Don’t be too persistent and burden yourself with a heavy burden

1. What I am most afraid of in life is that I care about everything but cannot grasp anything. The lost scenery, the separated people, the longing that cannot wait, all live at the end of fate. Why be too persistent? What should come will come naturally, and what will go will not be retained. Letting go of your obsessions and letting things happen is the best life. The world didn't choose you, you chose the world. Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate; since one does not get what one wishes, it is better to be relieved.

2. Ordinary life, spent in silence. What should happen will happen sooner or later, and there is no point in forcing it too much. What should be lost will be lost sooner or later, just like a hundred years of life, one will eventually die. It is better to cherish the ordinary life in front of you and enjoy the joys and sorrows that life brings. Life is inherently a mixture of bitterness and happiness, with gains and losses. Instead of engaging in intrigues and intrigues all day long, it is better to enjoy it in peace and quiet. If people really calm down, they will always want to understand a lot of things.

3. The heart is just a bag. When it contains nothing, it is called the heart. When it contains a little, it is called the mind. When it contains too much, it is called the scheming. When it contains more, it is called the scheming. When it contains too much, it is called the worry. We are often obsessed with the utilitarian things that are close at hand, obsessed with the gorgeous life, and obsessed with the fruitless love, and it is easy to fall into a state of being overwhelmed. In fact, if you let go a little, you will get more; those who can let go are the ones who truly understand life and will live more free and easy!

4. Life needs to be reset to zero. Every time a period of time passes, you have to clear the past and allow yourself to start over. Don’t let the past become a burden to the present. Only by traveling lightly can you go further. The human soul is like a container. Over time, there will inevitably be sediment in it. You must always empty the sediment in your soul, let go when it is time to let go, and forget what should be forgotten. Delete the garbage in your mind and refresh yourself every day, so that you can regain your life.

5. If someone offends you, there is no need to retaliate. Because difference in IQ is the furthest distance in the world. If someone else does something extremely bad and you follow it, it will bring you down to the same level. When someone has trouble with you, stay away from the villain and keep a calm mind. Don't be angry, but don't remember. The most cruel way to deal with a person is not to teach him a lesson, but to delete him from your memory.

6. There are many things in life that can be let go. Only when you can let it go can you afford it. Try to simplify your life as much as possible, and you will find that those blocked scenery are the most suitable life. Don't be too persistent and put a heavy burden on yourself.

7. Some things are destined to have no fate with you. No matter how hard you force them, they will eventually leave you. Some people can only be passers-by in your life. No matter how much you miss them, all your expectations will eventually come true. null. If it doesn't belong to you, then give up. The world is vast and vast. What we can have is limited after all. Don't let endless desires bury the original joy and happiness. If you try to catch everything, you will end up catching nothing.

8. In life, there is as much pain as there is care; there is as much joy as there is tolerance. Pain and joy are reflections of the soul, just like what is in a mirror, determined by what is in front of the mirror. If you can't let it go, it will naturally become a burden. The more burdens you have, the less happy your life will be. A careless heart is like a bag, a tolerant heart is like a funnel. A complicated heart is careless, but a simple heart is easy to be happy.

9. Nothing in the world belongs to you forever, including the people you love most, the children you raise, your wealth, and your body, they will eventually return to dust. We only have the right to use everything in the world but not permanent ownership. Everything in the world is lent to us, so everything has its origin and its end, so we can’t force it. Life is like a passer-by, who comes happily and leaves happily. Most importantly, stay in the moment. Desire is a trap, it makes you carry the burden of fate

If you miss a bus, there will be the next one, just wait; if you miss a snow, there will be a next one, just look forward to it Gain; miss a love, there will be no next one, true love is rare; don’t miss it in this life, I love you uniquely!

Say it to yourself: You are always so afraid of separation, but you always pretend to be strong; you are always so afraid of the night, but you always hide in secret; you are always so afraid of being alone, but you are always alone; You are always so easy to give, knowing that it is pain, but still so persistent; you are always so easily hurt, knowing that it is deception, but still deceiving yourself and others; why are you always so stupid, saying to those who care about you, it's okay, I'm fine .

You know that in your previous life you were a peach leaf, or a touch of red, floating in the middle of the water. That person's flowing water gently caressed your brows, sighing in a low voice. Do you remember that in this life, you have bloomed all over the tree, and the flowers are pink, and the window is dyed with fragrance. That person is mud or soil, close to you, moistened day and night.

I just miss once, but forget that e of the face of courage, in fact, be able to recall a blessing. Happiness and pain are the wealth of life. Rather than passively escaping, it is better to be brave. Yes, actually being able to remember is also a kind of happiness.

When I was very young, I didn’t understand the cruelty of the world. When I was young, I didn’t believe in the true nature of love and didn’t understand it. Now that I have grown up, I slowly feel that I can understand Lost Time. Perhaps everyone has longing and concern for a person in their heart, but they know that they can't hold hands for a lifetime in this life, they can only remember it quietly in their hearts. Anyone with a story may be able to understand Lost Time, but there is a story that hides a lifelong longing for a person in his heart. Only he knows how painful that pain is.

I like to leave my mark on you, but I never remember that you have never belonged to me... If one day I no longer like you, will my life be the same as before? Depravity, decadence... I don't want that kind of life anymore, so before I give up on you, please at least like me.

Insightful sentences 1. Weibo is a glass of poisonous wine, it murders your precious time. 2. Weaving is a burden, it consumes your energy for free. 3. Desire is a trap, it makes you bear the burden of fate. 4. Time is a robber, it steals your life. 5. Love is a prison, it imprisons your freedom. 6. Freedom is a devil, it leads you to a dead end in life

The period from twenty-six to thirty is a difficult period in life: shouldering increasing responsibilities, taking responsibility Living with a salary that does not match the workload, struggling to balance career and relationship, reluctantly building connections, etc., but you have to persevere, God will only give us hurdles that we can get through. Don't let the past become a burden for your future

1. Life should be a relaxing journey, don't let the past become a burden for your future.

2. If making mistakes is the price that must be paid for growth, then correcting mistakes is the process of maturity.

3. When interacting with others, do not try to win sympathy by being humble and bending the knee, otherwise you will only get more vicious trampling from others.

4. Life is like a scale, always requiring some kind of balance: one side is giving, the other side is receiving; one side is giving, the other side is getting.

5. There is no need to crave understanding and recognition from others in life, because others do not have these obligations.

6. The biggest regret in the world is that we are so close, but we don’t understand each other’s silence; the biggest mistake is that we know there is no way ahead, but we are too stubborn to turn.

7. No matter how you make up your mind about something, no one knows what will happen until the result comes out.

8. When we are young, there are always many things that we cannot keep, such as the time that has gone far, such as withered emotions; there are always many things that are difficult to let go, such as the dreams we pursue, such as the love in our hearts.

9. Time determines who you will meet in life, your heart determines who you want to appear in your life, and your behavior determines who stays in the end. Don’t talk too much about yourself

Don’t talk too much about yourself

(1) People are angry for a reason. Don’t feel too good about yourself when others are angry. Please think about your own reasons, OK?

(2) I have to work overtime again on Saturday. I am in a good mood, but I just miss my dad a little ~ don’t be too harsh on yourself ~

(3) Suddenly I feel that if I like someone or something , don’t like it too much. On the one hand, it is the inability to suppress emotional chattering, and on the other hand, the rational heart is based on oneself. It's quite conflicting. There is a limit to everything, and things will turn to their extremes. It’s my own nature, but I also hate certain points in this nature.

It’s really distressing, like why am I going crazy now?

The fat I grew on myself (four) years ago cannot be lost overnight! Don't trust your own self-control too much!

(5) Don’t care too much about what others say, and don’t cater too much to other people’s ideas. Insist on maintaining your true self to form a stable character.

(6) Everything has its own meaning. Its good and bad qualities are referred to as two-sidedness. Many times we are too entangled in the matter itself. In fact, it is because there is a certain conflict between what we expect and the results, and the good side is not what we want, so things turn bad in terms of self-interest. Don't be too concerned about gains and losses in everything. Think about the good and do it, and there will always be unexpected gains.

(7) You said that the cat left, saying that it was all your fault, and that you were unable to give it a stable life, so you fell into loss and self-blame; in fact, many people in this world have We all fall in the same place, and we are all going through similar lives. Many of the things we blame ourselves for are actually the ups and downs that humans must go through in their self-development. So, why should we blame ourselves alone? I hope the baby won’t blame himself too much and the cat will live a good life!

(8) In order to protect yourself, sometimes you are forced to say some insincere words and do something against your will under special circumstances. Please do not be too harsh. A person's power is sometimes really small. If you can't change, then change yourself. If you can't fulfill yourself, then I will fulfill you.

(9) Worry less, meddle less, understand others more, don’t be too self-centered, don’t be too glassy. All right! I found that I have quite a lot of problems! It’s time to change!

(10) Futures, like life, self-control is the core to ensure long-term survival. After doing futures for a long time, you will realize that huge profits are just an Easter egg. It is a brilliance in a peaceful life. You have to thank God. Don’t complain too much about injustice if you don’t get favor, but instead look forward to huge profits every day. His life is destined to be an out-of-control life that has lost self-control. It is the same as an out-of-control transaction. It is destined to be dangerous

(11) Therefore, don’t be too involved in a relationship, otherwise you will lose yourself

(12) Practice, correct your physical and mental peace and let go. This practice method is very simple and clear. The main thing is Implement it in every moment of life. When your heart is pure and clear, your wisdom will be clear and your merits and benefits will be known.

(13) Don’t live your life in a hurry, let alone lose yourself. You still have such a long way to go in life, so don’t worry too much about the unsatisfactory things in front of you, let alone bury yourself in the trivial matters of life, and don’t bury your happiness in time bit by bit. Don't grow up with resentment, don't make yourself scarred and end up blaming others, it's not worth it. You should live a noble, elegant, wise and beautiful life, and treat yourself well.

(14) Human beings always overestimate their own giving and underestimate the contributions of others. In fact, the self is not as important as you think. Again, don’t believe too much in the subjective assumptions in your own mind. You can use prejudice as your own perspective on things to open the gates of your senses and thinking, go deep into the essence, and observe the essence and nature of things. What the connotation requires is wisdom, examination, reflection and criticism. A life without reflection is not worth living.

(15) I want to tell every girl in love not to be too self-centered, but also not to lose herself.

(16) Never be too selfish! You are your own worst enemy!

(17) Don’t be too self-involved. Just be busy and arrange enough manpower. Why don’t you look for trouble just because you are not feeling well?

< p> (18) Respect and being respected are relative. When you want to be respected, please learn to respect others first. Everyone should not be too self-centered and learn to adapt to the surrounding environment, because the world is very complex. There are many people on the road, so you must believe that you are not alone in the world, so don’t force others to tolerate you, and don’t believe that others will only love you and not hate you, so don’t overdo things, don’t talk too much, and don’t overdo people. confidence.

(19) Self-immersion, I feel like the two people who have been with me are gone, and life is very empty. As a human being, you really shouldn’t rely too much. It’s only when the person leaves that you realize it’s too painful.

(20) Don’t be too fond of yourself, maybe you are just a clown

(21) Don’t like a person, thing or thing too much, it will make people lose their mind. , no self, and this is not your original intention

(22) When waiting for the opportunity one day, you'd better not be too rash, but try to achieve it in a more durable and reliable way. Don't force your own ideas on yourself and the people around you.

(23) Paying too much attention to other people’s feelings will make you lose yourself and be taken away from the present by your false self. Even so, so what? Don’t carry so many burdens, let go! Don't be too restrictive!

(Twenty-four) I feel very emotional recently. Life is like a roller coaster, with highs and lows. Don’t feel too inferior when you are low, because I believe it will get better gradually. Don't be too self-centered when you're high, and you won't offend others. Be a comfortable person.

(Twenty-five) A senior once said that you should not be too self-centered when dealing with others, as this will make both you and the other person uncomfortable. I think it makes sense, and I don’t like self-centered people. I even think such people are a bit pretentious, but if I think about it carefully, I am not such a person. I often subjectively take some things as my own. Yes, I don’t like sharing with others, and I may even feel that my things are being taken away by others. Although I know it is common sense, I am unwilling to do so. Maybe I am too irritable

(Twenty-six) Today I really want to think about my future life. Everyone is selfish, including myself, so I can’t let myself become worthless. I want to live a more independent life, don’t be too dependent, and have my own goals. Don’t be too lazy, just stick to it!

(27) The relationship between people is mutual and equal. Don't be too self-centered

(28) People are just a very small cell in society. They should always be grateful, always think about self-discipline, and always think about the responsibilities of their position. Treat each other with sincerity, build good relationships, act with a public heart, and dare to take responsibility. Don't care about gains and losses, don't worry about success or failure. Don't care too much about you in the eyes of others, but care about you deep inside yourself. Surpassing yourself reflects your self-worth far more than surpassing others. A free and easy life is true.

(Twenty-nine) An extraordinary dream awakens everyone, don’t be too self-centered. Good morning, the rising sun

(Thirty) Accept your unique aspects, Don't care too much about other people's opinions, but you must have a mentality of seeking common ground while reserving differences to avoid giving people a feeling of being too self-centered.

(31) Early in the morning, I felt favored again and had the power to make all my wishes come true! Sometimes don’t put too much emphasis on your own comfort, just be patient, if it’s right, the universe will help you, so just love and think about it

(32) Don’t please others too much, it’s disgusting You may not be accepted by others, and you can easily lose yourself in this way.

(Thirty-three) I feel so tired. How can people with no fairness at all survive in this world that claims to be fair? There are so many points where we need to self-examine ourselves. Really Don't be hard-hearted, don't be soft-hearted, don't be too casual, don't be too cooperative with others, you really have to live a selfish life, this is the minimum protection for yourself!

(34) Don’t be so anxious, don’t be so uneasy, what is yours will eventually be yours, no matter how much effort you make, it will only be someone else’s. Don’t lose yourself too much. Just let nature take its course and relax your mind

(35) Please don’t feel too good about yourself at any time, and don’t belittle yourself at any time. You have your good points, please carry them forward; you have your bad points, it will be good if you change them.

(36) Did yesterday’s dream tell me not to hate so much that I forget myself? How many people are just passers-by, always facing the results you least want to see. Just don't believe too much in everything.

(37) The most obvious characteristic of narcissism is that it is always self-centered in thinking and behavior, and cannot see the existence of other people.

Therefore, achievement-oriented people should always remind themselves that they are now adults and must learn to do what they should do by themselves, and not to care too much about other people's praise. When self-centered behavior occurs, you should promptly remind and warn yourself in your mind, and resolutely prevent it from taking root.

(38) Try not to pay too much attention to your inner world and be more proactive. Wouldn’t it be better? Try it!

(39) Sooner or later you have to learn to be a person and not to rely too much on one person. What you need to know is not only a good solitude, but also how to face setbacks alone. When you reflect on yourself after a failure, you can clearly understand your own problems, and at the same time be able to give yourself the confidence to face it. Instead of being completely defeated, you need others to give you a little warmth. Good night to you tonight.

(40) I hope you won’t be too self-centered in everything and don’t believe too much in what you see on the surface.

(41) Don’t be too happy and forget yourself, everything is still the way I like it

(42) People who worry about gains and losses often lose more than they gain. Indecisive people often make wrong judgments. Therefore, don’t be too self-centered. If you are too self-centered, you can only focus on the small river in front of you and give up on the vast sea.

(Forty-three) You definitely don’t want to be called an old woman when you get old, so don’t be too self-centered. My best friend chatted with me a lot today, and most of the time it was me. I share some deeply touching points: No matter how good two people are together, they can’t lose themselves to each other; don’t force others too much. Some people may just not be able to keep up with you. In fact, what you need is to walk your own path towards him. Enough space and time are enough. Finally, I want to solemnly thank you. I can't survive at all. It's great to have you all the way. I will try my best not to become such a person! At the age of twenty-seven or eight, I am no longer young

(Forty-four) Today, my senior sister said that I have many shining points, so I should not deny myself too much. I shook my head because I really said into my heart. I am a person who feels that I can’t do anything well and is incapable of doing anything. I am over-indulged in self-denial, a typical Capricorn. So when others say that I actually have my own unique shining point, I am very, very happy. Don't be too strict with yourself, just take things as they come