"Don't let the circle of friends define our real life", has the circle of friends gone bad?

Personally, I think the circle of friends has not changed, but this social software has become a part of our lives, and in the process of development, it has appeared in a different state from the past.

The initial circle of friends may be to show love, show life, and send chicken soup. In fact, it has now developed into various shows, but the frequency of various commodities leaving the circle of friends is too high, and many people have begun to lose interest in various "shows".

In order to send a circle of friends with quality, some people even take pains to run their circle of friends with special positive energy, giving people the illusion that "our real life has been kidnapped by friends". In my opinion, the development of any social software, no matter how hot, will always be user-led. There is no circle of friends to define real life, and the living conditions of more people determine the style and direction of the circle of friends.

There is a hot article saying that "the female students who do WeChat business have hacked me …". The male owner has always disliked the students who do WeChat business in the circle of friends, but one day when he wanted to ask for help, he found that he was hacked. At this time, I realized that I am not even a potential customer with a monthly income of tens of thousands.

No matter how people outside WeChat define WeChat business, it is a slogan, and no one will deny it. Lei Jun said that pigs standing on the tuyere can fly, and those who see the tuyere and catch up with it must have his extraordinary talent.

Maybe many of us don't like the advertisements of WeChat merchants in the circle of friends like men, thinking that they only advertise to make money every day, which is the inspirational language of chicken soup, but you have to admit that their living conditions are positive, at least they won't pass negative energy on to others.

This is their real life and defines their circle of friends. As for whether it has gone bad, it may just be that things have developed and you are still nostalgic for the past.

Since I entered the knowledge payment industry, I have witnessed many small white-collar workers who used to work in the workplace. Every day's circle of friends is all beer and skittles. Pregnant at home, in addition to watching TV dramas, everyday is to brush friends circle. After being a full-time mother, in addition to drying the children, I just show them. No one can understand this psychological anxiety.

Everyone wants to be financially independent. Full-time mothers can only start from WeChat business, which is the easiest place to get started. Besides taking care of children, there are more friends who love learning and share all kinds of knowledge. They not only earned some milk powder money, but also gained some contacts and a positive life. From this perspective, their real life has changed, and their circle of friends has also changed accordingly.

I think the circle of friends has gone bad, maybe you just want to stay in the past, and your state also determines that you have fewer friends. Therefore, how to set up a circle of friends depends on our real life. It is just an output platform for our true self.