A mother-in-law in Fujian learned of the quarrel between husband and wife and took her son to apologize to her in-laws. Her mother is very happy with her support. what do you think?

Papi sauce, an online celebrity, once expressed her views on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: "A mother-in-law should treat her daughter-in-law, but a daughter-in-law can't treat her mother-in-law as a mother, because all your bad emotions will be shown to your mother, and what her mother does to you seems to be taken for granted. But my mother-in-law can't. She never dares to tell her mother what to do. The bad mood is only reserved for her noble mother.

To sum up, what she means is that a daughter-in-law should never treat her mother-in-law as a mother. In fact, I personally agree with her point of view and have advised many women not to treat their mother-in-law as their mother. I think the best relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is that both sides get along like friends. As the saying goes, a gentleman's friendship is as light as water, so is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Some people may say, who would want the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to appear in marriage? In fact, no one wants the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in their own homes. But when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law really have conflicts, who should handle them? How to deal with it? Many problems are placed on the husband and wife, and this time is very delicate.

However, there are only a handful of couples who can do this in real life, and most of them are shirking each other, which makes the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law ruin the marriage. Reader Xiao Lu is a poor woman who divorced because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. She thought the failure of her marriage was due to her mother-in-law, but after my analysis, she realized that the original root cause was her husband.

And Lu Xiao and her ex-husband A Bin are actually typical marriages where the door is not right. The contradiction between her and her mother-in-law is actually not beyond my expectation. Solve problems for everyone and do everything well. Hello, I'm Ding Ding, and I'll answer your feelings. Don't care too much, Tintin will always be with you. Lead: My mother-in-law took her son to apologize to her in-laws and divorced her if she didn't apologize. The son-in-law responded like this.

As the saying goes, we should not wash our dirty linen in public, and there are contradictions in family life. You have to digest it internally, and don't advertise it everywhere. Since ancient times, it has been difficult for honest officials to break housework, so don't tell others about your troubles. If you say that others will not only sympathize with you, but also regard your family chores as the laughing stock of others.

Couples will inevitably have contradictions in their lives. Contradictions are often indifferent things, and may be solved in two days. However, if more people tell this story, especially family members, it will not end well. Maybe the last two families will break up in discord and their feelings will break down.

When Song Jing married her husband, her mother-in-law didn't like this son-in-law very much. The reason is very simple, that is, I am afraid that Song Jing will marry in the past and suffer hardships, because the conditions of her husband's family are not very good, there are not many bride price, and there is no room or car. That's understandable. Every mother wants her daughter to marry a better family because she is afraid that her daughter will suffer.

At the beginning, Song Jing didn't realize this. Song Jing is very headstrong and her husband loves her very much. Song Jing was a little unhappy. She immediately threw her face on her husband and often went back to her family. After the first quarrel after marriage, Song Jing went back to her family. Her mother knew that Song Jing had been wronged and scolded her husband. What's more, she asked her son-in-law to take her mother to apologize to Song Jing, or she wouldn't go back to her husband's house.

On that occasion, Song Jing's mother scolded her husband and mother-in-law, and threatened not to let her daughter go back again. Song Jing seems to have caught the weakness of her husband's family. Every time she quarrels, she uses this trick to embarrass her husband and mother-in-law. Back at home, she sat on the kang, waiting for her husband and mother-in-law to come and apologize, and then took herself back.

Song Jing didn't realize her mistake at all, and thought her tricks were very effective, but she never expected that any method would not work if she used too much, and she was naturally impatient if she used too much husband. Song Jing and her husband quarreled again because of some trivial matters. This time, Song Jing went back to her mother's house as always, but this time, Song Jing did not welcome her husband and mother-in-law to apologize, and her husband was very car-scrapping. Tell Song Jing: "You can live. If you can't, we'll get divorced and you don't have to come back."

"Mother was very angry, so she scolded Song Jing:" I knew he couldn't let you live with him. You have to listen. If he doesn't come to you today, divorce him. "Song Jing and her husband were deadlocked for two months. In these two months, Song Jing's husband really didn't contact Song Jing again. At this time, Song Jingcai discovered that he was afraid of losing his family and her husband, who really divorced him. Later, Song Jing didn't listen to her mother's words, secretly went back to her husband's house, found her husband, admitted her mistake with him, and they made up.

After this incident, Song Jing also understood that there is no big problem between husband and wife. It needs two people to negotiate and solve it. Nothing can't be solved. Even if two people have a fierce quarrel, they can make up as long as no one else is involved. When both husband and wife are angry, it is inevitable that they will say something excessive. In fact, when they are finished, it will be over, and the other party's grievances are temporary. Maybe it will be all right after a while. If this matter is known by the bride's family, no mother will not love her daughter and will only blame her husband for the problem.

Husband is the same as daughter-in-law in the eyes of mother-in-law, and will not regard them as the closest relatives. Their standards will only be biased towards their relatives, so no matter what happens in marriage, as long as it does not violate the principle. Let's solve it by ourselves, and don't let more people participate in your marriage, so that the marriage will be stable and happy.