What can parents with high emotional intelligence do to make their children love learning more?

No child is born with conscious learning. A child who studies consciously cannot do without the supervision of his parents, especially the children in primary school.

The problem is that most parents spend time urging their children, but the effect is very poor: children procrastinate on their homework, no matter how they urge them; Don't concentrate when doing homework, look around and ask questions; In this case, it is likely that the parents' supervision method is wrong.

How to let children learn actively? Parents with high emotional intelligence should do three things well, which are simple and practical!

1. Ensure that children at home have a quiet learning environment.

If children want to learn to concentrate, parents should first create a quiet and peaceful family environment for their children. We should know that the family is the cradle of many habits of children, and the cultivation of focused habits can not be separated from the support of a quiet family environment.

In a quiet environment, children can avoid being disturbed, keep their attention on one thing for a long time, realize the passage of time, and then spontaneously improve the efficiency of doing things.

Having a relatively quiet learning environment is the premise and foundation for completing good homework.

2, the provisions of the study and homework time

Before the child writes his homework, discuss with him: How much homework is there today? Set a time for him to start and finish writing, and set a time for him to finish his homework.

People often say that death is the primary productive force, and this sentence also applies to children.

Deadline is an invisible pressure, which can help children quit disorder and procrastination in homework.

Setting the completion time of homework can help children manage their time better.

Don't supervise children's homework like a supervisor.

Many parents like to watch their children do their homework and then find fault with them. One minute I think his handwriting is ugly, and the next I say he writes too hard.

Children feel that they always have eyes on themselves, and even dare not write easily, for fear of being scolded by their parents for making mistakes. Not only invisibly destroys the child's concentration, but also makes the child feel great pressure.

Parents must get rid of the role of "supervisor" and not always tell their children what to do. When parents no longer supervise their children like supervisors and children become masters of their own lives and studies, they can grow up healthier and achieve greater progress and success.

The famous Russian educator makarenko said:

Calm, serious and practical guidance is the proper external performance of family education, and it should not be bossy, angry, shouting, pleading or pleading.

No matter how naughty a child is, he is eager for more patience and recognition from his parents.

So pay attention to tone and attitude when writing homework.