, but she didn't want to say why. It seems that most people care about her study, but they don't really care about her psychology. She must have experienced something unhappy at school, and I have been putting pressure on her to study. How much pain we can bear outside, but the most fatal injury often comes from the people we really care about, and we always hurt the closest people without scruple.

Thirty-one, not for your own shortcomings.

I want to find some support around the closest people.

Ah, never mind. You are doing very well. Even if it is not perfect, you are actually the most perfect.

People should be free, confident and love themselves.

That's good.

Really, this is good.

But what the people closest to you say will hurt you to pieces and degrade you.

She gives you what she thinks will inspire you. She thinks it can stimulate you to work harder, but it is not the force that can support you to stick to it. This is the greatest malice.

I always feel that I am not a qualified mother because I am more emotional. It's easy to lose your temper with your child when you are upset, and then you regret it. When the mood comes, I can't control myself and blame myself. Alas, what a contradiction. In the eyes of others, I am a gentle person, and there is no one who easily loses his temper. Why do I always hurt my closest people with my worst side? Alas, I don't like myself like this. How can we change it?

33. It is often the people closest to us who hurt us the most, because caring and unadorned words plunge into our chest like bayonets, and we can't breathe, just like falling into an ice cave. What can I do? Refutation? Laugh it off, I can't do it, I can only endure it silently and lick it alone on the wound in my heart. Fortunately, I still love my lonely soul, still strong, always smiling and saying to myself, don't worry. ?

In the past two days, graduation photo, who watched the seniors in the opposite dormitory pack their bags and patted the bachelor's uniform, always remembered himself when he graduated from college, arrogant, outspoken and frivolous. In the end, the people who were hurt and destroyed were the closest people in those four years, just like nails nailed to wood, and the deep traces were always when I pulled them out. I hope I can regain my friendship and move on after graduation at this time next year.

There are thousands of kinds of love in this world, but none of them is taken for granted.

These selfless loves are worth cherishing.

Especially for the people closest to you in your life,

They gave us the longest and gentlest love.

But we ignored it,

The closer you are, the easier it is for us to hurt you.

People who love you enough will give you enough security.

This is why you think that no matter how you mess around, they will not leave, because we will release our little temper without scruple because we are close;

Because you are close, you will be unscrupulous and unreasonable.

But these unintentional actions often leave deep and shallow scars in their hearts.

From an early age, we were taught to be polite to outsiders.

But perhaps what we should learn more is not to leave bad temper to the closest relatives.

This is a process of gradually learning to love and cherish.

Love is tolerant, but it doesn't mean that we can accept it blindly;

Love is patience, but it doesn't mean that we can do whatever we want.

36. People who can hurt you are always the closest people around you.

It seems that I should emigrate

Anger can only be directed at myself, and hope will rebound on the stupid man!

Thirty-seven, human nature is good, children's world is as pure as white paper, and parents need to help them distinguish good from evil. As the closest person to the child, parents' words and deeds will affect the child's character and daily behavior. Some parents do not pay attention to their words and deeds and subtly distort their children's view of right and wrong, which is an invisible harm to their children. Aunt Zhang's family was poor when she was a child. When she is hungry, she often relies on her neighbors. . .

Thirty-eight, to be honest

Don't be selfish.

Don't spill your willfulness on others.

You will hurt the people closest to you.

Don't complain why everyone has left you.

Because you have lost your qualification.

You drove them away, so don't think that others drove them away.

If there is a difference between not wanting and disdaining.

We all know your selfishness, your inferiority complex and your self-confidence in disguise.

It's just that we really have no obligation to endure again and again.

39. Deeply review yourself. Why always give patience and gentleness to others, and leave temper and impatience to the closest people? Why do you always hurt the person who loves me the most? Introspection!

Forty, when we are occupied by negative emotions, we often do things that we regret afterwards, and then continue to be controlled by negative emotions and fall into a negative cycle.

When our emotions are out of control, the people closest to us are the first to get hurt.

An angry word that has not been thought through the brain may have caused harm to relatives.

Although the harm of words is invisible, it is like stabbing a hole in your heart. It may heal after a long time, but it will also leave ugly scars. Or it may never heal completely, and you will get injured again if you are not careful.