I want to say something from the heart.

First, don't complain to anyone, because 20% people don't care, and the remaining 80% will be happy. Straighten your mind and follow yourself gently. Life is to cry for yourself and laugh for others!

Second, don't get acquainted with anyone too quickly. Don't think the topic is the same from the beginning. You have a lot in common. You are bosom friends who have known each other for a long time. Language is often false, and what we experience together is true.

Third, I always want to do something when I am unhappy, such as cutting my hair short, running for 10 kilometers, and deleting all my friends and Weibo. In fact, you can only live well, life is not easy, take care of yourself.

4. Politeness and upbringing are not only dry, but also considerate and considerate of others, which tests not only emotional intelligence, but also your kindness.

Five, get along with people: you respect me, I respect you, you ignore me, I ignore you, it's as simple as that! Don't be used to ungrateful people; Don't feed your ungrateful heart.

6. When you are constantly worried, it means that you need to go out and see the world. See different scenery, meet different people and things, and you will know that your fault is to think too much.

Seven, since childhood, we have heard the most: "You should be sensible", "You should be promising" and "You should get ahead", but we seldom hear "You should be happy".

Eight, before adulthood, the love in my heart is always unspeakable, but the hate in my heart is unscrupulous; As an adult, liking a person becomes outspoken, but hating it is all buried in my heart.

Nine, people who haven't contacted for a long time don't need to contact again. We have worked hard, lived our lives, and there is no intersection. What should stay in the past, let it stay in the past. If it's fate, we'll meet again. If not, you might as well not read it. That's it.

10. People who really care about you will find fault when nothing happens and hold your hand and say nothing when something happens. Supervise you in prosperity and support you in adversity. It is enough for such a person to meet three or two people in his life!

Eleven, the more people with stories are quiet and simple, and the more superficial and thin people are more impetuous and uneasy. When you reach a certain age, you should learn to be taciturn, and every sentence should be useful and weighty. Emotions are invisible, big things don't matter, and they have their own bottom line.

No matter what everyone in the world says, I think my feeling is right. No matter what others think, I won't disturb my rhythm. You can stick to what you like, but not what you don't like. -Haruki Murakami

Thirteen, I hope that when you are hit, remember your own preciousness and resist malice; I hope that when you are confused, you firmly believe in your own preciousness, love what you love, do what you should do, listen to your heart, and ask for nothing more.

Sometimes you let go of something, not because you are suddenly willing to give up, but because the deadline has come, you have enough willfulness, and you have matured a lot. You know it's time to turn the page.

Fifteen, in fact, there are many people you can't stay. In the end, you will find fewer and fewer people around you, where is the distance and where is the time. Everyone is growing and changing, and the years have made us more and more silent. How many friendships, and finally only praise.

Sixteen, isn't that what people do? They are sober-minded when comforting others, and can't extricate themselves immediately when encountering difficulties. I know everything, but my emotions are at work, and the story is too provocative.

In fact, we just want to find someone who can get along, get along well, be comfortable together, miss it a little after being apart for a long time, want to make a scene after being quiet for a long time, and regret giving up immediately after quarreling. Love is like this, so is friendship.