How to judge a fake breakup from a real breakup?

There are many emotional pains, and the most painful is loss. Many friends often lose a love unconsciously, and when they wake up, they have missed the opportunity and regret it. A core technical point that is very important to save feelings is: how to distinguish a fake breakup from a real breakup. So, after breaking up, how to distinguish a fake breakup from a real breakup?

1, communication (telephone, WeChat, QQ)

If it is a fake breakup, the other party will generally not blacklist your phone number, WeChat and QQ (even if you delete it in a rage, you can add it back soon). You don't care how bad the other person's attitude is. As long as she still ignores you, answers your phone and sends you text messages, at least she is still communicating with you, and there is great hope to save her life. If you really break up, you won't answer the phone and text messages, both WeChat and QQ will blacken you and treat you like a stranger. Therefore, whether the communication is normal or not is an important indicator to judge the fake breakup and the real breakup.

2, emotional indicators (angry, blame, curse)

Sometimes the phone is not answered, and both WeChat and QQ are deleted, which is not necessarily the truth. In fact, in many fake breakups, women are angry, deleting each other's QQ or WeChat, but keeping the phone. When you call her, she shows anger, or blames you, which shows that this is just a fake breakup, but it also shows that your contradiction is more serious. Actually, it's not terrible for a woman to quarrel with you. Noisy means that a woman has mood swings and may still want to get your attention. The real breakup is to ignore you at all, and your whole being with her is like air. All she did was keep silent and ignore you. Because girls are really desperate for you, they will be silent. No matter what you do, when she hates or avoids it, then you have to think about the recovery strategy in a different way. Therefore, the emotional fluctuation of the other party is also one of the very important indicators in recovery.

3. Social circle (relatives, friends and colleagues)

If the target broke up with you, but she didn't tell her relatives, friends, colleagues and classmates, it means that she is still giving you a chance to make up for the time being. But if everyone in the social circle knows, it may be a real breakup. In reality, what many brothers do is, as soon as they hear the news of breaking up, they keep looking for the target's girlfriends and friends to help them intercede, making the target more boring. As a result, the great opportunity was ruined in vain. A woman doesn't tell others that you broke up, but she is actually struggling because she still has your good feelings in her heart. In addition, she is also leaving a way out for herself, because she is observing what you are going to do. If we get back together in the future, she doesn't want to be seen as a joke by her friends.

Of course, if a woman tells her friends that you broke up, it already shows that this woman is thoughtful and wants to break up with you. Then, at this time, you can't just pester her and beg her, but make compensation for your contradictions.

4, network status (for example, log, circle of friends)

When a fake breakup occurs, a woman will probably go to her Weibo WeChat circle of friends to post some status, say some words, all kinds of chicken soup for the soul and pretend to be artistic. For example, the heart will die of love, and love has nothing to do with others, even if a person goes on strongly. . . There is also a foolish behavior. Some women will send out the process of dating other men to stimulate you, hoping you will be jealous. This may also be a fake breakup. If it is a real breakup, she may not post anything on Weibo and WeChat, and there is silence, just like the silence of the Dead Sea. Therefore, observing each other's social network dynamics is also a reference indicator.

5. Invitation (dinner, party, play)

Even if she blackmailed you, you contacted her through other channels to invite her, but she still promised to meet you. This situation may still be a fake breakup. But if she starts to say something like this to her friends, "If we meet, you must not bring someone, or I won't go." "Starting today, but don't tell me what others tell you, or we won't even have friends." Explain that women don't want you to appear in front of her, so in this case, it is likely to be a real breakup. So whether you can invite is also a reference sign.

6, play completely disappear (meet, intersect)

When a woman breaks up with you, she chooses to disappear completely, which means that she has completely given up on you. If she already treats you as a stranger in her heart, it can only mean two things. First, she really doesn't have any needs for you. Second, she hates you so much. You really disgust her. She thinks she wants to escape completely. If it is the first case, it is really broken up. If it is the second case, it is a real breakup in a broad sense, and the chances of recovery are slim. Although everything in the world is not absolute, it still needs a little luck to save it.