My sister

There are four brothers and sisters, elder sister, second sister and fourth brother. We are all left-behind children. My sister and I are five years apart. Then my sister went out to work after graduating from junior high school, and we spent less time together.

When I was a child, I worshipped my sister because she always gave us snacks. Although most of them are junk food, I was very happy that there were snacks such as candy and spicy strips in the 1990s. So when I was a child, I was also a small follower of my eldest sister.

Elder sister also did a lot of farm work when she was a child. On her small shoulders, she always bears a burden almost as heavy as herself. That's really helpless. Grandparents have so many children, the older ones always have to do more. I don't know if it is the reason why I did a lot of farm work when I was a child. My elder sister has always been thin, and so has the birth of three children.

When I graduated from high school, my elder sister got married in our town. It's good to be together during the Spring Festival. My first niece was born in my freshman year. Her grandmother couldn't bring it, so she had to bring it herself. It was really difficult for my niece to take care of her when she was a child. She refused to eat a bottle, so she could only feed her when she was drinking milk. I cried at night, and I felt broken. Besides, every night is such a big sister. During that time, the elder sister became thinner.

Later, a little nephew and a little niece were born one after another. Now my niece and nephew are both at school, and they are at home with grandma. My little niece is still with me when she is three years old. In this way, the elder sister raised three children by herself, and one spent three years and nine years raising children. During this period, the eldest sister was taking care of the children, and the eldest sister did disappear. Although husband and wife are together, my sister pays more for taking care of the children.

Recently, seeing my niece grow up, my elder brother-in-law told my sister that he wanted to have another boy. I was speechless after listening to it. More is the love of my sister, nine years, how many sleepless nights, all by myself. I have to take my children to do manual work during the day. I don't have my own social activities these days, and I always revolve around children. Therefore, I don't recommend this elder sister to have another one. Of course, this is their husband and wife's business, and the final choice is their own.

In my sister's marriage, I seem to see the shadow of my parents. DaJieFu like dad, like playing mahjong, and didn't win much money, and then elder sister like mom, like nagging. Sometimes my mother calls me to persuade them. I think it is difficult for outsiders to convince them unless the parties change their minds, just like my mother did.

Although I don't have much contact with my sister at ordinary times, I like to get together with my sister. It's a happy day for everyone to talk about home, talk about everything and enlighten each other. I am also glad that my sister is not married far away, so I can go home and chat when I have time.

Finally, I wish my sister a safe life, bring up the children and spend more time on her own.