How can my mother-in-law wait on her daughter-in-law when she is paralyzed?

When your mother-in-law is paralyzed, as a daughter-in-law, you need to provide love and care as much as possible. Here are some specific suggestions:

1. Arrange daily diet: ensure that the mother-in-law has enough food and water every day. If your mother-in-law can't eat it by herself, you can cut the food into small pieces or stir it into a paste to help her eat it.

2. Maintain hygiene: change the sheets and clothes for mother-in-law regularly, and keep the room clean and hygienic. If your mother-in-law can't take a shower or go to the toilet by herself, you can help her with personal hygiene.

3. Help mother-in-law to do some simple activities, such as sitting up, standing and walking. This helps to prevent muscle atrophy and other complications.

4. Seek professional help: If your mother-in-law is seriously ill, you can ask a doctor or nurse for professional nursing advice about her illness.

5. Arrange family support: discuss with other family members how to share the responsibility of taking care of her mother-in-law, and ensure that everyone has enough time and energy to take care of her mother-in-law.

6. Establish social networks: Helping mother-in-law to establish social networks and communicate with other neighbors or patients will help improve her mother-in-law's emotional state.

7. Give emotional support: communicate with your mother-in-law as much as possible, listen to her needs and feelings, and give her emotional support and care.

In the process of taking care of your mother-in-law, you should be patient and understanding, and avoid accusations or criticisms. At the same time, we should also pay attention to our physical and mental health and seek appropriate support and help.