My mother-in-law in the countryside always lets me eat Chinese cabbage, but she won't take care of me for confinement. What should I do?

When I was eight months pregnant, my husband was transferred to other places to work, and my mother-in-law said that she would take care of me. I was grateful and thought I must treat her well in the future, but I was soon slapped in the face.

She came and brought Chinese cabbage from her hometown. Because I don't like meat, I only fry vegetarian dishes. Fried cabbage every day. I really couldn't stand it, so I went to the market to buy food myself. She whispered beside her. I didn't have to buy enough, so I ignored her. She asked me, "Isn't there enough food for you at home? I said to fry a few more, and the dishes were changed every day. She began to put on airs and said, "Let your mother come, the dishes I cooked are not delicious, buy them yourself and cook them yourself." "I don't know why my mother-in-law is so paranoid about money. Her family is not poor.

My college classmate and I were pregnant at about the same time. Her husband, like me, is busy at work and has no time to take care of her. She lives with her in-laws. Her mother-in-law cooks differently every day and doesn't go out dancing in the early hours of the morning. She cleans the house at home, prepares the baby's things together, accompanies her to the birth check-up, and prepares a fruit bowl with a small fork on it every day. Speaking of which, I really think other people's mother-in-law is so good. Why is mother-in-law so difficult to get along with? I said I'm eight months pregnant, and the baby won't be lost. Stop wasting money. I didn't tell her to take the subway to have a checkup and not to take calcium tablets, saying it was bad for the baby. Tell me every day.

How much did she save by having children in her hometown? I gave birth to a baby, and the due date is 1. The contractions were obvious that day. I said I was going to the hospital, but she said no. She said that she had decided that she couldn't give birth today, so I told her foreign husband that I wanted him to do ideological work for me. As a result, she said that her mother had a good heart and didn't read much.

A complete explosion is a dinner party. My husband and father-in-law are back, inviting my husband's cousin to dinner. There is only cabbage in the refrigerator. My cousin brought a chicken, and the mother-in-law of seven people is going to fry three dishes. I went to buy food, but she refused to go. She kept saying that there was enough food at home. I ignored her and began to put on airs and said, "My cooking is not good. You can cook it yourself in the future." I said, "Then you can go home." I can look after myself. "Then she sobbed and cried, so I became the wrong person. My husband also complained to me and said, "I have never seen my mother cry." "At that moment, I was really wronged, but I gritted my teeth and didn't cry. Later, when I was shopping, the more I thought about it, the more wronged I became, and I couldn't help crying. After dinner, I resolutely let her go back and buy food and cook by herself without her care. My mother-in-law didn't want to take care of me, and I just smiled.

I figured it out a lot, too. Since my mother-in-law doesn't want to take care of me, I'll pay for the month center myself, about 30 thousand a month. As a woman, you should be kind to yourself. The next day, my mother-in-law came, of course, to persuade me not to go to the moon center. I told them that the money had been paid and would not be refunded. My mother and my sister came to take care of me in a few days, so they left home with a smile, gave birth to a baby comfortably and happily, and went to the confinement center for confinement.