The performance of a heartless person

With the development of social times, the social and economic level is constantly improving, and people's quality of life is gradually changing. At the same time, all kinds of people appeared. In today's fierce social competition, there are many opportunities and challenges before us. We can find that people who can succeed and seize opportunities are often smart or have high emotional intelligence.

On the contrary, they often don't like to use their brains, and even some fools are prone to failure.

In modern society, people will weigh the pros and cons before doing anything, and care about the gains and losses. They will not only devote their lives to immediate interests, but also will not ruin their lives.

At the same time, there are many fools in this world. They don't know how to get along with people, how to communicate with people, how to communicate with people, and how to deal with things around them. This is called simpleness.

There are many forms of simplicity, which can also be reflected in the behavior of interpersonal communication. At the same time, not everyone can fake this behavior. As long as it is simple, it can be expressed through these three behaviors, which is also impossible for people to disguise.

First, I don't know how to read, how to read.

People living in this world, we should all learn to read words and look at colors, learn to look at other people's glances, and don't fail to understand some people's moral concepts, which will not be welcomed and loved by people.

Smart people judge the situation, observe words and observe colors. Once you find the opportunity and the spearhead, you will make the right choice at the first time and suit yourself. However, fools cannot see these subconscious things. They only care about superficial things, so they often take the blame, which brings you trouble and bad influence.

In fact, in my opinion, because no matter in the workplace or in interpersonal communication, many people who stab in the back and are careless can't see it. They don't know how to read words and observe colors. Therefore, in business, it is difficult for a simpleton to do his best.

In life, whether in life or in business, we should learn to read words and observe colors. We can't be like a fool without any brains. For our own career and life, we don't read words and observe colors, which will only bring us trouble.

Second, speak freely.

People say that disaster comes from the mouth, which is also the most common mistake made by simpletons. They just like to offend people and make people unhappy. The way to offend people is to open your mouth and talk nonsense. Obviously, some things are groundless. They are easy to believe, often spread to the outside world, and don't leave anyone with face.

And believe it or not, he likes to talk nonsense in front of his clients. Even sometimes, each of us can't tell whether we are careless or deliberately so outspoken.

Our mouths are used to communicate and talk, not to let us talk openly and uncultured, so chatting openly with others will make others feel that they have no emotional intelligence and are careless.

Neighbors' sharp-toothed eloquence can make people happy, make many friends, accumulate popularity and make plans for their future. However, talking without thinking will only be full of nonsense, which will only make people feel heartless.

Third, there is no principle and bottom line.

In this world, each of us needs to have our own principles and beliefs, and at the same time, we must have our own bottom line and not be unscrupulous. This will only make people feel stupid and unable to do things.

However, fools have no principles and bottom lines, and more still have no independent thinking ability and their own values. They don't know whether things are right or wrong. What they do and what they should not do depends on the guidance and judgment of others.

If you are lucky and meet a kind person, they will make the right choice. But when you meet bad people, they will become bad and become a person without principles and bottom lines.

Simple-minded people rarely have their own friends in this world, because they have no bottom line in everything, and they will not bow to anyone for their own life and career, let alone flatter.

Therefore, in life, they are unpopular, and some things they may do are incorrect, which will offend people and bring bad influence to people.

Simple-minded people do everything without their own opinions, can't decide things by themselves, and have no principles and bottom lines, which will hurt many close friends.

In ancient social life, our cultural context actually respected simplicity, regarded simplicity as purity, and said some simple words to some children.

In fact, "heartlessness" is by no means synonymous with purity and sincerity. It is a manifestation of a younger psychological level, which is characterized by excessive innocence and naivety. Generally speaking, "simple-minded" people often imagine the world too beautiful, and then they can't be responsible for their own lives or their own actions.

In my opinion, simplicity is a character defect. They can't see other people's glances and won't do anything happy. They will only make people feel that he is intentional and sad, and will not make friends like him.

This kind of personality defect prevents them from seeing a lot of things, which makes them form a careless character. At the same time, they will also do things that violate the normal values of human beings. They are outspoken, don't know how to read, and often come to a dead end.

We don't have our own principles and bottom lines. In life, we should try to stay away from such people and not be biased by them.