Who can only live to be 50?

"See half a hundred, sweeping rocks in the morning and evening. Who can live in Whitehead? Castle peak is gone forever. It takes 49 years to grab an obstacle. I am going to pull it out and cover my clothes. " -"Send a monk up the mountain (fifty years old)"

At the age of 50, the fifth cycle of life, whether physical or mental, began to enter the fatigue period after forty-nine years of scorching heat.

At the age of twenty, there is no blood, at the age of thirty, there is no passion, and at the age of forty, there is no skill. The river of life here seems to have entered a node, a node about speed and direction.

In the first half, the wind is surging, going against the trend; The second half of life tends to be gentle and flows downstream. But in any case, there is no right or wrong, because at different ages and in different States, we have to make different adjustments and face different lives.

A 50-year-old man is happy when he is alive. Why care too much and push himself too hard?

If you want to learn anything at the age of 50, it is undoubtedly two words: put it down. Let go of the grievances of the first 49 years, let go of people and things that are no longer important, and let go of those delusions of fame and fortune that are hard to get.

"Looking back at the bleak land, rain or shine." This was written on a stormy spring day in the third year after Su Shi was demoted in Wutai Poetry Case.

At that time, he did not live up to the youthful spirit of that year, nor did he have the complacency when he was a senior official. He is just a middle-aged man who sees through life and has experienced many splendors. For the fame and fortune he once pursued, the opponent who wouldn't let him go to court for half a step, he had a brand-new attitude towards his hometown and country that he had been thinking about for half his life.

He is no longer young, not only because he is worried about everything, but also because his body has started a strong protest for nearly half a century.

No matter how excellent and powerful a person is, he can keep his mind young at most, but he can never escape the physical decline. At the age of 50, at this time node, all organs began to take time off from time to time to strike. If they want to carry out compulsory management, they can only get a boycott.

Sometimes, I don't want to give up, but I have to.

Similarly, the aging body will also increase the wrinkles of the soul, and it is difficult for anyone who looks in the mirror every day to give birth to young fighting spirit.

How many people can escape the curse of nature and build a new country?

So how can this unequal struggle between desire and body and mind be quelled? Let go, only let go, only let go.

Since energy has been consumed by half, life might as well be halved. For some fair-weather friends, fake relatives, and connections maintained by money interests, it is time to cut off contacts. The remaining close and easy-going relatives and friends can increase or decrease the vitality and feelings of youth.

People who have been begging for more than ten years should also give up slowly. Since you can't sing a song for half your life, it's better to practice calligraphy, play Tai Chi, get rid of unrealistic singer dreams and find a comfortable area that suits you.

Some things, I worked hard and won when I was young, which is enough. Otherwise, I am the only one who suffers.

Of course, by letting go, we mean letting go of meaningless things that consume life and energy, not responsibility and responsibility. Only by integrating things and storing energy can we pursue our ideals better and more intently and realize the meaning of life.

We can see that many people with outstanding achievements are usually optimistic and live a long life. Their success lies in unremitting struggle and hard work, and more importantly, they are determined to give up and give up. Always know what you want and what to throw away.

If life is compared to a book, then the first 49 years old is to "read thick" this book, constantly explore and ponder, and enrich knowledge and reserves; At the age of 50, I was streamlined, "reading thin" thick books and throwing away impurities.

This is a process of self-precipitation and self-evolution, and the result depends on how you choose.

Therefore, middle-aged friends who are still spinning around in wine, wine and meat, go for a physical examination, write a diary, see how they are, and ask if their spirits are okay.

Let go of meaningless and harmful things. After all, the body is the capital of the revolution, and only with capital can we earn more and more rich profits.

"No one is perfect, and the full moon is a loss." At the age of 50, you should also learn one thing: calm down. Accept your imperfections and face the lack of life and destiny.

Beethoven, the most familiar textbook figure, is regarded as a classic thesis by countless junior high school students. What is most worth learning is his calmness.

As we all know, this musical genius has a fatal weakness-deafness. From 1796, Beethoven's hearing began to weaken gradually at the age of 26, and he became deaf directly after middle age.

If you are an ordinary person, even if you don't feel sorry for yourself and lose confidence in life, you will change industries and fields to avoid your own shortcomings.

Faced with such a heavy blow, Beethoven not only did not give up his music career in depression, but actively sought ways to overcome the inconvenience of deafness. In his constant creation, he gradually accepted the terrible facts and faced the injustice of fate calmly.

Finally, he became a world-famous musician. Even after hundreds of years, his works and stories still fascinate us.

We are not Beethoven, nor do we have his persistence, but after 50 years of hard work, we are always more mature and open-minded than the 26-year-old.

Everyone has advantages and disadvantages and imperfections. Some can be corrected by hard work the day after tomorrow, and some can't be overcome for life.

Instead of worrying about these unchangeable things every day, we should learn to negotiate and compromise with the wisdom and experience accumulated over the years.

Sometimes, "peaceful coexistence and friendly coexistence" should also be reflected in those irreparable regrets and deficiencies. As long as you find a balance, life can still be colorful.

In addition, it is also a compulsory course for 50-year-olds to look down on success and face their own failures calmly. As we all know, everything in the world has its own probability, success is not inevitable, and failure is by no means the norm. Only by calmly facing and summing up can this experience become the next boost.

And don't forget, the 50-year-old heart has limited tolerance for excitement, whether it is great joy or great sadness. If you can't study calmly and indifferently, you can only be sad.

"There is nothing for the rest of my life, but I am very confused." Facing the busy life, the best way is to be confused, and the most difficult thing is to be confused.

Similarly, when I was 20 years old, I was only happy and excited. At the age of 30, I began to think about the meaning behind it. At the age of 40, I am full of ridicule and indifference. When I was 50 years old, how to get the maximum benefit from it became the goal.

The same person, the same thing, and the feelings and actions taken at different age nodes are completely different. The only thing we can be sure of is that with every increase of age, the mind becomes more complicated and the fatigue behind it expands by one point.

Although this can give us insight into the "shrewdness" of scores, it will enable us to be comfortable in crowd social interaction and gain more benefits and achievements. However, such a tiring ideological burden will hurt yourself over time.

Just like Zhuge Liang, who is "smarter than the devil", success lies in cleverness, and failure lies in cleverness. Clearly see through the world, but can not escape from it, would rather die sober than pretend to be confused and lonely, such a person, respectable and sad.

But as an ordinary person, an ordinary person over 500 years old, we have no great cause of Zhuge Liang to complete, and we have no promises to honor. We just need to be kind to ourselves and our loved ones in our lifetime, which is enough.

If you spend too much effort, you can only see more ugliness of human nature and darkness in the sun. Instead of this, you might as well be a comfortable "confused god", as long as you distinguish right from wrong and ignore those who pass by.

Some people may think it is irresponsible and evasive, but there is not so much time and energy in life to face and solve every problem.

It is human nature to escape. It is not easy for us to take 80% courage to go retrograde. No matter how much, you can only force it, and the result is counterproductive.

Therefore, it is time for people who have been smart for half their lives and have keen observation for half their lives to be confused and stupid. You can't tell the truth from the falsehood. At least you can enjoy the superiority of human beings and appreciate the lightness of butterflies, which is also a brand-new experience.

In fact, the essence of living is the process of pursuing freedom. Houses, tickets and cars give people a sense of material security, while family, friendship and love give people spiritual protection. With these, there will be the most basic guarantee, and there will be the motivation and source of struggle.

All I have to do for the rest of my life is to enrich and deepen their level and give myself a broader space to pursue freedom.

But most people forget their original intention in life, leave the origin of freedom behind, and pursue the fame and fortune of escort wholeheartedly. When you die, you suddenly repent, and there is no room for change.

Therefore, at the age of 50, we should also look at our origins and initial pursuits to judge whether this road has gone too far and whether there is still a chance to get back on track.

However, I think with an average life span of over 80 years, as long as you are not fascinated by "fame and fortune", you can still enjoy a comfortable life for decades with great probability.

Enjoy tea, grow flowers, or expand some unfinished dreams that I wanted to accomplish when I was young. Re-evaluate the spiritual level and material enjoyment and create the most comfortable and natural way.

Anyway, just be happy and comfortable.

Buddha said: "Life has seven pains, birth, old age, illness and death, love to leave, and complain about others. I have nothing to ask for." I'm 50 years old, and I'm afraid I've tasted each of these seven kinds of pain several times.

These pains are the time to awaken us and confuse us. Fortunately, its existence and continuation are inevitable, confusing the sadness and struggle of every arrival.

Since the world can't master its own hands after all, and occasionally goes with the flow and enjoys it, doesn't it enrich the meaning of life and expand the width of life?

Some people may say that this is a fallacy. The living are suffering, that is, they must keep Du Jie. Life will never end unless it stops.

Actually, it's really not like this. 50-year-old people have got rid of too much pressure to survive. Most people have cars and houses, and children have grown up. The greater threats they face are cancer, myocardial infarction and cerebral infarction. Money and material things can only be remedied afterwards, and as a defense in the early stage, a relaxed and happy mood is the most effective.

You know, in life, being alive comes first, being healthy comes second, and being healthy and happy comes third. As long as we see through this, the pain of the past will gradually scab into a shield to meet the unknown, and their body and mind will automatically capture the most comfortable state.

The flowers on the cliff are aloof, but it is difficult to find fragrance; The strong grass in the autumn wind is flexible and firm, but it has little vitality. Everything, forced, is always a little more lonely.

So, 50-year-old people, please remember that health and happiness are more important than anything else. Try to let go of those false pressures, and really don't push yourself too hard.