Let's talk about hairpin drying first

A schoolmate once asked me, "Senior, I think you are so carefree every day. You are not busy at all. You are extremely relaxed and have made so many friends. "

"Oh, how many do I send every day?"

"Three or four, one in the morning, one or two at noon and one at night."

I'm laughing in my heart. I'm not so busy that I can't even eat, but I'm not as leisurely as you said. In fact, I want to ask him, you brush your circle of friends from morning till night, do you know what others send?

Do you know that maybe I just threw a few friends out at random, and I don't know what others sent, but I'll tell you the truth about this little white girl who hasn't stepped into the workplace: some content was forwarded to her friends by her boss.

Later, it was discovered that not only this schoolmate, but also many people can judge whether others are busy or idle by the number of friends.

With too much hair, I feel that people love to pretend to be forced and relaxed.

Little or no hair is the legendary lonely teenager.

Wrong wrong, now it's time to tell you the truth! The number of friends has little to do with whether a person is busy or idle. After all, you will always be two people living in a circle of friends.

02

I know a person who never sends friends.

People nowadays generally have a habit. After adding a person as a friend, they immediately check his circle of friends to understand his personality, temperament and hobbies.

But add his circle of friends and you will find that you have found nothing.

He doesn't give anything, that is, he gives one in about ten months, which is really nice today.

You must think that this person is inscrutable, and he may be a master who is really working hard instead of working hard in a circle of friends.

But you are actually wrong. When you are speculating about his profundity, he is watching other people's circle of friends from beginning to end, he is playing the glory of the king, he is playing TV series, and he is sleeping.

He said he didn't like to send friends, and there was nothing to send.

Yes, do you want to play the glory of the king Live? Those who always show off in the circle of friends have something to show off to a great extent. A circle of friends is just a small place to show your success.

Why do some people like to send friends so much, and some people don't send anything? Is the former too idle and the latter too busy? The former is too melodramatic and the latter is too pragmatic? It's time to tell the truth.

03

Why do some people never send friends? Something like this:

Personality makes it so

You must have met such a person. He can send nothing to his circle of friends, but he knows exactly which one in the circle of friends has just given birth to several piglets. This kind of person's character is like that, he only likes to see everything about others, and he doesn't like others to know everything about himself.

However, there is a saying that is worth pondering. It is said that people who never send friends are the most terrible. Because you can't guess such a person, you have no idea what he likes, hates or thinks. Maybe he is planning something bad for you through your circle of friends, and you don't know it yet. He didn't say a word, stayed in the dark and watched your every move. Think about it. Is it creepy?

When we grow up, we don't have to show off a hairpin anymore.

The older you get, the more mature you become, and the less you want to make friends.

In high school, I drank a cup of milk tea for a few dollars and sent a circle of friends. When I grow up, I don't want to send a circle of friends even if I get gold bars.

When you are 18 years old, you will send 10 messages a day, and after 30 years old, you will send a message every 10 day.

18 years old, moaning and moaning are common in daily life. After the age of 30, hair bands have also become a kind of marketing, outlining their own image, marketing themselves, forbearing their emotions, and there are no ignorant teenagers.

If you look at a person's circle of friends, from one day 10 posts to one day 10 posts, maybe he is nothing but growing.

It's really not just a busy day.

Do Ma Yun, Li Yanhong and Ma Hua Teng send their friends away?

I don't know. I don't have their circle of friends.

Maybe some people are really busy, too busy to make friends. Similarly, they have no time to meet their friends.

If you are really busy, having no time to post also means having no time to read.

If you have plenty of time to watch it, but never post it, with all due respect, you are more leisure than those who send friends every day.

04

So who often sends friends?

Because you are my fan, because you are reading my article word for word, so I open my heart and reveal my chest, no, reveal my heart and tell you the truth:

I am a person who likes to make friends.

Now that you have told the truth, let's say a little more.

I send a circle of friends, more of which is self-marketing. I have nearly 1 100 WeChat friends, many literary friends, some customers, some fans, a few editors, colleagues, relatives and friends, and WeChat business.

The composition of my circle of friends is this:

Article+copywriting 70% eat, drink and be merry (plus selfie) 10%? I am awesome (I think) 10%

And 10% everything in the east, west, north and south (including what the boss asked to forward).

However, I follow these principles when making friends: personality, sunshine, compulsion and culture.

I want others to know that I can write articles and copy, and I write well. I like reading, and I am a 24-degree student who pretends to read.

And most of the time, I sent a circle of friends and left, and I didn't have time to look at the circle of friends sent by others.

People who mix in the self-media writing circle like me (I am a sideline) are more or less like me. Every circle of friends I send is not white-haired, much like the WeChat business in the media culture.

Yes, another frequent circle of friends is WeChat business.

However, the more WeChat business is sent, it can only be said that he is dedicated and unprofessional.

Transfer screenshots, luxury yachts, long-legged sunglasses and chat records are all very low.

I won't hack some WeChat business unless I hack everything I hate. As a writer, planner and copywriter, when I brush my circle of friends occasionally, I will look at their copywriting and tell the truth. I really learned a lot.

In addition to the WeChat business, there are mothers with babies, immature babies, 36-degree narcissistic selfie maniacs, the second generation who show off their wealth, people who live too colorful lives, or extroverted optimists who naturally like to share and make friends every day.

As I said above, people who don't send things should be careful occasionally, but people who pretend to send friends according to a set of templates should also be careful. They package themselves as domain experts through WeChat and Hebai. You are separated by wechat, but you don't know.

Oh, there is another one who likes to broadcast hard and get ahead, and often makes a circle of parties.

They are not on the way to class, or in the last row of the scene where celebrities and big coffees gather, or they can easily study in the official WeChat accounts. What a hardworking boy.

It's just that I really hope they are really trying, not putting on a show. After all, they need to accumulate if they want to succeed, and they need to calm down and do something seriously. In addition to live friends, you must also know how to accumulate.

I know a senior who often says that he is working hard in the circle of friends, but in fact he is really working hard and excellent. His life is as wonderful as his circle of friends.

Good night and wish you a wonderful life.