What do you think of a 55-year-old graduate student who was defrauded of RMB 350,000 in online dating?

Maybe women always get carried away in what they think of as love.

What happened

Maybe as I got older, I began to yearn for the sweet life of others. It just so happened that my aunt accidentally met a 'high-quality' man, and they chatted for a long time and felt particularly speculative. , everything seems to be just right. The sweet words and greetings made the aunt feel the warmth of being cared for, and made the aunt's heart throb again after enduring loneliness for a long time. .But they had a purpose from the beginning, just to lure the aunt into this "pig-killing plate" scam. After getting along for a long time, I felt that I had gained the trust of the aunt, and they started to get down to business. The aunt was defrauded of 350,000 yuan.

The feeling of loneliness in middle age

It can be seen that this aunt is very lonely. Let alone love, she may not even have true friendship. Whenever she has a friend with whom she can discuss things, the other person will remind her to be careful about the online pig-killing plate. Oh, maybe, but this aunt doesn't believe that her "boyfriend" whom she thinks about day and night and loves sincerely would lie to her. Even the policeman’s advice to the aunt was not believed at first. How can one easily believe the sweet words of men on the Internet but not believe the police’s dissuasion at the same time? What a contradictory individual!

The positioning of oneself is not accurate enough

A 55-year-old aunt should put stability first, and she should never engage in virtual online dating. If it were reality A little fresh-faced person can seduce you with his sweet talk, and at least you can enjoy it with your money. In online virtual love, you can't meet the other person in person and you can't determine the other person's real situation. It's completely irrational to fall in love with someone who is older than you and still asks for money.

The online pig-killing plate scam is superb and constantly improving

1. Use specific behaviors to arouse certain emotions

Self-exposure, this It is the best way to bring people closer.

2. High degree of customization of the communication process

There will be no copying and pasting in the chat. Judging from the wording, it is a very sincere and real communication.

3. Retreat in order to advance

He will not reveal his purpose frequently. Until you bite the bait yourself and raise your curiosity, he will still retreat in order to advance, saying that he does not want both parties to Relationships have too much to do with monetary benefits, and then the purpose (for you to invest, or participate in a side business, etc.) is converted into proof of our close relationship. If you mention it later, it will only be regarded as an opportunity for the relationship between the two parties to lose vigilance.

Scammers are far more sophisticated than we think, and they are getting better and better. Everyone must keep their eyes open and stay vigilant to avoid being deceived!