What is the most important thing in life?

What is the most important thing in life? Some people say that wealth is the most important thing: "people die for wealth, birds die for food"; Some people say that honesty is the most important thing: "Who has never died since ancient times, keep the heart of Dan and follow the history of history"; Some people say that freedom is the most important thing: "Life is precious, but love is more expensive. If you are free, you can throw both. " Some people say that health is the most important thing: without health, the seat is not long; Without health, wealth cannot be preserved. In my opinion, safety is the most important thing. No matter how strong you are, no matter how valuable you are, an accident, a death and an injury will make you give up all your previous efforts and return to zero immediately.

In my decades of life journey, I have experienced several dangers, and I am grateful to my parents and grandparents for their kindness and protection, but none of them have harmed my life. I may have encountered bad weather on the plane from Malaysia to Singapore two years ago. First it bumps, then it plummets for nearly 10 second. The feeling of rapid decline makes people have to get busy at once. Many women and children couldn't help screaming. Fortunately, the plane gradually stopped the downward trend and slowly moved forward smoothly during the pull-up. At that time, I thought: things are impermanent, life is fragile, and everyone who is healthy and alive may disappear at any time.

I have an old man in the village who took part in the revolution during War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression's time. She is optimistic and cheerful, broad-minded, chubby, retired as the director of the county women's Federation, and in good health. But once she was hit by a car on the road not far from home, and her hip bone was broken, so she couldn't walk on the ground from now on. The wheelchair became her means of transportation, and ten years later she went to heaven.

There is also a close old man who has been living in the concept of "seeking no merit, but seeking no fault" and "being kind to others", never talking loudly, always smiling gently and tenderly; Never in a hurry, always in a hurry, methodical, meticulous and safe way; Always honest and kind, warm and amiable. Such a cautious retired old man was knocked down by a young man riding a motorcycle on his way to his friend's daughter's house at noon one day. Passers-by called the police and never woke up after arriving at the hospital. Because he lived alone, his son didn't know the situation until the next afternoon, when his father was already in the morgue of the funeral home.

These are two of the many casualties caused by carelessness that I have heard and witnessed.

Especially recently, on the afternoon of March 20th, a man who took an overdose of analgesics was driving at a high speed in Renmin Road, Handan City, Hebei Province, killing four people and seriously injuring 10. On the afternoon of March 2 1, China Eastern Airlines flight MU5735 took off from Kunming Changshui Airport and arrived at Guangzhou Baiyun Airport more than half an hour later, but somehow it crashed into a valley near Shentangbiao, Mo Long Village, tengxian, Guangxi, killing all the people on board.

The whole country and even the whole world were shocked, and the feeling of pain flooded their hearts, deeply feeling that safety is the most important thing in life.

When people get old, how can they enjoy their old age healthily and come to the end of their lives in peace?

First, the pace is slow. Old people's physical functions decline, they see things late, react slowly and forget things. If you want to ensure maximum safety, don't worry when something happens, take your time. Act according to the principle that "doing nothing is better than doing something wrong". Everything, even some chores, should be done after repeated and calm thinking. When you go out, don't be impatient, don't grab the road, "see two delays and three passes." Pay attention to climbing, carry less weight and do more exercise that suits you.

Second, there is less desire. A person's life is a process of desire expansion. Want to be rich when you are poor, and want to be richer when you get rich; When you don't want it, you want something better when you get it; I want to be an official if I have no power. When you become an official, you will try your best to be a bigger official. There is no end. In this world, what you gain will be lost. If you want safety and quality, you must sacrifice speed, efficiency and benefit. If you want more, you have to pay more; High returns will inevitably bring high risks. When people look back on the past in their later years, there will always be many regrets and regrets. I really want to make up for it in my lifetime and reduce my self-blame and dissatisfaction. In fact, "the melon is not round, no one is perfect", and imperfection is the normal state of life. In order to be safe, you should reduce or reduce your various desires, lead an honest and clean life, have a good time every day and take every step.

Third, inner indifference. The scenery on the journey of life consists of two kinds of scenes: necessity and accident. Although some people pay great attention to health preservation, they still don't have a healthy body and long life. Although some people are timid and cautious, they will still encounter natural and man-made disasters and accidents. In this air crash of China Eastern Airlines, a gentleman went to Guangzhou from Kunming for a meeting. According to his wife, he is particularly afraid of pain, danger and death, and he is careful in everything he does. As a result, he met this air crash. Life is fragile, and a healthy body and death sometimes change in an instant. I really don't know which comes first, the accident or tomorrow. Let's keep our heads cool!