Reader's Record: Do you know how realistic it is to be a soldier for a girl with a military relationship?

I read many girls' posts, saying that they like soldiers, that soldiers are heroic and heroic, and that they don't get married unless they are soldiers. I felt funny after listening to it. Tell me about my military love story. Let's think about it after listening.

After graduating from college, I found a financial job in Guangzhou with a good income. The year before last, I met my ex-boyfriend, a soldier, and a client of our company. He often goes to the company to purchase, and always reports false accounts when he asks me for invoices. One to two, he invited me to dinner to thank him. After getting familiar with it, he began to pursue me (omit 10 thousand words here), saying that the soldier was stupid, but romantic, and all kinds of tricks were used.

After being together, we became estranged. He lobbied me to resign and find a job near their army so that we could meet every day. I resigned because I loved him and because he said that we could get married if we were promoted to company commander in the next year.

I rented a house near the army. He always goes out on dates in the middle of the night. I waited at home like a little wife. It was really boring afterwards. I looked for several jobs, but he stopped me, not because I was too far away from him, that is, I was afraid that I would be taken away by other men. Finally, I stopped looking for a job and lived on my savings. Yes, you're right. He didn't give me money to spend. I used my own money.

Last year, in our second year together, he was transferred to Zhanjiang, and I followed him, just like an supernumerary family member. At this time, he was promoted, but refused to get married, saying that he was young and would struggle for another two years, so that I could go out and look for a job. However, soon after I found a job, I found that he met female netizens more than once. Angry and anxious, I simply resigned and stared at him. Only then did he restrain himself. Just then, I was pregnant, but he cried and begged me to get married, saying that I would be promoted once every four years. He just swore in front of the leader that he would work with peace of mind until he was 30, so that I could understand him.

He is one year older than me. I think this man is very enterprising, and it doesn't hurt to get married in two years. So I aborted the child and left me with sequelae. I didn't expect him to go out with another woman behind my back in order to support himself and stay in my hometown.

That woman is the daughter of the owner of a local KTV chain store. She is rich and powerful and doesn't know how to hook up. Anyway, every time I went back to Zhanjiang, he always stopped me, and even lied that the troops had to be deployed again recently, so that I could wait patiently in my hometown. I waited for more than three months because he often called me and said some affectionate words. I didn't think much about it, but when I returned it to him, I found that we shared a rental house and all his things were emptied.

I went to him in a panic, and he explained that I was afraid of military inspection. I believed it, but I always felt something was wrong. Until two days later, the woman came to me and told me straight away that they were together!

I questioned him, but he said helplessly, let me let him go. Said he couldn't help it, said the woman's family had prepared a wedding room ... did you hear that? I fell in love with him and never asked for material things. He betrayed me!

I gave him all the best years of a woman, but he was a scum.

In a rage, we broke up.

I wasted three good years for him.

Then I went back to Guangzhou and went to work again. I overheard my familiar friend talking about him. Only then did I know that he broke up with that woman and finally married a relative led by them ... I realized what love is. In his eyes, fame and fortune are more important than anything else.

Many girls think soldiers are reliable. I'm not biased. After all, there are good ones But what I saw and heard with my own eyes was that not only my predecessor was a realistic soldier, but also most of his comrades around him were realistic. In order to change jobs in the future, the other half they are looking for is either rich and powerful or has a backer at home. Those girls who are devoted to love but have no strength are simply not within the scope of their marriage and love. Even if they try their best to chase you, it's just a dew marriage. It is impossible to want to last forever.

Therefore, girls who have military love, please think twice before military love, and don't let reality hurt you!