Do you know the five "philosophies of life" that people become more and more transparent in middle age?

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When people reach middle age, the key words of our life have changed from enthusiasm to calmness, from stubbornness to letting go, from entanglement to relief.

These picky labels have gradually become a sign of our maturity, and they have also become the truth of middle-aged life unconsciously.

And more people began to have an epiphany in the process of pursuing success. Perhaps, the following five "life philosophies" can inspire us, and I hope you can remember them.

When you are not capable, try not to publicize your dreams, otherwise it will be difficult for you to stick to your dreams.

You know, the laughter around you will never disappear or weaken.

They will laugh at you for not having a dream, and they will try their best to force you to give up voluntarily. At this time, what you have to do is not to doubt yourself or give up your ideas, but to strive to improve your strength and go higher step by step.

People who laugh at you are most afraid of your persistence, your courage, your rain or shine, and your climbing the pyramid. They want to drag you down, they want to turn you into a mediocre person like them.

If you stop at the sound of ridicule, don't study, don't create, and only care about sadness and anger, then you will be greeted with more ruthless, indifferent and harsh ridicule.

Because of your stagnation, you are doomed to fail.

As the old saying goes, do great things silently.

People who are determined to do great things will not raise the flag and shoot, nor will they tell others their plans or blueprints.

Will the thief get wind of it before stealing? number

Will the police remind the thief before they catch him? number

Why not? Because thieves will be caught if they leak the news; If the police startle them, they will miss it.

Therefore, people who do great things are doomed to fail if they make a splash from the beginning.

Before a star became famous overnight, she must have survived many lonely days. No one dresses exquisitely and wears heavy makeup as soon as they debut. She crowded in front of the street and made everything sound with a microphone.

On the way forward, there will be many lonely and difficult days, but there is no way but to bite the bullet and endure.

After these dark loneliness, there will be bright stars, just as the poem says: ten years of cold window, nobody cares, famous all over the world. "

Sometimes, you try your best to move towards your goal, but you fail in the end. Why?

Once upon a time, there was a young man who sold pork. He never has to weigh himself in business. When a customer came to buy meat, he asked for three pounds. When he cut it off, he asked for three and a half pounds. When he cut it off, he asked for three and a half pounds. If you are short of two pounds, you will not only receive money, but also pay ten pounds of meat, so your reputation will spread far and wide.

One day, an old man stopped in front of his butcher shop and said he wanted eight and a half pounds. If he drives across the board, he will get ten times the meat money.

The biggest shortcoming of young people is that they are not stable. When he cut the knife, he always thought about the ten times of meat money, so he was absent-minded, so he cut it askew, and even got four or five taels more.

What is face?

This story tells us that no matter how powerful a person is, he can't be half-hearted. If my mind is full of "ten times money", how can I pay attention to my "technology"

People should see their feet clearly, and then take one step at a time.

Why plant flowers? Because flowers need careful care, and you always fantasize about flowers and beauty, it is strange that flowers can bloom without careful management and fertilization.

When faced with multiple-choice questions in life, people usually become anxious. Which one is right?

Thinking day after day will make people lose morale, and you can't do anything like this.

Actually, it doesn't matter which one you choose. What matters is whether you can work hard after you choose. If not, even if I tell you the answer to the multiple-choice question, you won't succeed.

You said you tried? Do you swear? Dare you put up three fingers and kneel on the ground to swear poison?

If the effort is so simple, why are there so few successful people?

What is hard work? Forget about eating and sleeping, smell chickens dancing, eat and drink, hang the beam and stab the stocks, drive away the snow ... this can be called hard work.

Why do you think you worked hard? Because it was too safe before.

Once a person has been stable for a long time, with a little effort, he is considered desperate.

As long as you work hard enough, it is very important that you will move towards your goal, otherwise your efforts will be in vain.

Do the builders work hard enough? But no matter how hard they try, they are just construction workers. Even if he carries 1000 bags of cement a day, he won't be a pediatrician all his life, because their minds are all on cement sand.

I don't know if you have noticed that in school, the top students in the class rarely make trouble, and the most noisy students are usually other students.

Why? Because hard-working people have no time or worry at all, let alone complain about life, because they have been running and are in a hurry!

Other students, if they don't concentrate on reading completely, will think wildly.

If you think too much, you will naturally have more troubles.

Your mind and energy only care about sadness, how can you have time to study?

So, when one day you find that you have more and more troubles and nothing is pleasing to the eye, it must be because you are idle. Hurry and find something to do!

No matter what kind of goal you choose, you will see clearly, go forward bravely and persevere, and your troubles will naturally decrease.

Xiao Yuan's message: Life is a process of constantly searching for yourself. We strive to make progress, not only to let the world see us, but also to let ourselves see the world. When we move forward step by step, we will find that every progress in life is making our life broader.

Topic: What else do you think we should understand when people reach middle age?