#Why do some people talk so much but achieve nothing?

Have you ever heard a story, "People who behave perfectly on the surface may be the most cunning people."

These people are friends with you, who has a straightforward personality, all day long. The kind of person who appears to be capable, speaks great principles, acts in a grand manner, thinks that his own principles and self-created planes are always perfect, or is excellent, and can speak well, and has a wide range of contacts because of this ability, are actually just idiots. Because they use their good side as a means to expand their interpersonal relationships, the temperament and style they show in front of others may always be perfect, but you have to know that there are no perfect people in the world. Too close to perfect means there must be something wrong.

Deliberate and over-emphasis on virtue is actually to use the principles of saints to package themselves every day and try to impress others. When they emphasize virtue and ability in public places, they are not very social in comparison. You always look a little inferior in front of others. Now you understand why you always move forward alone until you are tired and tired of the world. From the very beginning, all your interpersonal resources have been taken away by them using this packaged interpersonal expansion method.

Wait until real emotional problems happen to you. You will discover their true colors. They will only stand aside and talk sarcastically and talk about their own truths. At this time, they will also use you to expand their status in front of others.

Or they will find an excuse to avoid you. You can try it next time.

You have to know that when the wheel of reason runs over people's emotions every day, it becomes unreasonable and unreasonable. There is no rounded or slightly flawed soul, perfect personal principles, perfect actions, honorable ancestors, and powerful minds. Using the irrefutable virtues of others to kidnap others instead of relying on natural attraction will not only act in a rigid manner, have a ferocious expression, and have sharp eyes. , imposing one's own understanding of ethics on others will lead to domestic cold violence every day, will impose moral oppression and restraint on others, and will harm others. My father is such a person. When he approaches you, You will feel an oppressive atmosphere that is too serious. People must dare to show their flaws and reveal their true selves in front of others. People can even be silly and cute, but everyone must communicate naturally together. In fact, it is beautiful.