How to grasp the heart of an old man

How to grasp the heart of an old man? In love, only by grasping a man's heart can a man love himself wholeheartedly. Old people are different from ordinary people. Next, I will tell you how to grasp the heart of an old man.

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1, really understand him

When you get along with the old man, you should try to cultivate a common language with him and actively exchange topics of common interest with him. When you can deeply understand a man's inner world, you can establish a strong tacit understanding with him and know exactly why he is upset. So as to prescribe the right medicine.

2. Praise his merits.

When a man is angry, a woman can first impress him by praising and affirming his merits, such as "I know you are good to me, you are a very good man, and I especially like you …" No matter which man hears such words, he will be soft-hearted. In marriage, remember to praise each other, because everyone likes to listen to good words.

3. Take practical actions.

Words are important, but actions are more important. There is a saying that "if you want to catch a man's heart, you must first catch a man's stomach." When your husband or boyfriend is angry and needs you to coax him, you might as well cook a delicious meal, prepare a few glasses of wine and talk to him at the dinner table.

In addition, you can also give the other person something he likes, a small gift, a few gentle words, a hug and a kiss. No matter what anger he has, it will disappear.

4. Open your heart to him.

A man may be angry with you because of a misunderstanding, because you made a mistake and because you violated his bottom line. Honesty and trust are necessary between husband and wife. If he is angry with you, you can talk to him calmly, slowly open your heart to him, and solve the contradiction between you two.

5. Say: You are better than anything.

If women can say "you are better than anything" to men in life, then men will be more encouraged and willing to do everything for you. Because your words made him understand that you care about his people more than money.

A happy marriage needs to be managed by both parties. If a woman keeps herself in a reserved state and only wants a man to coax her at any time, then over time, a man's heart will become tired, bored and indifferent. In fact, men also need women to coax them. Sometimes a casual compliment will make him happy all day.

How to grasp the heart of an old man 2 How to grasp the heart of a man?

In fact, human nature has one thing in common, that is, the easier it is to get, the less it will cherish, or the more it feels that it will not lose, the less it will cherish, and so will men. If you show great love to her there and never give up, then he will definitely not cherish it, so don't take the initiative to be with a man. If you care too much about him, he won't care too much about you. Let him have a sense of crisis of losing you, and let him feel the right feeling. When he feels this way, he will spoil you and put your position first.

As the saying goes, women are made of water, so women must play a special role in gender relations, that is, coquetry and weakness. A man will always have a macho heart, and no man will like to be with a strong woman who suppresses him every day. Therefore, at an appropriate time, we must know how to be spoiled and show weakness, so that men have a full desire to protect, which will pity and protect you. Occasionally coquetry will make men love you, and women don't have to be competitive all the time, which will scare away men.

If you want to keep a good relationship with a man for a long time, it is essential to have a topic to talk about. If a man has nothing to say to you after work, he is easily attracted to women outside, so you must find a long-term topic to talk about. If a woman can talk to a man, it's easy to catch his heart. It will make a man feel that you two are like bosom friends, because what you talk about is what he cares about, or what he is interested in.

When two people get along with each other day and night, they will soon show everything to each other. In fact, women still have to keep a sense of mystery, and feelings need freshness. Just like fruits, only the freshest ones are delicious. For men, freshness is to maintain the feeling of love. Let him find your bright spot from time to time, it will surprise him and make him more interested in you, so don't show all your advantages and points at once, it will be better to find them slowly.

In the relationship between men and women, women must dominate, and men are rational, so women must explore small emotions and surprises in life, such as small and gentle physical contact, which will make boys like it very much. Occasionally affectation, affectation is emotional appeal, but it is always affectation. Women with high emotional intelligence will use these skills flexibly to catch a man's heart and let him leave you on his own initiative instead of crying and loving him. Humble can't change a man's heart

How to grasp a man's heart 1, first grasp his husband's stomach.

Every day after work, the wife cooks a delicious dinner for her husband, then turns on all the lights in the house and waits for her husband to come home late. Men often feel the warmth of home in this situation. When a husband brings his work home, a wife should not try to turn his attention to herself. She can add water to his quick drink, or make a snack, and he will feel particularly warm. Women want to love their husbands, but do you know what he cares about most?

2. Grab her husband's heart again.

It is not enough to catch a man's heart and just his stomach. The most effective way to completely capture a man's heart is to make him love you.

You must be healthy and beautiful.

Health is capital, so we must cherish it. Once a woman is married, she gradually becomes a "yellow-faced woman" in the eyes of men. Numerous examples have proved that old women with bad looks are the easiest to be abandoned. In the words of a derailed man: "The money you earn is for you to spend, but you don't know how to maintain yourself. When you are only in your thirties, you look like a' yellow-faced woman'. It makes me sick every day. Can you not derail? " When I first heard this, my lungs were about to explode, but when I calm down and think about it, people's shameless words are ugly, but they really make sense. How can people who don't love themselves love you?

4, often * * * enjoy "space time"

Men go outside to seek comfort because of boredom or indulgence, which actually reveals that the connotation of marriage is not enough. Smart women can seek the help of time and space. The meaning of "space time" refers to the rules reached to strengthen the emotional connection between husband and wife. For example, couples spend at least one afternoon alone, leaving aside the interference of work, family and children and fully enjoying the warmth of their own world. Adhering to the "space time" between husband and wife can actively enhance the intimacy of marriage. When the inner feeling is good, the natural man's heart will go home.

Always praise his kindness.

When you watch TV series or movies, see the tragic marriage life in the story, and think carefully about your husband's kindness to you, you will find that this man has nothing to say to you despite his shortcomings. When you have such an idea, you must tell your husband. If he is not in, give him a call. If he is around, just say what you think, and then lie down on him and cry for a while and say, shall we not be like on TV? But in a word, you can let a man know that he still has such an important position in your heart. It turns out that everything he did was not in vain, so you keep it in mind. With such a good wife who is reasonable and knows how to be warm and cold, which man is willing to give up on you?

6, involving the daily life of husband and wife, we must pay attention.

Never talk about divorce when quarreling, shed more tears, have strong language pertinence and discuss reality. If you are wrong, after the quarrel, if you see that he is still unhappy, pretend to be cute and stick to him. In addition, it is particularly important to point out that once a man is involved in a quarrel, he must pay attention. If he points out in the quarrel that it is because of your physical or psychological reasons. Then please note that this must be the most intimate and urgent problem that he wants you to solve and improve. You mustn't think that this is just an excuse he made casually.

7. Go back to the "good times" with him

If your love has experienced a romantic rainy season and flower season, it is already "three to five itching", then marriage may need to be suspended and rested. If one of them starts to seek happiness and move on, then the pressure for improvement may be on the woman's side. There are many ways to improve, and the most important thing is to find the good times when you are in love. The usual period for men to cheat is about 6 months. If you cherish your past love and your marriage, you should leave enough time for him to "know when he is tired." Call back his hurried heart with your love and gentleness and return to your love nest.

Please give him perfect love.

Don't simply attribute the reason for her husband's derailment to empathy or derailment. Please think carefully about some women whose feelings are on the verge of breaking up. Is it because of yourself? Although a happy marriage depends on both parties, it depends more on the woman. What men like is the gentleness and thoughtfulness of women. What women can impress men most is considerate care. Of course, this thoughtfulness is not only the thoughtfulness in life, but also the thoughtfulness in the boudoir, knowing the cold and the heat, knowing the light and the heavy, and knowing the man's heart better. With her, such a woman is the most exciting.

9. Be sure to communicate more in daily life.

We can't go back to the era without information interference, but we can change its influence from negative to positive. In terms of personality, men are more likely to be autistic than women. Chatting with friends on the Internet and mobile phones can make them pour out their hearts and help them escape from reality. The mechanical communication with keyboard and mouse gradually made them have a strong dependence, but they lost their original interest in our normal family life. So you should communicate with him more. If he knew that he could tell you all his troubles and get the greatest comfort from you, it would be impossible for him to be infatuated with those virtual online dating objects.

10, let the husband have face.

I must be good at getting along with my husband's friends and colleagues, and also know how to maintain myself beautifully. In fact, men, like women, love to compare themselves. They compare themselves with only a few things: life, career and women. If you are still charming and beautiful over 30, your husband will be happy to take you to his friend's party, because you will make your husband's face shine and his vanity will be greatly satisfied by his friend's praise. And your friend's praise will also subtly affect his impression of you, constantly reminding him that you are the best woman in the world, which is extremely effective!