What does it mean that some elderly people always like to pretend to be sick in front of their children? What should children do?

You can’t pick out one such old man among a hundred! My mother is such a person, and there is nothing her children can do against her. The extremely selfish old man is nearing the end of his life. She is particularly afraid of death and extremely afraid of death (very pitiful, and her children cannot help her). The old man has no time to think about his children and only thinks about himself, and his children really take advantage of her. no way. People who have not experienced it personally have no idea or understanding of the heartache, helplessness, helplessness, speechlessness, and grief-stricken feeling of being tortured by one's own mother as a child! The grievances, tears, and pain of being tortured and hurt by maternal love, and the thought of dying first rise in my heart every day, but then fall helplessly, gritting my teeth and persisting...! If a vicious mother raises children who are soft-hearted and kind, the children will be unlucky; if a kind and great mother raises vicious children, the mother will be unlucky. This is how God has arranged this world. As long as your children are alive, they should hold on, send off the elderly well, fulfill their responsibilities and obligations, and be a person worthy of their own conscience and worthy of giving birth to and raising me. Give yourself Accumulate blessings, accumulate virtues, and accumulate blessings! Don't worry too much about the person who is about to die, you won't be angry! God's will is unpredictable, and people will not suffer such pain in life, but they will also suffer that kind of torture. Life has to be experienced. The process of drinking bitter wine first and then sweet wine is better than the experience of drinking sweet wine first and then bitter wine! Bless the questioner! Every family has troubles, so we should be open-minded and open-minded. No matter what kind of parents we encounter, we must be grateful and repay our kindness!

Many old people start to pretend to be sick, meaning that I have raised you and it is time for you to enjoy peace and happiness. I am sick and can't do anything anymore, so I can take care of it myself.

When you meet such an old man, you should never get used to it as a child. Either you work far away from home, or if you are at home, you use all methods and means to force them to be self-reliant.

Otherwise, think about it, they live to be a hundred years old, assuming they are fifty now, then, as a child, you now take over to support them, so that they can live a life of clothing, food and mouth, you must Raise them until they die.

So such old people are not good people. They can be described as lazy, weird, and evil.

In fact, they don’t have any love, and they are just calculating family affection. The main purpose of raising children is to take advantage of them when they grow up. In fact, when raising children, they don’t want to pay much at all. Among their classmates and friends, their children are definitely the ones with the least money and the least self-esteem.

The kind of parents I hate the most are bad elders.

My parents are the kind of people who never say anything when they are not feeling well. The year before last, my mother suffered a cerebral hemorrhage and passed away. Later, my neighbor told me that a few days before my mother became ill, when she was running in the morning, She told her neighbor that she had a headache these past few days. My sister-in-law had just given birth to her second child and was still in confinement. She was serving her daughter-in-law. My brother was also on a business trip and my father was busy. She didn’t say anything. It was around ten o’clock in the morning that day. , she asked my sister-in-law what to eat for lunch. She went to pick up her eldest grandson and bought it back. After talking, she probably went to the toilet. It wasn’t until about twelve o’clock that my sister-in-law saw that her mother and daughter hadn’t come back yet, so she called Asked the teacher, the teacher said no one picked her up. At the guard's place, my sister-in-law planned to go to the toilet and put on thick clothes to pick her up. She was in confinement at that time. As soon as I went to the toilet, I discovered that my mother had fainted at some point and had vomited a lot of what she had eaten in the morning. My daughter-in-law was so scared that she called me. Later, she also went to 120 and went to the hospital for a craniotomy. , and then she became a vegetative state. She didn’t know anything. She stayed in bed for more than half a year and then left. She suffered everything when she was sick, but she still didn’t keep her mother. Later, I heard from a neighbor that my mother’s illness had been showing signs for a long time. She was the one who always Hold on, well, if she had said it at the beginning, early detection and early treatment would not have been so serious, so I think parents nowadays take care of their illness on their own, and there are very few who pretend to be ill, at least my parents do. In this case, I hope they will tell them early when they feel uncomfortable. Of course, I have seen old people pretending to be sick, but rarely

Most of the old people are willing to give up everything for their children, as long as their children Okay, whatever you do is fine.

My son, until he goes to school, tell this old daughter-in-law, I still have two children, and I won’t blame you or help you when I’m old. Don’t get mad! You have nowhere to go!

More than twenty years later, the old lady really couldn’t do anything anymore. She gave her family property to her eldest son and her savings to her daughter! Now the eldest son is slandering her all the time and chasing her away, and the daughter says she has a daughter-in-law and still wants the girl to take care of her in old age? At this time, the old lady thought of her old daughter-in-law and said: My old daughter-in-law has a good temper. She has never given her face and wants to move to her home! Let's talk about it, how should this old daughter-in-law deal with such a thing? What if it was your daughter? So, not all daughters-in-law are bad, and not all old people are good. Troubles cannot be lumped together. The world is a big place, and there are all kinds of surprises. If one person is happy, the whole world is happy, and if a family is harmonious, the whole world is harmonious. Those who say The subject of this question is a person who is ignorant and has no conscience towards his parents. What if this matter is left to you? There are always unexpected things. The disadvantage of the old man is that there are always bad parents in the world!

Haha! My mother is like this sometimes. I will take her to the hospital with the most people for a comprehensive check-up. She can only do it for two days in one day. She queues up for the check-up and is not allowed to eat or do tests. Only two times is enough. From now on, I will do it again. I was told in front of me that I needed to have a check-up because I felt uncomfortable, so I told him to go to the provincial hospital for a check-up. Other places couldn't do it, and the check-up was not thorough. My mother was completely cured as soon as she heard this, haha! My mother just loves to play mahjong. Sometimes her cervical vertebrae feel uncomfortable after playing mahjong, so she says she has a serious illness and asks us to take her for a checkup, haha! Since I took her to the provincial hospital twice, I will never ask for a check-up without any reason. Remember, when you meet such an elderly person, one: don’t be afraid of spending money (the elderly now have medical insurance and can’t spend much money), and two: don’t be afraid Trouble, three: Don't feel bad about the pain she endured during the examination. You have to check everything. She said she was tired and couldn't stop the examination, so she had to be led to do all the examinations, especially the gastroscopy and the rows of the heart, twice. , they won’t bother you, and they won’t go if you ask them to go. This is not a matter of filial piety for children, because there are simple medical examinations in the community every year. If there is a serious illness, then we must do it as children. You have to do your duty to serve your parents, but if you are not sick and tossing around, it is best to do this. As long as they say they feel uncomfortable, then have all aspects checked, haha! I promise that two times is enough. My mother only needs two times. Now as long as she says she wants to check me and go to the provincial hospital, she will be fine immediately.

Ever since I was forty-seven, my mother would sleep in bed and pretend to be sick whenever she had a minor health problem. The old man himself was so sick that he would not survive the next day, so we had to take him with him overnight. She went to the hospital, but when she got there she had a common cold, so my father and I often dragged her on a cart for three to four kilometers overnight! I went to this hospital today and that hospital tomorrow. All the medicine boxes and bottles left behind at Fanzheng’s home were all taken by her old man. Later, her father said a few words, so she directly followed the people in the village. The group of religious old women traveled across the mountains and ridges to run the church, and then were almost washed away by floods during a heavy rain. Then my father became furious and ended my mother's Christian career!

Later, my sister and I got married one after another, and later, my father also passed away, so only my mother was left to live alone in the family. In the winter when my mother was seventy-seven years old, her natal family Her nephew took her to live with her. She is getting younger and younger, and there are only a few white hairs on her head. Now she has easily lived past ninety years old, but her body is surprisingly good. From the appearance Look, the whole person looks like he is only about seventy years old, and he can live to be at least a hundred years old!

As soon as my father-in-law came to my house, he said that he felt uncomfortable here and there. He especially wanted us to take him to the hospital for a physical examination.

We all know that the body of the elderly is like a machine. It has aged and will suffer from some chronic diseases, back pain and leg pain.

My father-in-law has diabetes and he doesn’t eat anything. His eyes are blurry, so he said he can’t see and asked us to take him to the hospital to have his eyes checked.

If we don’t take him to see it, he will always eat with his eyes closed.

I cooked food for my father-in-law in various ways, with all the chopsticks in hand. As a daughter-in-law, I think I have done a good job.

But in the eyes of the father-in-law, he accepted it as a matter of course.

He would still say that this was uncomfortable and that was uncomfortable. It was not until he went to the hospital and checked over again that my father-in-law opened his eyes to eat.

But after a while, he will still say that this is uncomfortable and that is uncomfortable, and there is really no way.

The more an old man likes to pretend to be sick, the more likely he is to raise a foolish and filial son. Marrying such a son is doomed to a lifetime of injustice. My mother is a tragedy. She was not popular when she was young. When she got old, her mother-in-law refused to leave, so she was willing to let her take care of her. My dad is the kind of scumbag who wants to be satisfied indiscriminately, and my mom is a slave who mourns his misfortune and is angry without fighting. I've had enough of their so-called filial piety, their bottomless and unprincipled indulgence of the old man's unreasonable troubles, so I never did this. When I was in school, I was asked to cook for the old lady at noon. I cooked it for her and never talked much. , I won’t eat this like my parents did, right? How about some of that? Do you want more? I put all the food in front of him, whether he wanted to eat it or not. When he finished eating, I would go to the side. For this reason, she always complained in front of my dad that she didn't have enough to eat. My dad asked me why I didn’t feed her enough? I said the food was on the table, who would blame her if she didn't eat it? The old lady actually said that I didn’t see any food on the table, and I thought that was all there was to eat. I don't like to say that my acting skills are exaggerated when I'm pretending to be blind. I can see the subtitles clearly when watching TV on the sofa three meters away, and I can also see the hands of the clock on the wall clearly, but I can't see the food in front of me clearly, haha. From then on, my father didn't trust me to cook for the old lady anymore, so I was free, but my mother was pitiful. She served the old lady like a maid every day, and she didn't make much money even for her efforts. The most typical example is that once the old lady said that her eyes hurt and she couldn't see clearly and she needed to go to the hospital, so my mother took her there. When she got to the hospital, the doctor said that a minor operation would be fine, so my mother stupidly paid the money, and I was afraid that my brothers and sisters would be concerned about the money, so I paid for the surgery myself without saying hello. As a result, the old lady said that my mother had blinded her eyes, and now she couldn't see at all. Then the whole family, men, women, old and young, complained about my mother. In this way, it didn’t stop the old lady from watching TV. Every time she loved to watch the advertisements selling medicines, she would get the disease according to the medicines they sold. My dad would buy them according to the instructions. After buying them, he would put them aside and be happy! I don’t know how my parents have persisted in the past twenty or thirty years. Maybe it’s just their filial piety that has supported them.

In my personal experience, the reason why old people pretend to be sick is very simple: they just want to be honest, not work, and just enjoy happiness! Because he is sick, can you ask a sick person to work? At first I thought I was really sick, and I was considerate in every aspect of my life. The result was that I was looking for trouble for myself. I asked my husband: What disease does your father have? He keeps moaning and groaning all day long. If he is sick, he goes to the hospital. After he is cured, he doesn’t feel uncomfortable! My husband said: He is sick and has something wrong with him! Therefore, there are indeed old people who pretend to be ill, and not all old people care about their children! They only know the son he raised, and it is time for the son to repay them. As for whether the son has the ability to help him live a good life, and whether the son needs help, they will not care. Otherwise, how did "raising children to provide for old age" come about?

Old boy, old boy! When people grow old, they hope to receive attention, love and respect from their children, and hope that their children will always be with them! So make some child's play! Children should understand!