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Who knows the bitterness of leftover women? ——Talk about the stories of some leftover women around you

For a long time, I have learned about the labeled group "leftover women" through the media, but I have not had close contact with them. Therefore, I have a non-committal attitude towards the many stories about leftover women in the media. Recently, I have had close contact with several leftover women, and I have gradually sympathized with and even admired their plight. Not only has my outlook changed greatly, but I also want to say a few words of justice for them. Let’s talk about my remaining girlfriends first! Last month I helped a remaining girlfriend move. When I went to her house, I saw several buckets of water under the water dispenser. I asked: She ordered several buckets of water at a time. Except for the help of the deliveryman who delivered the first bucket, she had to move the rest by herself. Looking at her slim figure of just over 1.5 meters and the water dispenser that is almost as tall as her, I was really a little stunned. Let’s talk about another leftover girlfriend. This friend has a car and just bought a house. One day I went to her house as a guest and two things happened. First, she told me that the old man downstairs seemed quite polite when she was buying a house and renovating it. After seeing her alone, he probably thought that my friend was alone and relatively wealthy. I just wanted to give her a blow, saying that the cracks in my house were caused by a friend's renovations. The old man was furious and pointed at his friend and scolded him. He was just bullying his friend who was a weak woman alone. When my friend told the story, his tone was calm, but he shed tears as he spoke. After dinner, I was chatting with friends when the power suddenly went out. I felt very strange when I saw the lights flashing in the house opposite. A friend called the property management company and was directed to check the main power switch outside the door. Sure enough, a call came. But I have a strong defensive mentality, and I saw that the power switch outside had obviously been pried open. I can't help but feel a little horrified. Although Shanghai's public security is good, it is not extremely good. So I kindly reminded my friend, but she quickly said stop talking - she was afraid. It is indeed exhausting and helpless for a weak woman to face such an environment. My friend’s face, which has just turned 30, has always felt young, but recently it has become obvious that there are more wrinkles. For a long time, leftover women have been deliberately consumed by the media. The media used the theme of leftover women to gain clicks and sales. In addition to being entertained, leftover women also They can use their sadness or pain to increase our happiness, and they can even transfer the dissatisfaction of life to the leftover women. "Look, there are people worse off than me" but they rarely receive care from society and surroundings. Leftover women have to work just as hard as men in the workplace and bear the same or even greater pressure than men, but men don’t have the harassment of aunts (PS it’s troublesome to have aunts come uninvited every month, but it’s even more troublesome if aunts don’t come) . You may also face a glass ceiling in the workplace. A male friend of mine who works in finance once told me clearly that although there are many girls as accountants, most companies still prefer to use men as financial directors, so there is often a male financial director leading several female accountants. Needless to say, there is pressure at work. When you go home, you have to face constant pressure from your parents, especially during the Chinese New Year. It is even worse for leftover women. Not only do they have to face the panic caused by being one year older, but they also have to accept relatives, friends and neighbors when they go home. The tape recorder-style annual torture. The most loyal questioners are often not your closest relatives, but distant relatives A and B and neighbors B and D. They ask questions reflexively every time they see you, and they are not out of genuine concern, just to add more topics for after-dinner conversation. Such heavy pressure makes one's head spin just thinking about it. It really makes me afraid to go back home. Some of my classmates have made it clear that they want to go home, but they feel scared when they mention going home. Although I feel the warmth of family when I go home, I will always remember the strict curses of my family and elders. After a lot of pressure from the outside world, the biggest harm to leftover women is that they are deeply afraid of the future, but they don't know how to get rid of it. The few leftover women I have interacted with all share this fear and powerlessness. For the popular "female diaosi" nowadays, love is elusive. Some people may say that leftover men are also very miserable, but there is still an upward path for men. It is generally believed that as long as men have a successful career, their relationship problems can be solved. So leftover men often just say "I'll work hard" after being frustrated in a relationship! But for leftover women, taking the few leftover women I have come into contact with, it is more difficult for those who have no money, but it is also difficult for those who have a successful career and have a car and a house. Girls who are 1.5 meters tall are easy to be left behind, and girls who are 1.7 meters tall are also easy to be left behind. I am writing this just because I saw a few leftover girls with good character and wanted to give them a fair word. I hope this society can care more about them. Even if they don't care, at least they can't add insult to injury!